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Author Topic: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?  (Read 9158 times)

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #40 on: November 12, 2012, 10:45:22 AM »
Nice point, mooncake.  I didn't even look at that angle.

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #41 on: November 12, 2012, 10:47:59 AM »
definitely not!  it just means that you know how to value yourself....don't mind her! d sha mkakadagdadg ganda syo  ;)

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #42 on: November 12, 2012, 05:43:24 PM »
so parang insecure yung friend mo sayo?
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #43 on: November 16, 2012, 10:23:17 PM »
[textspeak!] ba itsura ng friend mo?mukhang siya ang insecure eh :P
wala namang masama kung mahilig ka magaayos try mo kayang turuan siya magaayos para maintindihan nya :)

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #44 on: November 22, 2012, 12:39:16 PM »
Hi mga sis, gusto ko lang sana hingi ng advice sainyo. Kasi may isa ako kaibigan na sinabihan ako na insecure ako dahil daw lagi ako nagpapaganda. Ang tanong ko lang, kasalanan ba kung mahilig ako magayos? Gusto ko lang presentable ako. Hindi naman sa pagyayabang pero alam ko na maganda ako. Dahil lahat ng tao pinupuri ako. At dati ako flight attendant. Naisip ko lang na bakit niya ako sasabihan na insecure kung nagkkwento lang naman ako sakanya na magpapaayos ako ng buhok ko. Nasanay ako na lagi maayos ichura ko. Hindi ko alam kung ako ba insecure or siya. I need advice. Tia!

obviously siya ang insecure at hindi ikaw, ako gusto kong mag ayos kasi i want to feel good about myself, hindi para magpa pansin, sobra naman kaisipan yung ganun!
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #45 on: November 22, 2012, 12:46:20 PM »
Hi mga sis, gusto ko lang sana hingi ng advice sainyo. Kasi may isa ako kaibigan na sinabihan ako na insecure ako dahil daw lagi ako nagpapaganda. Ang tanong ko lang, kasalanan ba kung mahilig ako magayos? Gusto ko lang presentable ako. Hindi naman sa pagyayabang pero alam ko na maganda ako. Dahil lahat ng tao pinupuri ako. At dati ako flight attendant. Naisip ko lang na bakit niya ako sasabihan na insecure kung nagkkwento lang naman ako sakanya na magpapaayos ako ng buhok ko. Nasanay ako na lagi maayos ichura ko. Hindi ko alam kung ako ba insecure or siya. I need advice. Tia!
Dear, siya ang insecure.
I've come across people like that. It's not that you are insecure but you know your worth. Tama yan, you want to be presentable. Hindi ka naman nananakit ng tao, you are doing it because you want to be YOUR BEST SELF. I think that friend of yours is just inggit because she cannot be like you. Deep inside, she actually admires how you are able to make yourself look so put together. That's something she can't achieve so dinadaan niya sa panlalait. I've had encounters with people like that and more often than not, if you look at their background, what they tell you really does stem from their own insecurity and frustration sa sarili nila.

So chill, keep looking good and feeling good about yourself. Don't let anyone transmit their nega vibes to you.

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #46 on: December 05, 2012, 07:49:54 AM »
Not necessarily naman siguro na kapag nag-aayos ka ay insecure ka na. I know some na talagang ganon. I mean hindi sila lumalabas ng house ng hindi nakalipstick  ;D But may point din naman siya kasi meron ding iba na nag-aayos kasi insecure like what happened to me. Hindi kasi ako palaayos talaga kahit nasa office ako I don't wear make up talaga and hair ko usually nakalugay or tali lang. Kahit sa pananamit ganon din plain lang and simple. But after I learned about this girl named marie na piniflirt husband ko sa fb, napansin ko na kapag lumalabas kami I make sure na maganda ako. Pero dahil hindi ko talaga siya nature, sablay din minsan hehe.
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #47 on: December 05, 2012, 05:32:54 PM »
a big NO. ako super hilig ko mag ayos kahit nga nasa house lang ako at alam kong hindi ako lalabas nag aayos pa rin ako nagpaplantsa parin ako ng hair naglalagay ng blush etc hahahahhaha. i just want na pagtingin ko sa mirror ay palagi akong ayos..nothing wrong with that naman dba...

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #48 on: December 05, 2012, 06:15:41 PM »
hindi ako mahilig mag ayos because i feel good about myself pero there are times na gusto ko rin na naka ayos ako not because i want to look good in the eyes of other people, i just want to feel better.
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #49 on: December 08, 2012, 10:06:59 AM »
insecure agad? hindi pwedeng high-maintenance muna?! peace girls :)

Tamaaahhhhh!!!! ;D nice one sis! ;) :D ;D

binasa ko agad ito sis dahil mahilig din ako magpapaganda. ^_^ si friend mo ang insecure. wala naman kasalan if mahilig ka mag ayos at mag paganda. you just want to look presentable and it feels good to look good naman diba...
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #50 on: December 08, 2012, 10:15:30 AM »
Ouch. Ang sakit! :D
 

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #51 on: December 10, 2012, 05:48:41 AM »
Hindi naman siguro. Porket ba mahilig magpaganda insecure na agad? I agree with killbill. And there's nothing wrong about wanting to look your best. Insicure sayo kaibigan mo kaya n'ya nasasabi yan. Ayusan mo din kasi sha. Hehe  ;D
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #52 on: December 11, 2012, 07:48:26 AM »
NO. hinde ako mahilig mag ayos pero pag lumalabas ako ill make sure maayos ako. not because im insecure but to feel good about yourself. alangan naman lalabas ka mukha kang basahan. kahit simple kelangan mo mag ayos. ang insecure may make up or wala insecure na yan!

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #53 on: December 12, 2012, 11:53:32 PM »
Hi newbie and pa join po ako^-^ ms.mishca i have friend also na ganyan, yun bang lagi na lang napapansin even your zit pero yun looks nila hindi mo naman dinedetalye sa kanila kung may flaws ba  kasi nga syempre minsan ayaw mo naman maka offend, kasi nga friend mo dba? mga doble karang tao mga ganyan, basta naexperience ko lang may mga kaibigan na parang hindi sila totoo kasi syempre kung kaibigan mo hindi ka gaganunin diba?  mararamdaman mo kapag masyado nang foul yun sinasabi, nakakapikon basta hindi mo kasi inaasahan na ganun sasabihin nya sayo depende kung pikon kang tao pero kasi basta ang alam ko a friend is always happy when your happy ganun, at ganun ka din sa kanya
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #54 on: December 16, 2012, 12:25:02 AM »
@FieryAngel

I remember my father in law. He would tell his kids (kwento to ni hubby kasi di ko na sya naabutan ng buhay) "never befriend ugly people. they are born with angst in the world"..

Di naman kasi maiiwasan ang inggitera sa mga friends. may mga ganyan ang ang dami naglipana sa paligid natin. ang magagawa na lang natin is to learn how to block their negative vibes towards us. mahirap na mahawa sa pagka nega ng ibang tao. aminin man natin o sa hindi pag may mga negative sa paligid natin, damay rin how we think di ba.. so alisin ang stress...

Sis i love what your father in law said! So true! Kapag di kagandahan, siya pa ang masama ang ugali :)
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #55 on: December 21, 2012, 01:16:09 PM »
NO. hinde ako mahilig mag ayos pero pag lumalabas ako ill make sure maayos ako. not because im insecure but to feel good about yourself. alangan naman lalabas ka mukha kang basahan. kahit simple kelangan mo mag ayos. ang insecure may make up or wala insecure na yan!

i agree, and dapat din naman talaga na maayos tayo, part of respecting ourselves yan...

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #56 on: December 21, 2012, 02:33:34 PM »
I don't think so. Nag-aayos ako para naman hindi ako mukhang losyang pag labas ng bahay hindi dahil insecure ako. It's something you do for yourself nadin, syempre pag nag-aayos ka it makes you feel good. Ayusan mo yung friend mo baka naman naiinggit, naghahanap ng karamay hehe.

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #57 on: January 02, 2013, 10:57:10 AM »
Hi mga sis, gusto ko lang sana hingi ng advice sainyo. Kasi may isa ako kaibigan na sinabihan ako na insecure ako dahil daw lagi ako nagpapaganda. Ang tanong ko lang, kasalanan ba kung mahilig ako magayos? Gusto ko lang presentable ako. Hindi naman sa pagyayabang pero alam ko na maganda ako. Dahil lahat ng tao pinupuri ako. At dati ako flight attendant. Naisip ko lang na bakit niya ako sasabihan na insecure kung nagkkwento lang naman ako sakanya na magpapaayos ako ng buhok ko. Nasanay ako na lagi maayos ichura ko. Hindi ko alam kung ako ba insecure or siya. I need advice. Tia!

Naku sis, baka siya ang insecure.  :)
Nagpapaganda ka lang naman e to be presentable.
Ok lang yun sis. Parang it's normal to all girls naman sis.
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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #58 on: January 04, 2013, 12:53:02 AM »
Nag-aayos ka dahil you love yourself and the people you love din..like if you're married kawawa naman asawa mo kung di ka nagaayos at mukha kang dugyot di ba? or kung may anak ka baka mainsecure pa ang mga anak mo kung di ka nag-aayos na para kang yaya or katulong nila. actually, pag di ka nagaayos meaning pwedeng depressed ka sa life mo. sad sa side ng friend mo na hindi niya alam na siya ang insecure.  ;D di niya maaccept na siya ang insecure kaya ayun binabato sayo!  ;D

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Re: Kapag mahilig ka mag-ayos, ibig sabihin insecure ka?
« Reply #59 on: January 04, 2013, 07:05:38 AM »
pwede ding insecure pero hindi mo lang alam because sometimes, we want to always look better than any prettier girls out there. but i cant even say insecure is the correct word to use kase truly, we just want to always look our best among the rest.

i admire girls or women na pala ayos. remember to always look presentable kahit punta lang sa 711, kase di mo alam baka may makakita sayo na kakilala na influential sa circle mo pero seldom mo makita, kase kung ano last na kita sayo ng mga tao ang tatatak sa kanila for a long time at machichismis pa sa ibang tao.

now the frienship part, no doubt insecure nga sya. other than that, baka naman there are other qualities ng friend mo worth considering than mainis, kase friend mo nga sya eh. kung mas madame kayong nega moments, layo na lang muna ng marealize nya ang foul na ginawa nya. you will know if she is worth keeping kase one day, mamimiss mo sya at mapapangiti sa dame ng good memories nyo, other than ang insecurity nya sa looks.

 

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