signs that your guy is cheating on you

[bubbles_sandy]

aside from female instinct, any other signs na malakas kutob mo he is cheating..

[klengmorales]

based on experience

Laging naka offline ang phone. Kasi nagpapalit palit ng sim
ayaw makipagdate
matutulog na daw pero may kachat/katext/ka call
laging mainit ang ulo
laging pagod at haggard
hindi nagpapaalam na aalis
dati lagi akong kasama sa mga lakad..

[stylishmomy]

other wives who's been cheated would say the opposite, their husbands became sweet and more caring. It's to compensate on the cheating. So basically, if there's sudden changes then that's a sign to watch out for.

[bubbles_sandy]

agree ako dun sa mga sudden changes.
yung feeling mo na ang daming secrets, magugulat
ka na lang, may makikita or marinig ka na parang off or hindi
tama

[aquacharly]

other wives who's been cheated would say the opposite, their husbands became sweet and more caring. It's to compensate on the cheating. So basically, if there's sudden changes then that's a sign to watch out for.

Lols, true.
Basta changes in habits
Time blocks that cannot be explained

[@JLO]

natatawa ko,   i just remember this...

there was one time i call him, he said na nasa CR lang daw sya kaya di nya nasagot..

then a week later.. i suprisingly call him again... di ulit sinagot kasi nasa CR na naman sya...

sobra naman timing yan :S..


i never call him again after that hahahaha....

[autophobic]

from my own experience
-idea nya na magkasunod ang cp # namin pero all of a sudden nagchange ng network/number.
-late umuwe or worst kinaumagahan na.
-di sinasagot ang tawag unless emergency.
-di na active sa fb and ayaw nya na itag ko skanya pic nmin ng anak nya na kasama sya.
-my application lock sa cp.
-kung dati ayaw nya umalis ng di kme magkasama then biglang laging may sariling lakad na.
-ilang beses nagpahaging na "paglaki ni baby mamamasyal kame di namin sasama si mama"
-isasama sa swimming ang baby namin dahil naiinggit sya sa mga kawork nya na kasama anak nila pero di ako kasama.
-sa harap ng magulang nya sinabihan ako ng t**** bobo at impakta.
-kapag natutulog na nakatalikod sya. pag ipapaharap mo galit pa.
-pag niyaya mo magsexy time sasabihan ka lang ng wag mo hawakan naiihi ako, ano ba? ang kati mo!, matulog kana!
-kapag aalis sa iba magpapaalam maliban sakin.
-nasa moa lang daw sya kainuman kawork nya pero pagsgot ng tawag ko sobrang tahimik.

and dami pang iba post ko nalang pag may naalala pa ko.

[Girltalker2]

^ pag hindi agad nasasagot ang calls or text. pagkatapos pag kasama mo naman sya, lagi naman hawak ang celphone nya. ano yun, iniiwan ang celphone nya sa kotse pag hindi ikaw ang kasama nya?

[i_v_y]

based on experience

- late umuuwi
- di mareach sa cellphone
- big deal kapag nung hiningi ko yung password sa facebook
- nagsisinungaling
- laging hawak ang cellphone at halos ayaw ipahawak sayo ang cellphone nia.

basta change in habits talaga.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

talaga pang accurate ang women's instinct?

is there a chance na paranoid lang, walang job so iba yung pinagkakaguluhan, masyadong nanonood ng telanovela?

i know maling-mali to. dahil i know na nothing can ever truly describe the feeling of being cheated, that i am a woman and my sympathy must go to the woman as well.

pero what if, di totoo yun? what if sinasaktan lang pala niya yung lalaki, adding stress to that person, bringing him closer to the threshold of heart attack for nothing?

i know na this is a little contradicting sa other kong mga posts dati, pero i'm just wondering. 

[Beng01]

based on personal experience :

- sa supermarket, nag titingin ng nivea for men, kung bagay daw ba sa kanya yun
- sa dept store nag eexplore ng perfumes, natuwa naman ako kasi at least maiiba din ang perfum nya
- tatawagan ako sa cp all of a sudden, to check kung nasaan ako. I thought he was being sweet at that time
- kaunting mali ko lang nagagalit kaagad, plus nagbibitaw ng masasamang salita sa akin...
 etc etc

bottom line, iyon pala may gf ng iba 

[stylishmomy]

my aunt caught my uncle cheating, aside from the woman's instinct...may mga changes talaga sa behavior.

Di pa tapos ang nightly news, he would say na inaantok na daw cya kaya mauna na cyang magpunta sa kwarto nila, my aunt followed and checked on him.. she found him wide awake and texting.

My uncle read the kabit's text (I love you too) while my aunt was behind him washing dishes (di siguro nya alam na mababasa ng aunt ko) he asked for a new perfume as his birthday gift, eh di pa naman ubos ang other perfumes nya.

[hermione28]

OT po ata pero wala po kasi akong makitang thread to post this, I just need advice.

4 years na kame ng boyfriend ko, taga province sya. minsan lang sya umuwi. last 2010 umuwi sya sa province nila, pag balik nya nalaman ko na niloko nya ko 2 girls pa! text lang naman "daw" hindi "daw" sila nagkita. nagkaayos naman kame.

tapos ngaun lang nasa province sya, mag katext kame nung october 26 all night sabi nya nasa bahay lang daw sya nanonood ng tv, etc., tapos kagabi inopen ko yung facebook nya may naka upload na pic na nakipag inuman pala sya nung 26. mga high school friends nya, marami sila at may mga girls din. wala naman syang katabing girl, pero dun lang sa pic, how would i know diba?

nagalit ako, pero sabi nya wala lang daw yung mga yun, sabi ko bakit kailangan nyang magsinungaling na nasa bahay lang sya kung wala syang gagawing masama diba?

What do you think po, is he cheating again?

[stylishmomy]

^red flag sis since he cheated before na kahit text lang, what assurance ba na di daw sila nag kita? and he now he lied once again...

[hermione28]

^thank you po. ano po kaya gagawin ko? we're together for 4 years ang hirap mag let go lalu na kung wala naman akong katibayan na may iba talaga sya.

pero once na maconfirm talagang may iba sya I'm very ready to let go. Strong naman ako eh.

Pero he lied, what should I do for now?

[bubbles_sandy]

^ang hirap if he already lied. been with
that situation.you know that something is wrong
kasi iba ang feeling talaga.

[stylishmomy]

^^kaw lang makapag decide whether you want to go on with the relationship sis or not, if you're still willing to trust him after the lies, if you want to give another chance.

[hermione28]

^thanks po. Alam ko naman po ako lang makakapag decide. Eto naguguluhan pa po ako as of now. Wala kasi talaga akong mahuli. Tapos kilala ko na kasi boyfriend ko we're together for 4 years, God fearing sya so kapag na mention na si God takot na yun, at for sure puro katotohanan na sasabihin nya.

Now he admits nagsinungaling sya, nag sorry naman. Tapos he keeps mentioning God, oo nagsinungaling daw sya but hindi daw sya nambabae, wala daw syang iba. Inom lang daw talaga yun. I'm a God fearing person din, so kahit galit ako pag si God nasa gitna di ko sya matiis. Ayoko namang isipin na ginagamit nya si God sa kalokohan nya, or ginagamit nya si God para hindi ako magalit, hindi sya ganong tao as far as I know.

So now gulong gulo talaga ko which is true.

[Chinito]

malalaman niyo ang signs sa mga activities ng mga bf nyo!

[stylishmomy]

^^follow your gut feeling sis.... I have nothing against religious people but I despise the ones who KEEPS mentioning God to justify their actions or the situations  coz most of the time, those people ang may mga ginagawang masama, hiding something or guilty of their actions.