I can totally relate to you sis mimiku
For me, it's a waste of time and i don't want to end up giving any false hope to the guy either. ganyan din ako, i always look for 'the spark.' Pag wala, wala talaga. First meeting pa lang, alam ko na kung boyfriend material or wala talagang patutunguhan.
same din comments ng ibang friends ko pero kilala ko na sarili ko. maybe it works for other people to date someone who's not their type thinking na baka ma develop later on.
Iba naman if you hang out
with a guy who happens to be just your friend and eventually na develop kayo, that's another t story.