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Author Topic: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?  (Read 3494 times)

lenjeearroyo24

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #20 on: October 12, 2012, 12:31:50 PM »
what do you think it takes to be friends with someone you've dated?

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #21 on: October 17, 2012, 05:46:46 AM »
I can totally relate to you sis mimiku.

For me, it's a waste of time and i don't want to end up giving any false hope to the guy either.  ganyan din ako, i always look for 'the spark.'  Pag wala, wala talaga.  First meeting pa lang, alam ko na kung boyfriend material or wala talagang patutunguhan.  :P

same din comments ng ibang friends ko pero kilala ko na sarili ko.  maybe it works for other people to date someone who's not their type thinking na baka ma develop later on. 

Iba naman if you hang out with a guy who happens to be just your friend and eventually na develop kayo, that's another t story.  ;)

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #22 on: October 20, 2012, 05:17:34 PM »
Its a waste of time for me. I would never date someone that I don't like.

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #23 on: October 20, 2012, 06:59:49 PM »
In some cases, Yes! I'm open for friendship naman eh.. Getting to know him more first.. I don't reject people kasi.. I always give chances.
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #24 on: October 20, 2012, 07:09:31 PM »
No, what's the point. Sa akin if ever, mgsasayang lang kami ng panahon.

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #25 on: October 27, 2012, 06:33:10 PM »
no. i dont wanna waste our time also.  gusto ko yung may spark din. :)
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #26 on: October 28, 2012, 05:48:54 AM »
i agree, i dont waste  time either, kumbaga sa buffet eh di ka naman pipili ng pagkaing ayaw mo talaga at di mo magugustuhan, pipiliin mo yung mukhang mouth-watering, palatable at alam mong mukhang masarap (kainin), i think same analogy goes with choosing men u want to go out with, the world is a smorgasbord of men so choose what only suits you ;), ayoko ring tumikim ng pagkain para i-try lang at isusuka ko rin naman eventually..hehe
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #27 on: October 28, 2012, 05:10:11 PM »
Er, no. why would I wanna waste my time, or his?

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #28 on: December 02, 2012, 10:32:37 PM »
No way. It's simple for me. I will not court someone I don't like for the sake of trying to be in a relationship when I know I will cheat in the future because I really don't like her.
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #29 on: December 02, 2012, 11:47:27 PM »
i did this. because just like what i read on some of the comments here, i'd like to give a 'chance'. Pero hindi pala dapat, unless you really want to date that person. Like really want to go out of your way to meet with that guy and be with him. I tried pero ayun mukhang napaasa ko si koya... i had to tell him to stop expecting and to stop waiting kasi wala naman sya aasahan.
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #30 on: December 04, 2012, 04:39:03 PM »
It's up to you actually  ;D Given na di mo nga like yung guy pero nung nag-date naman kayo, there's this something you'll appreciate him and probably you'll like him in a different way.

lenjeearroyo24

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #31 on: December 09, 2012, 07:26:05 PM »
yes,pero yung babastusin ako na parang akala niya just because  i went out with him he'd exect to score immediately after the date.na-experience ko na yun dati at badtrip talaga ako kasi the farthest i can go on a date is beso-beso lang muna.

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #32 on: December 20, 2012, 08:16:51 PM »
No siguro.. baka mag expect sya pag lumabas kami..
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #33 on: December 21, 2012, 01:28:11 PM »
Nagawa ko na to... nung time na 1st heartbroken ako... wala talaga syang itsura as in... we tried numerous dates, movies even went out of town with friends. pero la talaga eh... walang spark. Then i asked my self kung bakit... matangkad naman sya... maganda work... may condo unit na... yung tipong stable na talaga... kaya lang feeling gwapo twing nagkkwento. kaasar lang.
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #34 on: December 21, 2012, 01:56:31 PM »
No, I think it's a waste of time dating someone na di mo naman gusto especially kung umpisa palang medyo off na. It's still best to tell him straight up, you'll be doing both yourselves a favor.

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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #35 on: December 21, 2012, 09:25:37 PM »
now im considering it.   someone told me to at least date him once.  besides, it's just a lunch or dinner date.  and if i don't like it, then don't date him again.   ;D
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Re: Would you ever consider dating someone you don't like?
« Reply #36 on: January 24, 2013, 04:36:08 AM »
Yeah, you should at least give it a try. Malay mo he has the qualities pala that you've been looking for in a guy.

 

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