Ako din father ko yung madaming kabit. My dad's 67 years old, he's had 2 stokes, 1 was caused by my mom. Grabe kasi maka verbal abuse si mommy. Si mom naman naka 1 stroke na.
Ang hirap ng situation na yung elderly parents nagaaway, nakakatakot na anytime 1 of them will get a heart attack.
Dad's a chronic womanizer, from bank manager to katulong na 19 years old. Grabe i thought he would change since matanda na sya and na stroke na sya. Ilan beses ko na nahuli sa text, napaamin ko pa. We had a lot of serious talks. In a loving manner, i told him to change his ways specially because he's getting older, his time may come anyday and kung makasalanan parin sya he'll go straight to you know where... And i told him to try to endure my mom's verbal attacks kasi trust isnt easy to regain pero i think hindi nya rin kinaya.
My aunts told my that I was my dad's weakness, being the bunso and only daughter. Sakin sya pinakatakot na mawalan ng respeto sa kanya. But nothings changed...
Nakakaawa yung mom ko, kaso minsan yung mom ko din mahirap din mahalin even for us na mga anak nya. May ugali din kasi, selfish, masakit magsalita. She'll always be suspicious kahit wala talaga ginagawa yung dad ko. Throughout my college life she never helped me with school expenses, nagagalit sya pag humihingi ako, she'd tell me to go ask my father, pero nakakapag shopping sya sa zara, marks & spencers, armani... I grew up being verbally abused by my mom. But i still love them both.
So sobrang hirap para saming siblings yung pagaaway nila. We think they're both victims. And both have to work on themselves. Ano kayo maganda gawin? Counselling? Kanino?