this is just an observation girls ha, i hope i won't offend anyone.
many girls nowadays, don't know household chores and don't even know how to cook well
and my they drink a lot and party out a lot, they are no longer religious but more on spiritual, they would rather go malling than go to church, or stay home and rest
and because many are career-oriented they develop a subconscious that they don't need a partner to go through with life they project an aura that they can sustain their way of life all by themselves. some of them develop really strong character that pushes away all men (both prospects and opportunists)
in many adpects women are pushing to dominate men
call me old fashioned but i think men are more afraid to commit because women are out to dominate them and not submit to them. to criticize them and not support them. while i agree that there are men who are abusive of women, most men are still loving. only mas maingay lang yung mga magugulo ang buhay. it's just that we no longer know our places in the society, we get to complicate things and things really get complicated.
P.S. I would choose a girl who knows how to cook well than a girl who knows how to drink gallons of beer. ^_^