Darling, please hwag mo ko batuhin -- pero madami ako say to you.
Once upon a time, you had an affair with a married man. So do not say wala kang nakakaaway sa "ganito".
Do not also discount the wife of your kid's pop.
A WW (Wronged Woman, the wife nung kinabitan, for short) can accept sh1t happens; learn to forgive. Heck, even get around to include the ex-kab1tch in her prayers so she learns The Lesson, then her History will not repeat itself. But learn to forget? -- LOL.
So, IF the WW thinks/suspects/is misled to think you are back in monkey business with her husband -- darling, what you are going through is just the beginning. IMO, yang ganyan, pitik lang yan.
IMO again -- you have every reason to be afraid.
Coz, masama mapikon a WW. Sabi kasi -- the 1st Betrayal was her husband's mistake; the 2nd Betrayal is her stupidity. Papayag ba yang doble sagasa, tapos sya pa stup1d?
Better you ask her sa yo na lang her 2nd-hand depreciated husband; most probably she will readily hand him over, and tell you: Thank you, for taking my trash.
Look at your FB & the public image you project.
May mga girls - Teka, hini ko say ganito ka ha! --
May mga girls sa photos naka dikit boobs sa guy/guys? Sa FB pa sweettums/flirting with a guy/guys regardless of commitment status.
May mga girls pa text text pa dyan with quotations, mga Take Care! Ek ekkan.
Kasi puedeng sa mga girls na ganito eh -- "wala lang", walang malisya ang likas na ka-alembongan.
BUT, somebody out there may be feeling uneasy, losing her face to friends/family, becoming a butt of dudaduda remarks, or going though a bad time in a relationship -- and LOL, Merry Christmas -- there s that kind of girl. Naka sampay, naka all smiles, nakasaksak boobs -- in the photos with her man.
Sino ba, kahit me konting sayad, will go to the trouble of hounding a peaceful little woman minding her own business?
It takes time, money & effort yang pinaggagawa nya ha. So for sure, may issue yan with you.
Whoever it is, will not stop until her efforts are rewarded.
Do not assume babae ito. Puedeng a male or other-gender person.
IF I were in your high heels, I will look over those tinanggal ko sa FB ko.
What are the reasons to unfriend ba?
Kasi baduy? Kai will judge you? Or kasi, may tinatago ka?
It will really be more helpful, given the harassment, to not be blind by insisting wala kang ginagawa or nagawa to merit such kind of attention -- IMO. look at what you do, don mo magets ang clues.
(Don't bother looking at me, never tayo magka FB -- Lolz.)
Be mindful. Take care.
DEAR MODERATORS: IF anybody reports this post to urge you to slap me with a Warning! -- please take time to read the post. It is not offensive nor "bullying", nor targetting anyone in particular (TS included). It is just encouragement to "get real"; to look at one's case facts -- take it or leave it. Thank you.