Author Topic: Friends with benefits, FUBU, One Night Stand (thread 3) (Read 26554 times)

lenjeearroyo24 · « **Reply #60 on:** August 16, 2012, 06:12:02 pm »

this guy and i were going at it,and seemed pretty clear that sex was in the cards,so i asked if he had a condom.next thing i know,he is dressed and pissed off that i assumed we were going to go all the way.i've also been in the situation where i didn't broach the subject.so why not do all a favor and bring up or take birth control first.

av · « **Reply #61 on:** August 16, 2012, 09:32:52 pm »

In short, bawal ma develop ang feelings kapag nasa FUBU agreement ka. Dapat pure business lang.

berryblitz · « **Reply #62 on:** August 17, 2012, 12:19:59 am »

di ba usually ang FWB is may connection, even a little. i mean makakilala kayo, friends kayo, maaaring kind of a little MU, or may crush ka sa guy, or vise versa, or both may crush sa isa't isa. then may possibility na maging FWB.

glacy_rein · « **Reply #63 on:** August 17, 2012, 09:01:29 am »

^sometimes its just two strangers with motives. Hindi naman magwowork if walang "motive" or "gusto" or "balak" eh.

berryblitz · « **Reply #64 on:** August 17, 2012, 02:31:50 pm »

^ tipong may "spark" hehe

glacy_rein · « **Reply #65 on:** August 19, 2012, 12:49:28 am »

^you can say that though "spark" is commonly used for lovers. hehe. pero pwede din basta may "dating" may "balak" hehe

ciarra90210 · « **Reply #66 on:** August 19, 2012, 10:29:14 am »

I've been in this set-up (FWB) before, complicated by the fact that we're both in a long-term relationship at that time. Magkasama kami sa work and siguro dahil close kami, lagi kaming tinutukso ng mga kasamahan namin. Pero it never crossed my mind na something will happen between us. Then I resigned from my job and nagkaroon ng inuman sa house ko a few days before my last day. Naiwan siya and yun before he left he hugged me and said that he's going to miss me.. then one thing led to another..

I was so guilty but at the same time para bang nagkaroon ng kulay ang monotonous life ko. Kaya naulit pa ng ilang beses for a few months then halos nawala na rin communication namin since I left the workplace. Mahirap because he's also my friend kaya parang I'm starting to fall for him na rin, but I know na I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with him because I know him too well. We still communicate every once in a while though pero yung "feelings" that I had is part of the past.

nhieQoh · « **Reply #67 on:** September 01, 2012, 04:31:15 pm »

FUBU din ba yung you are suing someone, parang sperm donor....

Naughty^GuRu · « **Reply #68 on:** September 01, 2012, 09:02:12 pm »

nhieQoh

NO! trabaho lang yun walang personalan

makes no difference with prostitution and "ginagatasang D.O.M.". That will be lame and pathetic if you claim na you have a paid FUBU

mae18 · « **Reply #69 on:** September 03, 2012, 05:01:23 pm »

San ba makakakita ng FUBU na ganyan? nyahahaha

anyway, i remember my old days, way back when i was still single and always ready to mingle... hehe... tama yun, minsan talaga mafafall ka for a one night stand, kasi minsan sa mga babae, giving ur own is like parang trade fair ba, na naghahanap ka din ng kapalit, which in turn - yun [textspeak!] [textspeak!] [textspeak!] kayo, minsan naman parang phone pals ang dating, until dahil medyo regular na ayun eh di fall in love ang scenario.... naalala ko tuloy nun isang beses ako, uso pa nuon un sa tv na pwede ka magtxt ng ad mo or greetings, eh ako may binebenta akong cp nun siempre nakapost yun number ko, sa dami ng nagtxt, may mga talagang buyer ng cp ko, at mayrun naman yun nagtatanung kun taga san ako kun single ba ako kkun pwede ba kami mag eyeball, since no idea ako sa mga ganung scenario- ako si engot nakipagkita nuon, akala ko buyer ng phone ko un pala dinala ako sa motel, wala nangyari kasi di ko [textspeak!] sya type, kasi super sa bilis na tipo bang unang kita sex agad? hay, ang kulit pa nun kolokoy na yun, kasi after nuon di ko na pinapansin [textspeak!] niya, until one day may nagtxt actually buyer [textspeak!] ng phone ko tas nag meet kami para sa kaliwaan, gang sa nag [textspeak!] din sya to meet again, yun one night stand ang nangyari, pero after nuon, iniba ko na number ko kasi nga parang nakakatakot din... sayang guwapo pa naman at matangkad... anyway, yun [textspeak!] dati, wa idea hubby ko i had that kind of experience....

Mommyâ€¢Shey · « **Reply #70 on:** September 04, 2012, 12:45:04 am »

One Night Stand = 1 ( previous officemate ) One Afternoon Stand lol!

Just tried once and hindi na naulit, and no plans of doing it again. Baka kung ano pang makuha kong sakit, kahit sabihin protected siya or ikaw, there's a lot of diseases pa din na pwedeng makuha.

I'm not against dun sa mga merong ka FUBU, ka One Night Stand or ka FWB, it's not my business na. IMHO only and No Offense

mae18 · « **Reply #71 on:** September 04, 2012, 09:36:02 am »

^ sorry, puro pala text speak yun reply ko.... hehe

Korek! Di ko din naman alam kun me gaanung scenario hubby ko, i dont want to ask, and i dont want to know, sabe nga eh "what you dont know, won't hurt" di ba? har har har...

pero we're honest to each other, pero siguro our past is past....

Mommyâ€¢Shey · « **Reply #72 on:** September 04, 2012, 10:09:47 pm »

Quote from: myotherside on September 04, 2012, 08:38:56 am

@Mae ... we all have our secrets

@Mommyâ€¢Shey ... kanya-kanyang trip lang

Yeah, kanya kanyang trip lang naman talaga. kaya nga I said I have nothing against them, because been there once ( One night stand ).

princessee · « **Reply #73 on:** October 10, 2012, 11:51:54 pm »

I did have one. It's like we're together but we haven't put any label to it and we have not gone into public. Napikon lang ako. Hindi ko alam kung paano ako magrereact sa isa naming acquiantance na siya yung naglabel sa relationship namin, na alam ko namang he's just assuming. Feel ko nabastos ako or something kasi it's none of his business diba? Dineadma ko na lang yung comment nya na FBUDDY ko yung guy. Tama po ba yun? Kagigil

sensi · « **Reply #74 on:** October 11, 2012, 03:42:29 am »

alala ko noon when i was still single...i had a fubu...he was my friend's older brother..actually yung friend ko na yun,we liked each other rin noon tapos biglang naging friend ko brother nya...lol
ayun...haha..masyadong malandi lang talaga yung brother nya at pati ako nahulog sa kalandian nya..but we became good friends naman...until now friends parin kami..but not fubus anymore since may bf nako and he has a wife na..last time he visited sa house namin kasi barakada rin sila ng brother ko..we talked,shared chats..close parin kami kahit papano..he even wanted to kiss me,i gave him a smack but not more than that..lol...i wont deny he's my greatest temptation.

explorer · « **Reply #75 on:** October 20, 2012, 05:11:07 am »

Better wag na mag fubu hehe. For guytalkers, maybe it is a good thing not to get involved with a married woman. as exciting as it may be, we risk having another failed marriage. I can imagine the feeling of a guy who just discovered that his wife has some fubu. But if you do, be extra careful. Ive been there before and things got really ugly when her hubby discovered.

Naughty^GuRu · « **Reply #76 on:** October 21, 2012, 10:15:59 am »

explorer

hirap iwasan lalo na daming girls na into this. siguro ingat ingat nalang not to get caught

i've been involved with married girls na rin, and surprisingly, most of them have a good relationship with their hubby.
Meron ako naging FUBU, wife siya ng varsity player ng school namin (hindi pa sila kasal nung college pero may baby sila and they live together). happy naman daw siya sa bf/hubby niya, nabobore lang daw siya and naghahanap ng thrill. She also told me na yung ginagawa namin helps her na maging excited sa bf/hubby niya that time.

explorer · « **Reply #77 on:** October 22, 2012, 03:19:24 pm »

^ agree ako na marami nga talaga at talagang mahirap iwasan. Kaya lang minsan masakit magbigay ng lesson ang tadhana wahahahaha.

ice angel · « **Reply #78 on:** October 28, 2012, 12:43:22 pm »

Mahirap fubu, Baka madevelop! Lalo na sa side ng girl.

Naughty^GuRu · « **Reply #79 on:** October 28, 2012, 05:39:08 pm »

@explorer: kaya dapat maingat haha! sana wag ako dumating sa lesson ng tadhana.

@ice angel: kaya dapat walang expectations. and sa una palang nakaset na yung mind mo na it's all casual, it's just sëx.

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Author Topic: Friends with benefits, FUBU, One Night Stand (thread 3) (Read 26554 times)