Mga friends na puro YABANG ang alam.. thread 2

[chefron]

hahaha ask yourself why are you in FB first then from there you can adjust what you post, ON YOUR OWN STANDARD, NOT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE MIGHT THINK OF YOU.
besides if they TRULY KNOW YOU, they wouldnt mind, unless your FAKING YOUR FB LIFE.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

kikaygimikera-sis, pls dont rely solely on my entries as para sa akin lang naman yun. I mean, ganun tingin ko sa mga taong may vanity pics, excessive flaunting of stuff etc. Lahat tayo may limitations as to what we find OA na or grabe na about what others are posting. If you feel like posting that picture, go ahead.  anyway, lahat naman if done excessively is bad. Yun akin lang naman pag in your face kayabangan na. But we are 2 different individuals, baka different views mo about what I find mayabang and it might not be same with yours. Its ok.

[bangs29]

But we are 2 different individuals, baka different views mo about what I find mayabang and it might not be same with yours. Its ok.

check check. so moving on, my father in law nag imbita ng mga friends niya dito sa bahay. di ko alam, tea naman yun iniinom nila hindi alak, tila lasing lang siya sa pag kakasabi ng, ay bibili ako ng kotse! mga kulang kulang 7M yuan siguro yun, eto nga pinaghahandaan ko na. (di alam ng friends na inimbita niya, nakitira parin sila dito sa bahay namin ni hubby, pero sinasabi din nila sa mga tao na may bago silang 4 flats. wala naman talaga. nasa imahinasyon lang niya yun. may mga nagtatanong eh bakit kasama niyo pa din ang anak mo di pa kayo lumipat, ang laging sagot niya eh kasi di pa tapos yun pagpapa tiles and decoration o kaya e kasi binabatayan nitong asawa ko (lola ng anak ko asawa niya) ang apo namin. which is di naman kasi laging gala din ang nanay ng hubby ko, lagi nasa labas. 2 years na yang reasoning niya na yan) dun ko nalang na napatunayan na gusto kasi niya siya yung topic, siya yung babangka sa usapan di pwede ang iba. kaylangan siya ang madaming pera at madaming alam. bakit kaya may mga ganyang tao.

[hot_chili]

^ super OA naman kayabangan nang father in law mo sis, Pero yung dad ko walang trabaho yun ha pero gusto laging sya magpapainom and gagastos feeling maraming pera and si hubby din pag nakikipaginuman sa friends and naririnig ko mga yabangan nila, naloloka talaga ako. Siguro pride nila yan ayaw magpatalo. Pag girls magkakasama chismisan, pag guys siguro yabangan 

[msals2007]

ako din bihirang mag upload sa fb kasi mabagal ang net ko. pero i have this one friend na sobrang sipag magupload, pero i don't find her mayabang at all. kahit yung mga pics niya tipong dining out sa hotels or travel to other countries, etc, buying branded bags etc. siguro kasi nga friend ko, natutuwa pa nga ako na nauupdate ako kung anong nangyayari sa kanya. baka nageenjoy din lang siya in sharing the happenings in her life via fb.

same person pa din, on event na we had a get together, she was able to share, i don't know kung nasang usapan na kami at napasingit dun, na she was able to buy over 2k sqm of lot, they have this car, this much, bought these and that. Siguro kasi she is really proud of her achievements. ako man nasa kalagayan niya baka ishare ko diin anong na accomplish ko sa buhay. what i felt is inggit kasi ako wala pa nun.

i have another close friend naman, nashare din niya in our conversation of making hinaing sa sobrang daming gastos..parang wala din namang ere, parang honest to goodness complaint naman na nahihirapan sa gastos....na when they went out, isang shopping lang sa SM nagulat daw siya umabot ng 200k plus...another one, whenver he goes here for a vacation (OFW kasi) ilang days lang, nagcompute siya umabot daw ng 400k plus gastos niya. Ayan inggit mode na naman ako. Sabi ko lagpas pa sa isang taong sweldo ko yun ah.

[charmed_gal]

dami ko rin ganyan friends sa fb.. pero para sakin ibang un yabang sa proud ka sa achievements mo...

like un isa ko friend proud sya pinagtrabahuan nya brand new car nya.... may 3 years nya din ata pinaghirapan un car.

pero un isa super irita ko kase nag asawa ng dom tapos lahat ng gift sa kanya ultimo cheke nakapost sa fb. wala lang siguro magawa kase stay at home na sya at nasa probinsya pa, mula nung nag asawa sya ng dom. aun blinock ko na lang sya para di lumabas sa wall ko. 

[sassy_taurus8]

^Correct! Mahahalata naman kase yung proud lang sa achievements and dun sa gusto lang magpapansin or magyabang.

[xtine]

Hindi ko sila friends! Ha ha ha.  Hirap parang may sinabi ka lang about something, parang nakikipagkumpetensya na tingin nila.  Bad!

[mamapeew]

Meron akong ni-hide recently na fb friend. Kasi naman puro post nya: im having dinner with my babe. Had so much fun with my babe. Having coffee with my babe. Lalaki ito ha. Ugh! Kakasuka na no! One week pa lang sila ng babe nya, nasusuka na ako. Di ba pwedeng wag na i-narrate sa fb ginagawa nila at pictures nila na kumakain sa dunkin na sya lang din kumukuha? Hehe... Proud siguro sya sa babe nya. Unsubscribe na lang ako. Hehe...

[msals2007]

natawa naman ako sa kwento ni charmed gal na pati cheke naka post pa din pic. baka maholdap siya sa ginagawa niyang yan

pati yung post ni mamapeew, baka naman kasi dyosa ng kagandahan at kaseksihan si "babe" kaya proud na proud ang friend mo.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

I dont see anything wrong about posting a car that was from hard earned money,pero may nakita ako na album with 50 pics na yun ang car. Naka park sa park, nakapark sa parking lot ng isang mall, nakapark sa garahe, nakapark sa harap ng bakanteng lote. Yun at yun din ang car,with all the angles possible angles. Sa harap, sa sides, sa likod, pa horizontal, pa vertical.Pati interiors niya..(parang catalog)  now, thats what Iam talking about... OA post. di ko na tinapos all 50 pics nasa 10 lang ako.


A wall picture post would be sufficient. Gets na ng tao yun na nakabili siya ng car. Siguro, it all boils down as to how a person presents it. To me, to post 50 different angles all with the same car is rubbing it in too much.

[izabelle]

^Correct! Mahahalata naman kase yung proud lang sa achievements and dun sa gusto lang magpapansin or magyabang.

so true obvious kasi sa post kung proud or mayabang

obvious din yung papansin lang.

at sobrang obvious kapag sinungalin at gumagawa lang ng kwento! hahaha!

basta lahat ng sobra at OA masama.

[ohcmon]

Marami rin akong friends na may mga photo albums dedicated to themselves, hundreds of photos na sila lang ang laman at ang nakakaloka, super daming likes! I wonder how people can tolerate that, or baka dahil bagets pa 'yung mga nasa network ko because I've just finished university.

I have this hs batchmate na pinaka una nabuntis sa batch namin, lahat ng post niya "my daughter is busy with her iPad", "my daughter's first attempt at taking a picture on mom's iPhone", "my new baby (Lumix camera) thank you hon!" Kailangan talagang ibroadcast sa FB na marami kang gadgets? Nakikipag-compete siguro with our other batchmates kasi most have landed corporate jobs pero siya, hindi nakapag-college.

[abby1511]

Naku napakaraming ganyan sa FB ko parang napapakigiran ako ng mayayabang na friends haha.

Food pics okay lang naman basta yung medyo kakaiba wag naman yung "ginisang upo for lunch yumyum" haha.

Travel pics gusto ko pero pag mayabang na friend ang nagtravel di na ko nagbobother tignan pa sigurado ako nagpunta lang yun sa isang lugar para magpapicture at magyabang, hindi magbakasyon.

Narcissistic posts asar na asar ako yung feeling nila ang dami daming naiinsecure sakanila? mga posts na parang nang aaway dahil kinaiinggitan sila at marami sila haters dahil pakaganda nila? buwiset. haha.

tsaka pics ng mga gadgets at kung ano ano. May friend ako yung mga nakabalot nilang t.v. appliances, baso plato pinopost pa sus! kala mo sila lang may t.v. haha.

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

I posted something about people posting even the most petty stuff such as their boarding pass a few pages back. I guess I just have to broaden my understanding more. Maybe there are just people who post some tickets or yes, boarding pass that for them, travelling is a biggie  already. Won't post those here again.I realized, I will just have to understand them better.   

Anyway,mayroon ako kakikita lang na pic na 3 silang girls na kinda trashy ang suot with her similarly trashy looking companions, they are in a bar. Yung" friend" ko naka top with no bra on kasi open Yung harapan, so kita ang part ng breasts. I think this was intentional to gain likes. Pansin ko lang na all of her pics posted before was similar to the picture posted. Gift wrapping Christmas gifts and not wearing a panty, nasa beach walking butt naked. Playing ps3 wearing a camisole. So, kung may gandang gandang sa sarili,may sexing sexy naman sa sarili.May isang pic before na naka x lang ang nipples. May shoutout siya before nababastos Daw siya at papalitan na naman Daw niya number niya. Duh! Eh halos mukhang starlet na siya sa ginagawa niya.Parang naghahanap na siya ng service eh., taka pa siya.

[rianne_mallows]

^LOL ang dami kong tawa   i had an fb friend before na ganyan .. with matching pouty pouty lips saka yung itsura na parang mag-cum  .. kaloka. unfriend ko agad .. i think its not made for yabang naman.. more like "ads" para sa future "customers" nila.. "working girls" and peg

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

^ Tapos her shoutout was kinda disturbing. Kasi theres this " campaign" thingy going on at facebook sometimes, and one of the campaign I think was not to wear an underwear for a day for cancer victims etc.. her shoutout was " I dont wear panties or brassiere  almost every day, so no point for me to join the celebration... its not something i do to be cool or in or sexy, its being me" that is the EXACT shoutout. Napa ' Ok, talagang kailangang sabihin di siya nagpapanty? Is that something to be proud of? If she doesnt have any plans on doing the campaign, she better not comment anymore. Sabi niya its not done just to be cool, in or sexy. That is exactly what she is doing by posting that shoutout, to be cool, in and sexy. Why else would someone announce she doesnt wear underwear for if she doesnt want to be cool, in and sexy in the eyes of others? Wag na siyang paka ipokrita, yun ang gusto niya mangyari.

[chefron]

sis yan bang kakilala mo eh to the highest level ang ganda? proud na proud!

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

^ hindi  siya kagandahan sis. I deleted her na, na didistrub na ako sa posts eh.

Sayang! Sana nakapag comment ako ng "sige na! Ikaw na!  Ikaw na ang walang panty!" bago ko siya dinelete.

[hisana]

Someone directed me to the blog of chuvaness where the latest entry was about a birkin scam, apparently. I read it, pati na yung comments. What an extreme example of how yabang can get you into trouble! I understand na there are instances where kailangan din mag put on ng some sort of facade or appearance, everyone needs to look presentable or feel good about how they are perceived naman sa hangga't makakaya, pero hindi naman to the point na i-jeopardize na ang finances or flat out you pretend you are someone na malayo sa totoong buhay mo. Sabi nga nung brother-in-law ko who grew up as one of the moneyed in greenhills but whose family eventually lost their fortune, wag daw masilaw sa mga ganyan. A good number of high spenders are not necessarily high earners and do not have the deep pockets everyone assumes they have.