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Author Topic: May "SAY" ba ang tagal ng relationship nyo para hindi magcheat ang partner mo?  (Read 11108 times)

karmark16

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Relationships have no guarantee, kaya nga di ba pag nagmamahal ka, buwis buhay talaga, laslas pulso. Expect the unexpected, nevertheless, naniniwala din ako na ang relasyon na friendship ang foundation ay mas matibay. lagi din dapat may communication, you may be together for years, pero di mo naman fully kilala ang karelasyon mo dahil di kau naguusap ng maayos at may ilangan pa kau sa isat isa.
"There are 12 months a year, 30 days a month, 7 days a week, 24 hours a day, 60 minutes an hour, but only 1 like you in a lifetime

megansmomma

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wala! kung talagang destined to happen, mangyayari't-mangyayari talaga yun. siguro kung mangyari man at least kung talagang solid ang bond nio malalagpasan nio yun :)

honey-ecclaire

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Definitely no,eh yung malapit ng magpakasal nagkakahiwalay pa,pati mag-asawa so don't hold on sa haba ng pinagsamahan nyo,it's in the past look to the coming years,time na if magsasama pa kayo pareho kayong talo....
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xxmiakaxx

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 Sa tingin ko dito  hindi  basehan  ang haba o tagal ng relationship   kung mag cheat ba talaga partner mo oh hindi   ... madaming dahilan ang tao a lot of people Blame it to destiny
kahit na sa totoo lang nung  bago plang kayo  abot langit ang sumpaaan ng pagibig
In the following years   pinag titiisan nyo nalang isat isa
more more years  ma bored  kana

ito lang formula dyan eh  kailangan nasa gitna ng relationship si GOD at Love pag wala
I and you nalang natira   wala ng meaning .....   

   GOD
I Love you
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france0220325143

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actually walang guarantee na hindi magchicheat ang ating mga bfs or hubbies. 
Pag bago pa lang sa relationship, sasabihin d pa amtibay ang foundation. Pag matagal na sasabihin naman, nagsawa na kaya naghanap ng iba.

HoldingOn

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Before, I really thought na kapag matagal na yung relationship nyo and kilala nyo na ang isa't-isa eh mas less na yung possibility na magche-cheat ang partner mo but I was wrong. :'(

Anyone who experienced the same thing? Feel free to share..


Wala rin yun sa tagal sis. 12 years kami when he left me for someone else. First time niya magcheat. One time, big blow nangyari.
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jenybasti

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^ sis parehas tayo.12 yrs din kami and he's very much willing to leave me & our children for someone else :(
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YOU CAN'T REPLACE THE MEMORIES YOU HAD WITH ME.

khymmmm

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Wala rin yun sa tagal sis. 12 years kami when he left me for someone else. First time niya magcheat. One time, big blow nangyari.

Ouch! Kinabahan naman ako sis.. My boyfie has been very loyal for 8 years now.. Pano kung someday ganyan din mangyari, "One time, big blow"..   :( Pero sana hindi naman..

Alucard

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Wala. it always boils down sa loyalty ng partner mo sayo. Maraming TUKSO sa labas pero nasa partner mo iyon kung magpapa tukso ba siya or hindi.

rae

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As far as statistics go... Nabasa ko na sa US, the most number of affairs happen on the first year of the marriage.
Backread and use the search button.

eeekar

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I think that fidelity isn't based on how long you've been in a relationship
or how much you've invested on it.
I think it's based on your love for your partner and the values that was instilled in a person.
It also depends on the happiness and contentment that they feel in their relationship.
I strongly believe that happy people don't cheat.

muy003

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Even married people nga nagkakalokohan, and those marriages have lasted for decades. My cousin has been with her bf for ten years, theyve been cheating on each other for so long, the relationship was already doomed. I know some couples who've been married for over 25 years, and yet they still have problems with fidelity... Nasa pagkatao yan ng nasa relasyon, depends on how much love is present, and how they can control their reactions with their environment..
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redcheeks

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Re: May "SAY" ba ang tagal ng relationship nyo para hindi magcheat ang partner m
« Reply #52 on: September 22, 2012, 03:56:03 PM »
like what other girltalkers said it doesnt guarantee the longer u are in a relationship the lesser the chance a guy would cheat. just like what happened in my 11-year relationship, it went to nothing.;( i just can't let go of the memries weve shared and our future plans. now i don't know if happy ever after still exist nowadays.;(

HoldingOn

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Ouch! Kinabahan naman ako sis.. My boyfie has been very loyal for 8 years now.. Pano kung someday ganyan din mangyari, "One time, big blow"..   :( Pero sana hindi naman..

Sorry, ngayon lang nakareply. Wag ka kabahan sis. Just enjoy the moment and do your best to work for your relationship. Do not worry about the future. Just enjoy the now. Happy loving! :D
"Learn & appreciate lessons from the PAST, do not worry about the FUTURE, focus on the NOW - then you  can you go into inner peace." --> new learning from my BK retreat experience

klengmorales

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Nope. We are almost 8 years together as bf-gf and he cheated on me
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Ishasophia

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Definitely NO.. OPV.. Nasa commitment ng tao yun.. whether nagstart pa lang kayo or have been together for more than a decade kung magchecheat..magchecheat pa din yan..
There is never a wrong time to do the right thing..

xhien

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wala xympre..mahirap kasi magsalita eh..di mo alam kung mangyayari ba o hindi yung ganito sa relationship..di pa nangyayare samen ni hubby 2, pero sana wag naman..dahil di ko lam kaya kung gwn kapag nalaman ko..

spoiledwife

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The answer is absolutely NO. Like what's happening in our marriage right now. We're trying to deal with it and hope there's no sad ending. Keep my prayers & faith in God. We've been in the relationship for 11 years and there's no guarantee how long you've been together.

I believe in a relationship to work - communication, acceptance, honesty, loyalty & respect.

But how hard I try to communicate with him he doesn't talk. As in MUTE.

"A woman's loyalty is tested when a man has nothing. And a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything."
A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything. ~ Anonymous

jenybasti

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^ sis parehas tayo.ako tong kating kati makipag communicate sa kanya para makapag usap kami pero sobrang dedma nya ko.well,nasa abroad kasi sya kaya nya nagagawang dedmahin ako ng bongga.
YOU CAN REPLACE ME BUT
YOU CAN'T REPLACE THE MEMORIES YOU HAD WITH ME.

chicafabulosa

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Definitely no. My aunt was cheated on after 25 years of marriage. Nobody can believe it because everything seems perfect with both of them pero yun nga nagawa pa rin sya lokohin.. :(
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