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Author Topic: May "SAY" ba ang tagal ng relationship nyo para hindi magcheat ang partner mo?  (Read 11099 times)

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-sis baka ako yung new gf ng guy friend mo? haha. Exactly same with our situation. Hindi pa rin maka move on ang ex nya. :D

^ usually naman sis, kaya di maka-move on ang mga ex is because nagcheat sakanila yung guy. out of nothing, bigla nalang sila pinagpalit sa iba after the long run. mahirap talaga magmove on pag ganun yun. ako nga, 5 yrs lang sobrang hirap na. what more if 10 yrs pa..  ;)
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Pag matagal na nga yun mas prone sa cheating kasi may boredom ng pumapasok niyan.
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Mahirap mag move on if you've invested in the other person than yourself.

Too many guys told me na kapag matagal na ang relasyon tapos monotonous na yung ginagawa nyo, hahanap sya ng thrill. Dapat pala, araw2 kayong nakasakay sa space shuttle kung ganun. :p o ihulog sya sa bangin bakit hindi? Thrill lang pala di ba girls? :p
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Mahirap mag move on if you've invested in the other person than yourself.

Too many guys told me na kapag matagal na ang relasyon tapos monotonous na yung ginagawa nyo, hahanap sya ng thrill. Dapat pala, araw2 kayong nakasakay sa space shuttle kung ganun. :p o ihulog sya sa bangin bakit hindi? Thrill lang pala di ba girls? :p

^ haha! apir tayo jan sis! : ;D
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sorry but it doesn't matter how long you've been together, doesn't matter what you do.... if your partner wants to cheat he will... one way or another...
« Last Edit: June 22, 2012, 04:51:46 AM by andrej »

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Too many guys told me na kapag matagal na ang relasyon tapos monotonous na yung ginagawa nyo, hahanap sya ng thrill. Dapat pala, araw2 kayong nakasakay sa space shuttle kung ganun. :p o ihulog sya sa bangin bakit hindi? Thrill lang pala di ba girls? :p

brilliant idea! ganun pala gusto eh di pagbantaan ang buhay araw araw para may thrill

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Been with my ex for almost 13 years, pero nakuha pa din niyang lokohin ako. May 3 na kaming anak ha, pero di kami kasal. Nanghinayang ako dati sa relasyon kaya di ako nakipag hiwalay, pero sabi ng kaibigan ko, mas mabuti na yung 13 years hiwalayan ko na, kesa naman mag stay ako forever sa relasyong hindi na ako masaya.
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ako naman si GF ko ang nagloko..5 years and six months na kami nun.. sa klasmeyt nia sya nakipaglandian may GF [textspeak!] guy..nilet go ako e.Chakit! .. Choice dn nla un kaya nila gingawa un.. or dahil hindi na tulad ng dati di na hapi....
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A friend who did some marriage counseling work told me that for married women naman dapat may major changes / improvements din sa relationship kung hindi mag-stagnate at mawalan din sya ng gana.

Mahirap mag move on if you've invested in the other person than yourself.

Too many guys told me na kapag matagal na ang relasyon tapos monotonous na yung ginagawa nyo, hahanap sya ng thrill. Dapat pala, araw2 kayong nakasakay sa space shuttle kung ganun. :p o ihulog sya sa bangin bakit hindi? Thrill lang pala di ba girls? :p
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those people who cheat out of boredom yun yung mga boring people. kasi hindi reason yung bored ka na sa gf/bf mo kaya ka magloloko. there are plenty of new things to do.
 
cheating is a choice, it's not a mistake. you chose to betray the person who loves you, you chose to hurt him/her. pwede mo namang hindi ginawa but why did you?

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ako naman si GF ko ang nagloko..5 years and six months na kami nun.. sa klasmeyt nia sya nakipaglandian may GF [textspeak!] guy..nilet go ako e.Chakit! .. Choice dn nla un kaya nila gingawa un.. or dahil hindi na tulad ng dati di na hapi....

^ awts! so sorry to hear that, bro. di lang talaga lalake ang pwedeng magloko.  ;D pero same lang experience naten. my bf cheated on me (officemate naman nya yung girl) then ayun, ni-let go din ako. he loves me daw but he loves the girl more and mas happy daw sya dun. WTH! anyway, let's move on. atleast we learned out own lessons. :)
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those people who cheat out of boredom yun yung mga boring people. kasi hindi reason yung bored ka na sa gf/bf mo kaya ka magloloko. there are plenty of new things to do.
 
cheating is a choice, it's not a mistake. you chose to betray the person who loves you, you chose to hurt him/her. pwede mo namang hindi ginawa but why did you?

^ this is so true! CHEATING is NEVER a MISTAKE; it's a CHOICE. :)
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I think that there's no such thing as "complete assurance"

Kahit gaano katagal, gaano ka kaganda, gaano ka kabait, you can't ever really tell.

The most we can get is reasonable assurance that the partner will not cheat. Maski tayo, honestly, we can't really say we're sure that we won't cheat, unless we're faced with a very 'challenging' situation.

All that we can really do is to focus on continuously working on the relationship and constantly ask ourselves if we're still the kind of person na masaya at masarap kasama. That's the only thing within our control. And even that is not a guarantee.
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I think that there's no such thing as "complete assurance"

Kahit gaano katagal, gaano ka kaganda, gaano ka kabait, you can't ever really tell.

The most we can get is reasonable assurance that the partner will not cheat. Maski tayo, honestly, we can't really say we're sure that we won't cheat, unless we're faced with a very 'challenging' situation.

All that we can really do is to focus on continuously working on the relationship and constantly ask ourselves if we're still the kind of person na masaya at masarap kasama. That's the only thing within our control. And even that is not a guarantee.

^ very well said, sis. thanks! =)
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nah. kahit gaano pa katagal yan kung me tendency magloko eh magloloko talaga un.
ang tanong dapat is gaano sila katatag sa mga temptation sa paligid nila through time  ;)
im sure sobrang hirap yun for their part.
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hindi sa tagal ng pagsasama naka base kung mag cheat ang partner mo for me nasa quality ng relationship.

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 in men,it can be hard to resist temptation, especially when its readily available to them.

 sa case namin feeling ko ito yung nangyari.nasa abroad kasi sya.masyadong inenjoy yung freedom.pero kahit na di ba?nakalimutan nya na ata na kaya sya nagpunta doon eh para umayos ang pamilya namin at hindi para masira :(
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hindi din... My ex bf cheated on me even before we reached our 1st year anniversary..he then again cheated on me when we were already 4 years in our relationship...so i guess, wala yan sa tagal. Nasa kagustuhan yan ng tao. If gusto nya maging maayos ang relasy0n nyo, he wouldn't do things that he knows could ruin it. Ganun yun for me...
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Wala sa tagal ng relationship. Nasa circumtances surrounding your relationship and  how you deal with it. Kapag may temptation, wag labanan, dapat layuan. Nasa tao din, meron yata talagang cheaters.

 

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