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Author Topic: May "SAY" ba ang tagal ng relationship nyo para hindi magcheat ang partner mo?  (Read 12264 times)

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Before, I really thought na kapag matagal na yung relationship nyo and kilala nyo na ang isa't-isa eh mas less na yung possibility na magche-cheat ang partner mo but I was wrong. :'(

Anyone who experienced the same thing? Feel free to share..
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wala naman sa tagal yan. nasa ginagawa niyo everyday. kung sweet pa din ba. etc etc.
hindi naman ako masamang tao
sadyang kapag nasasabi ako ng totoo
tumatama at tumatagos sa pagkatao mo

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Pwede. Kung matino 'yung kapartner mo. If s/he knows what commitment and having a relationship and making it work meant. Otherwise, panghihinayangan lang ng tao 'yung memories, not the person itself.

Like what they always say, love has no guarantees.
SIMPLE yet COMPLICATED.

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Who can say when & if they will cheat?  Kaya that is the 1 thing my Lola & Lolo agree on 100%:    Marriage is the biggest gamble.


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cheating has nothing to do with the years of your togetherness.

it's a personal choice of the cheater/infidel not because of how you look, how you dress, etc.

dont ever let a cheater tell/convince you otherwise.

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I have a guy friend 8 years na sila nung gf niya. Pero she cheated on him with their ka-officemate nila na married pa yun guy. Ngayon preggy si ex-gf at iniwan na siya nung married guy. Wala yun sa tagal, nasa upbringing at paniniwala yun ng tao about infidelity.

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^+100000000x. :) Hindi lahat ng matagal masaya ang relasyon. At may pinaghuhugutan 'to. LOL. :p
« Last Edit: June 16, 2012, 10:35:30 PM by ettevyvi »
SIMPLE yet COMPLICATED.

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wala talaga sa tagal.. tama :)

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Wala sa tagal pero nasa timing din and sa charm ng guy. The problem is the girl wont admit the mistake until its too late. Pride na lang mangingibabaw.

I've heard this from multiple sources na. Why do girls always hope they can change a cheater? Cheaters only stop cheating because they're tired of it na and not because they love a girl.

Ingat talaga sa mga manliligaw na may asawa. Mas brutal pa at mas persuasive yan sa binata manligaw and they are not in it for Long term relationships.
« Last Edit: June 17, 2012, 05:08:10 AM by Foodict »
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hindi din. i have a friend na 10yrs na sila ng gf niya pero naghiwalay din sila. na fall out of love ata c guy kay girl at may iba ng nagustuhan c guy, ayun til now d pa din ata maka move on c girl..

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wala. kahit gaano pa kayo katagal kung mahina ka sa temptation and may urge to cheat, wala rin mangyayari.

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Nah  :( My bf  for 9 years (now my hubby) cheated on me thrice. Pero dahil dakilang martir ako,and yeah,love is blind talaga,tinanggap ko pa rin at pinatawad  ;D
It's better to deserve something and not have it, than to have something and not deserve it =)

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Who can say when & if they will cheat?  Kaya that is the 1 thing my Lola & Lolo agree on 100%:    Marriage is the biggest gamble.

I strongly AGREE..


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17 years kami together ni hubby. he still cheated on me a few times. but i realize i have many short comings too. when i changed my ways he decided to stay faithful na. it's unbelievable, but i can say today we have better marriage than when we started...

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wala sa tagal ng relationship. more often pa nga sa mag asawa yung mas matagal ng magkasama yung nagkaka 3rd party. Its up to both but i strongly believe na once a cheater....

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No guarantees at all. Pero meron the good news is.. meron tlagang mga wagas :)
I hope i can meet one too!
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wala yan sa tagal. kahit matagal na kayo there is always something new na malalaman mo with your partner and it could be about cheating...

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hindi din. i have a friend na 10yrs na sila ng gf niya pero naghiwalay din sila. na fall out of love ata c guy kay girl at may iba ng nagustuhan c guy, ayun til now d pa din ata maka move on c girl..

-sis baka ako yung new gf ng guy friend mo? haha. Exactly same with our situation. Hindi pa rin maka move on ang ex nya. :D
the minute you realize the situation is making you feel depressed and hurt and it is really not going to go the way you want it to, please put an end to it as soon as you can. :)

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Wala sa tagal o ikli ng relationship yan. Kami ni hubby 11 years na, he cheated once nung 8 years na kami, it was a 5-month affair. Pero ngayon ok na kami ulit, much better. Hindi sya talaga ganun ewan ko kung ano nangyari, kaya siguro nahuli ko kagad kasi di sanay magsinungaling yun, sabi nya nga saken dati during the affair nagreresearch pa sya sa internet ng ways para di mahuli LOL
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I agree na wala talaga sa tagal ng pagsasama ang rason kung magchecheat ang partner mo sayo. nsa upbringing talaga yon o nasa tao mismo. 7years kame ng asawa ko na magbf bago ngdecide magpakasal pro sa loob ng 7years na yun masasabi kong he remains faithful sa akin. may mga times na nfefeel ko na parang may sawaan factor, pro ang good thing hindi kame ngsasabay. ngayon mag asawa na kame for more than 3yrs at nagpapray ako na sana wag niyang matutunan ang magloko hahaha... siguro lang, talagang "wagas" ang kanyang pagmamahal sa akin LOL  :D khit pa hindi ako ang pinakamaganda at sexy babae sa mundo.

 

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