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Author Topic: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin  (Read 3864 times)

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #40 on: July 19, 2012, 12:40:56 am »
i prefer holding hands than akbay, pag naka-akbay ang lalaki, parang all his arm's weight is on you, hindi ako comfortable pag ganon... although i don't like holding hands all the time, once in a while lang.. and i like it pag pinipisil ng guy yung hand mo, just to remind you that 'hey im here, sweettie, :)

sis, di sya marunong umakbay, hindi nya dapat gawin sandalan ang shoulders mo.  kaya nga "akbay", parang kaakibat, hindi patungan.

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #41 on: July 19, 2012, 12:54:40 am »
Me too, pag inaakbayan ako ng lalake, inaalis ko talaga :) Si bf he learned na hindi niya ako pwede akbayan lalo na in public kasi nakakahiya dahil aalisin ko lang. I guess uncomfy ang hh for guys, at akbay naman for some girls? :) Ok lang sa bf ko hh or not, but he especially initiates hh when there are other cutie boys around. Like he's sending a signal to them na i'm taken already. haha! :)

May mga akbay kasi na bastusin, better not akbay in public. Meron naman mukhang disente. 

O nga pala, I read somewhere - guys who don't like holding hands either ikinahihiya ka in public or has intimacy issues.  Parang ayaw ko ata ng guy na ayaw magholding hands.  It is a sign siguro (hula ko lang naman) na hindi sila romantic.


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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #42 on: July 27, 2012, 02:42:12 pm »
ive been in relationship sa isang girl na ayaw ko rin holding hands pero yung naging next GF ko lagi ko sya HH kahit san pa kmi divisoria o sa mall o sa park because my reason is baka mawala sya. mawala pa sya sa life ko. hehe HH ko sya kasi i'm proud to have a gorgeous and wonderful Girl like her.hehe

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #43 on: July 28, 2012, 02:45:16 am »
hindi rin mahilig makipag holding hands si bf, but it's okay.  mas nasanay kami na nakahawak ako sa braso niya.  im more comfortable that way too. 
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #44 on: July 31, 2012, 09:17:01 pm »
Guy here. Pinakagusto ko ang akbay kasi parang mas feeling protective ako. Holding hands in public, bihira lang. Yung paghawak sa braso ang pinakaayaw ko. Para akong nakatali and I don't like the feeling. Haha.
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #45 on: August 25, 2012, 10:05:25 am »
@kitten  Hi sis! si bf ko rin hindi sanay makipag holding hands, mahilig siyang mag akbay haha! Mas sweet daw ang akbay sabi niya :">

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #46 on: August 25, 2012, 10:25:20 am »
si boyfie ayaw nya din ng holding hands  :(
kasi lagi nyang sinasabi hindi daw kami hapon/intsik.. hindi ko makita ang konek? hahah

hindi ko naman naisip na baka nahihiya syang ka-HH ako kasi madalas nya nga akong yakapin in public o kaya naman naka-akbay sya in possessive way.. iba kasi yung akbay na parang nakapatong lang sa balikat nyo eh.. iba naman yung akbay na parang alam mo na secure ka.. hahaha

gusto nya din yung naka-kapit yung kamay ko sa braso nya.. kapag ganun daw kasi parang ikakasal daw kami.. hahah!! minsan parang corny na :D
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #47 on: August 28, 2012, 09:12:45 pm »
In my opinion hindi ako naghoholding hands maxiado kasi maxiadong cheesy ayoko maging cheesy in public mas maganda sa kama nalng maging chessy para heaven na naman. lol.

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #48 on: August 30, 2012, 12:56:13 pm »
Meron po. It happens usually if you are his very first GF, di pa Sanay or Masyado pang maingat. Me mga guys din Kasi na ayaw ang very touchy girls, maybe they have hormone problems and may not be able to control themselves pa, Lao if Bata pa like teens to college to early twenties.
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #49 on: September 08, 2012, 05:13:29 pm »
ang weird naman ng bf mo, mostly naman essential ang holding hands sa mag bf/gf. ako gustong gusto ko hinahawakan kamay ko or kahit akbay man lang. kung wala talaga napaka walang ka sweetan naman yan sa katawan teh! hehe. or hindi naman sa pang aano.. baka ayaw nya ng PDA or masyado siyang conservative o di naman kinahihiya nya.. (sorry).
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #50 on: September 09, 2012, 08:00:29 pm »
Very particular si h2b ko with hh, nagagalit pag binibitawan ko, lalo na in public. Away ang kasunod. Pag nasa bahay lang kami, di masyado, pero medyo touchy kasi kaming couple talaga. Even when he's driving, hawak nya kamay ko, minsan ako na nababad trip kasi, mag aayos ako, di ko magawa... (huhu, namiss ko sya, LDR na kami ngayon.)

Pero, kanya kanyang preferences yan. Kung di naman sya maiilang,then there is no point holding back di ba..
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #51 on: September 11, 2012, 01:31:37 am »
Baka pawisin ang kamay ni guy. kaya nahihiya.he!he!

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #52 on: September 12, 2012, 12:39:54 pm »
madami naman ganyan, :) ayaw sa PDA

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #53 on: December 27, 2012, 07:54:00 pm »
ganyan din ang bf ko sis.. ayaw nya ng PDA.. ayaw nya ko i-holding hands at akbayin sa public.. pero nakikita ko naman sa kanya kung pano nya ko protektahan sa maraming tao.. kaya hindi big deal sa akin ito.
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #54 on: December 27, 2012, 09:50:32 pm »
Buti na lang si bf lahat ng gestures gusto akbay kaso bigst minsan ang laki kasi ng braso as in macho  ;D love it kaya pagmedyo di ko na feel hawak na lang ako sa arms kapag may dala sya sa magkabilang kamay sasabihin nya hold mo arms ko ayaw nya kasi akong nagbibitbit minsan pati bag ko gusto pa kunin ayaw ko nga mas feel ko ako may dala ng bag ko...ewan ko ba feeling nya lagi ako mawawala basta kapag ganoon busy kamay automatic dapat hawak ko sya sa arms... Pero pina favorite nya hh magtatampo un pag hindi ko sya hh feeling nya kinakahiya ko sya hehe minsan sya pag nag swa-sway pagganun sya alam ko kontento at masaya sya sarap ng feeling.. Basta si ma touchy buti na lang ganun din ako.. Un ex ni bf  hindi gusto ang mga akbay hh at holding sa arms ayaw ni bf ng ganuun...

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #55 on: December 28, 2012, 08:20:35 am »
My then-bf (asawa ko) is the touchy-feely sa aming dalawa. Ako ang naiilang dahil hindi ako sanay sa ganun.  ;D

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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #56 on: December 28, 2012, 08:42:00 am »
Ganyan hubby ko nun mag bf kami, hes not a touchy person e, not a big deal for me...ayoko kase ng PDA nagsasawa ako, naiinis ako meron kase akong naging bf na PDA at naiirita ako sa mga ganun...hanggang sa sawaan ko na lang at ayawan sya .
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #57 on: December 28, 2012, 10:45:35 am »
Interesting. Maybe may ganyang mga tao - tulad ko.

Ako naman ang umaayaw makipag holding hands, akbay or any touch na manggagaling sa mga naging ka-relasyon. I'd rather do the touching in private or in the company of very close friends or family. Not in public. Sobrang uncomfortable ako, ayaw na ayaw ko at inis na inis ako.

I don't know... maybe it's a matter of personal preference. I have nothing to hide. Single na single naman ako. Malambing naman ako... in private.
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #58 on: December 28, 2012, 11:05:21 am »
PDA para kasing bakod na bakod na si girl  ;D meron naman private place para sa mga ganung moments. Mas gusto ko yung gentleman na nakaalalay lang lagi and not the other way around na parang sawa kung makalingkis haha.
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Re: Si bf na hindi mahilig makipag holding hands sakin
« Reply #59 on: December 28, 2012, 11:09:21 am »
^ yep mas preferred ko rin yun mga gentlemanly gestures (if ever). todo alalay lang - help carry things and stuff, iwasang madulas pagbaba, watching out for me sa mga sidewalks at sa pag cross ng pedestrian lane... hanggang ganun lang, hehe.
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