should I seek revenge or not on the other woman?

[maybelleslife]

I found the accounts, yahoo messenger, number, email pix and whatoever of that girl i hate the most right now in a forum and in her online shop. Nakikipagflirt kasi siya sa bf ko before. then the time na nakausap ko siya pabalang lang din nya ako sagutin.

I really feel like i want her to feel really bad. i want her to suffer or at least do something terrible to her accounts.

one thing i did before was i spread her mobile number on chatrooms saying she's looking for someone to hook up with. But that was last year. and this year i just can't move on, i just hate her so much.

Right now im thinking i want to have someone court her and just use her and make her feel just the kind of slut that she is!

SO ANGRY

don't waste your time on her. for me, it's your bf who has a problem, not the girl. baka game lang din si girl kahit taken na ang guy but the real question is why is your bf flirting with her din. is it just a game for bf to have that 'excitement' or do you (as a couple) have problems. might as well spend your time winning your bf back so he will be loyal or if you have problems, spend your time and effort to work things out between you as a couple.

[dumpee.o13]

^ I totally with them, Sis @Marquita.. Let karma do the job and if you're lucky enough you'll witness it pa! Just focus on improving yourself and proving that you're way better than her. Go go go! Ü

[pinkbubbles17]

Nope..i won't stoop down to her level..kahit to the point na nakakainis na at napaka walang breeding..omg! parang walang pinagaralan..bahala na ang karma..remember kung may good karma meron ding BAD KARMA..beware coz bad karma will hunt you..haha..hay naku mga other woman talaga sakit sa ulo..

[mooncake and leaves]

your methods don't fit the crime. spreading her number like that-you put her and yourself in real danger. dami pa namang psycho sa mga forum. plus, if she's banking on her good rep as a business woman, you could have messed that up for her. and for what? because she flirted with your bf. sorry pero babaw. and an entire year has passed but you're still wallowing in your anger? girl's got to get a life.

why is it also, that it didn't occur to you to break up with your bf? that would've been the most reasonable thing you can do in situations like this.

[tipC_shoegal]

your methods don't fit the crime. spreading her number like that-you put her and yourself in real danger. dami pa namang psycho sa mga forum. plus, if she's banking on her good rep as a business woman, you could have messed that up for her. and for what? because she flirted with your bf. sorry pero babaw. and an entire year has passed but you're still wallowing in your anger? girl's got to get a life.

why is it also, that it didn't occur to you to break up with your bf? that would've been the most reasonable thing you can do in situations like this.

Could not have said it better, sis. As the old proverb goes "Revenge is a dish best served COLD."

[tey_roch19]

for me sis, wlang magandang maitutulong ang pagganti.. in my case, niloko din ako i came from a failed relationship 6 years yun ha. dumating sa point na gsto ko din gumanti in any way para lang malessen yung pain. pero, naisip ko [textspeak!] din namang magandang kahihinatnan.. isang principle ang natutunan ko, lagin mong tandaan, BILOG ANG MUNDO. just pray na sana lagi kang nasa gitna. mas okay yung ikaw [textspeak!] sinaktan, kesa ikaw [textspeak!] nakasakit. evrything happens for a reason.. masama ang gumanti.. mag pray ka nalang. goodluck sis

[Hesler]

I found the accounts, yahoo messenger, number, email pix and whatoever of that girl i hate the most right now in a forum and in her online shop. Nakikipagflirt kasi siya sa bf ko before. then the time na nakausap ko siya pabalang lang din nya ako sagutin.

I really feel like i want her to feel really bad. i want her to suffer or at least do something terrible to her accounts.

one thing i did before was i spread her mobile number on chatrooms saying she's looking for someone to hook up with. But that was last year. and this year i just can't move on, i just hate her so much.

Right now im thinking i want to have someone court her and just use her and make her feel just the kind of slut that she is!

SO ANGRY

This sort of thing will get you in trouble, believe me this could backfire big time and posting that in a public forum like FM network that is self implicating.

Ano ba nangyari pumatol ba BF mo kung pumatol bf ko yung lalake ang kausapin bakit siya nag pauto,

[jenybasti]

naisip ko din yan.dapat mag popost ako sa fb ng asawa ko ng mga kung [textspeak!] ano,kaya lang naiisip ko parang cheap ang dating wag na lang.gusto ko nga din imessage mga co workers nila para ipahiya sila kaya lang baka mag muka lang akong t****.tinatakot ko lang asawa ko na humanda sila at parehas ko sila peperwisyuhin.pero wag na lang.sayang oras pa.nag status nga ako sa fb kaninang umaga ng revenge is a dish best served cold.dinugtungan ko ng humanda kayo sakin mga hayup kayo.yun lang.

[ladychris17]

This is probably a late response to sis Marquita, but to those who have a little bit of a similar sentiment, ang masasabi ko lang, always remember.. Hate begets hate.

[cristyles]

Let God do the Law of Compensation. If we are nice then people are also nice to us, so if we do something not so nice nakow! ready for karma that's the law of compensation.

[meisaia]

revenge is never an option. wala itong naidudulot kahit ano pang dahilan ang ibibigay mo.

i won't say na bahala na ang diyos sa kanya, pero really... ruining her life won't make you feel good in the end, trust me. you'd just feel that you've been a total biyatch and that you're meaner and dirtier than her. mas magiguilty ka pa eh ikaw na nga yung nagawan ng mali.

[Foodict]

Have you talked to your bf about it? thats the 1st place you should start and not with the other girl.

Although masarap magfantasize nag paghihiganti, but keep it there. BF mo dapat mag clean up ng mess na yan. Kung ayaw nya well, you have bigger relationship problems.

[Mr.Punch]

Marqui, ang tagal na ng issue na ito, hindi ka pa maka-move on. 

Bakit nagagalit ka sa babae tapos hanggang ngayon nakadikit ka pa rin sa bf mo?  Eh pareho lang silang may kasalanan, di ba?

Kung sinundan mo yung payo ko dati na iwanan na iyang bf mo, hindi mo na dadalhin iyang poot na iyan araw araw.  Ikaw na rin ang may sabi na tuwing nakikita mo bf mo, lagi mong naaalala na nambabae siya.

Ngayon, maaaring nag-move on na yung babae, maaaring nagsisi na siya at wala nang interes sa bf mo.  Tapos ngayon ka gaganti.  Ikaw lang ang lalabas na masama diyan.

[Hesler]

naisip ko din yan.dapat mag popost ako sa fb ng asawa ko ng mga kung [textspeak!] ano,kaya lang naiisip ko parang cheap ang dating wag na lang.gusto ko nga din imessage mga co workers nila para ipahiya sila kaya lang baka mag muka lang akong t****.tinatakot ko lang asawa ko na humanda sila at parehas ko sila peperwisyuhin.pero wag na lang.sayang oras pa.nag status nga ako sa fb kaninang umaga ng revenge is a dish best served cold.dinugtungan ko ng humanda kayo sakin mga hayup kayo.yun lang.

Natawa ako dun hindi ko alam kung bakit 

[angelee]

Don't waste your time to those non-sense person anymore. Nangyari na rin sa akin to from the past, inside me wants for a revenge but then realized that they are not worth of my time anymore. Kaya nag-focus na lang ako how to improve myself. Move on sis they are not worth it.

[iamgold]

Share lang mga sis..dati kase yung naging other woman ng bf ko that time was my junior dun sa unit namin yung sa kanila parang labas labas pa lang wala pang commitment talaga..hay sinampal sampal ko ng nakatiklop na bondpaper siguro mga ilang sampal din yun parang 4pairs ng sampal kaso panaginip ko lang pala yun..pag gising ko parang ang gaan ng pakiramdam ko yung parang nakapag release ako ng super bad energy sa loob ko..dream pa lang yun what more kaya kung for real nangyari hehe

[pringles111]

kung BF ito, breakup with him and then make yourself as fabulous as you can be. make your bf want you BACK because you're a whole lot better than the other girl. you'll be surprised that while your in the process of making yourself fabulous, you have found a much better purpose in life

if husband, kung ayaw mong gawin yung mga advice nung lahat ng posters dito, e di sue your husband for concubinage, assuming the grounds are there (haha)

[rheinfall18]

marquita, ang payo ko lang..wag ka masyado manood ng mga teleserye naiimpluwensyahan ka ng mga kontrabida dun..^^