Author Topic: How to break up without hurting his/her feelings? (Read 3365 times)

Foodict · « **Reply #60 on:** May 13, 2012, 10:29:45 pm »

^candacena

well kung may signs na talaga pero inignore nya pa, kawawa nga sya. iba iba din talaga situation. in my case i have reason to keep hoping and at the same time im preparing myself if it doesnt go my way. di biro yung samahan namin para itapon lang or ipamigay sa isang walang kwenta. BS = bull Sh!t or lies.

^koalaa

good for you and good luck. sana walang complications.

koalaa · « **Reply #61 on:** May 17, 2012, 12:40:28 pm »

I thought everything was okay, until then... he's freaking me out! He keep on texting, calling and sending flowers. I feel so bad every time i reject those. I know that If i were on hes shoes it kills me. I did my best to get out of the relationship, i thought it was over but hes getting hysterical.

I just don't know what to do to him. natatakot na ako.

rae · « **Reply #62 on:** May 17, 2012, 01:38:52 pm »

^ This is the best time for you and him to grow up.

You are responsible for yourself. And he is, for himself.

Foodict · « **Reply #63 on:** May 17, 2012, 02:18:45 pm »

^Koalaa

dear ask his friends to help him out. its a critical phase now. baka magtuloy tuloy yan to something really bad. You cant help him without making more dependent on you. Trust me I know since I just went through the same phase. It was my parents and my friends who helped me steady my self and get me on the road to recovery.

Too bad he isnt on gt. dami makakatulong sa knya dito.

koalaa · « **Reply #64 on:** May 17, 2012, 02:46:27 pm »

^but even hes friends may sama ng loob saken kase they think i left their friend out of the blue. Minsan yung friends pa nya nag papa muka na Wag na ako kase wala na syang pag asa saken kaso pinag tatanggol pa nya ako. Kaya mas nagagalit pa sila saken

Foodict · « **Reply #65 on:** May 17, 2012, 04:02:45 pm »

^koalaa
oh boy. I dont know what else to suggest. Kasi talking to my friends really helped, especially my friends who were devout Christians.

They told me that bad things happen because we either need to learn something or there is something better in store for us. It would be a big help for him if he had a strong faith. Pray na lang then trust in the Lord. It will pass naman.

koalaa · « **Reply #66 on:** May 17, 2012, 04:30:15 pm »

^isa pa yon bro, he doesn't believe to our Lord God, Active Islam kase sya. Haay. I don't know what to do.

Foodict · « **Reply #67 on:** May 17, 2012, 05:09:49 pm »

^koalaa

ay oonga pala.

iba ang outlook nila. strongly patriarchal ang Islam. meron kaya sa GT na mapagtatanungan na Sis na Islamic din?

koalaa · « **Reply #68 on:** May 17, 2012, 06:20:23 pm »

^hopefully meron kaso in the end, emotion padin nya ang mananaig/masusunod. sana maging okay na sya at maka move on. I'm praying and hoping all the best for him.

rae · « **Reply #69 on:** May 18, 2012, 07:26:30 am »

Koala, I still think you try and do Foodict's suggestion. Nagalit din sakin ang friends ng ex ko. Pero kahit galit sila, sila lang talaga ang makakatulong sa kanya. Hindi naman sila galit sa friend nila e. Galit sila sayo. Tutulungan nila ang friend nila.

Nung ako, kahit ako yung nakipagbreak, kinailangan ko din ng "support people"

I talked to my really close friends and I told them na kelangan ko sila and that they be patient with me. Tipong kahit middle of the night natatawagan ko.

Kinelangan ko din kasi magbreak ng old habits. Yun ang pinaka mahirap sa lahat. Pag nakipagbreak ka. Para ka na ring namatayan. Kasi wala na yung tao. Para kang nawalan ng kamay. Sanay ka na andun yung kamay mo tapos ngayon wala na. Dati may pinagkkwentuhan ka ng day mo, ngayon wala na. After ng breakup, nagkkwento ako sa friends.

I really did go cold turkey. Kelangan mo panindigan yang decision mo kung sure ka. Kasi kung magiging kayo ulit. Paulit ulit ulit lang.

koalaa · « **Reply #70 on:** May 19, 2012, 09:43:18 pm »

Nakakatakot na talaga sya. Like, He's freaking me out! Lahat na nang related sakanya pinupuntahan ako , tinatawagan, nag e-email para maawa sakanya, ayokong maging kame because of pity. napilitan ako mag change ng number kahit naka Line ako para hindi na nya ma reach, nag condo na din ako pra wala ng makasunod. Pinapasubaybayan na din nya ako sa mga tauhan nya if dumaan ako samen, kaya advice ng parents ko mag stay muna ako sa abroad kaso matagal na process pa yun, at baka may maka kita saken pag labas. I never thought na mangyayare to. Nakaka takot na talaga sya sisters, masyado na syang obsesses.

rae · « **Reply #71 on:** May 19, 2012, 11:23:54 pm »

^ all the more na hindi na sya dapat balikan. He has big issues. He wants to get his way all the time. He doesnt respect what other people want.

Simula pa lang ganun na diba, kahit binasted mo sya, mina-nipulate ka para maging kayo.

koalaa · « **Reply #72 on:** May 19, 2012, 11:43:48 pm »

^Tama sis. Haay, gusto ko na ng freedom sakanya. I don't know what else to do. Hindi ako makalabas. I know it sounds OA pero totoo. Powerful sya in many aspect. I'm scared,

rae · « **Reply #73 on:** May 19, 2012, 11:57:53 pm »

Shocks, I can imagine.

To some extent, may pagka-powerful din ex ko, pero I dont think gagawan nya ako ng masama. He's a good person actually.

For now, I really recommend that you save all text messages, e-mail, call logs, at kung ano pa mang threats at pananakot that comes from him and his party. Sana di mo pa na-dedelete.

Para kapag may nangyari, meron kang evidence.

koalaa · « **Reply #74 on:** May 20, 2012, 12:30:40 am »

Ohh na delete ko na yung iba :O nakaka annoy kase pag nakikita ko, nag change na din kase ako ng number para ma contact ako, lagi nalang kase naka off and divert yung date, di ako matawagan sa office at ng family ko. Though wala namang threats puro drama at paawa lang. Nakakatakot na sya. Ang ginagawa ko nalang is magtago. Di ko naman pede to gawin for ever at kaylangan din ako sa office at ng family ko. Sobrang desperado talaga sya and i don't know why, Akala ko may closure na kame last kame nag usap pero eto sya ngayon sobrang desperado. Annoying.

ettevyvi · « **Reply #75 on:** May 20, 2012, 01:36:43 am »

Shucks, ngayon ko lalong nakita na ang pangit pala talaga tingnan kapag nagmumukhang pathetic ka na. Better vanish at once after breakup. No looking back.

xenos54 · « **Reply #76 on:** July 02, 2012, 09:05:56 pm »

baka pwede namang magpa-blotter sa police.. ??

kittyinpink · « **Reply #77 on:** July 04, 2012, 09:38:43 pm »

there's no such thing as breaking up without hurting someone else's feelings. no matter what you say or do, the other person will get hurt. just let him know what you feel right now and if break up is really the best solution, don't take this any longer. maybe telling him the truth now will ease things up than when you let him hurt in the long run.

dumpee.o13 · « **Reply #78 on:** July 14, 2012, 05:31:01 am »

Wala namang atang break-up na nagpapa-fiesta pa yung mga tao. Hihi! Siguro depende nalang yan sa reason. Pero kahit na, break-up pa din yun. And a break-up always hurts. Tsk' :'/

@JLO · « **Reply #79 on:** July 23, 2012, 06:26:29 pm »

Meron bang break - up na di masakit...

Meron... pag di ka nya [textspeak!] minahal... de its over...

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