Author Topic: Broken Hearts Club (B.H.C.) (Read 6741 times)

aylin · « **Reply #120 on:** November 14, 2012, 08:38:19 pm »

count me in..

ang hirap pag yung huling exbf mo na sya lang ang one and only na pinakilala mo sa parents mo e bumalik after 6 years. and nung bumalik sya e single ka pa din. tapos he asked for your help to know himself dahil on the rocks na sila nang wife nya. until hiniwalayan na sya at ikaw ang naging confidant nya. everyday kayo magkasama hanggang sa nahulog ka na naman sa kanya. yun pala may gusto na syang iba. hinayaan mo. ilang months din kayong di nagkita dahil sa pinupurse nya yung girl. tapos bigla na naman nagparamdam sayo kung kelan okay ka na. nagparamdam dahil humingi nang help sayo para isurprise yung girl na pinupursue nya. ikaw naman go. kasi friends naman kayo. hanggang sa napapansin mo na naging concern ka na sa kanya na parang umaasa sya sa wala. so ending balik uli na kayo ang parate magkasama. yung mga dumating na days, weeks and months ang saya nyo. hanggang dumating sa point na kailangan nya umalis for a 2 week business trip. pag dating sa pupuntahan nya nagtataka ka at di sya nagpaparamdam. di katulad nung una nyang alis na araw araw nagpaparamdan na ultimo damit na bibilin nya i coconsult sayo. but this last trip was different. he said na he wants to stand on his own. yung di na dumedepende sayo. hanggang sa nag paalam na sya sayo sa email. bumalik sya from business trip di na kayo nagkita at di na sya nagparamdam. yun pala kasama nya umalis yung girl na pinupursue nya at sila na pala.

yes hindi kayo committed sa isat isa. pero ang mali umasa ka. akala mo okay na. pag nakatalikod ka pala may ginagawa na pala. binigay mo na lahat. pag kailangan ka nya andyan ka kagad. pero wala pa din.

masakit nyan sya na yung last na naging bf mo at naabutan ka pang single. ending sya pa din.

minsan naiisip mo sana hindi nalang sya bumalik dahil masaya ka naman nung 6 years na single ka.

i just want to get this over with na. but im trying my best to move on. surviving each and everyday. isa lang naman gusto ko. maging happy na. yun lang...

just sharing..

(suffering from bday blues kaya biglang na pa post dito

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pretty empress · « **Reply #121 on:** December 11, 2012, 10:13:22 pm »

hi.. Active pa ba mga pioneer neto? Hehe! Pls count me in..

jamberryknots · « **Reply #122 on:** December 12, 2012, 09:12:01 am »

hi, wala bang meet up ng late dec - early jan? sana meron

lenjeearroyo24 · « **Reply #123 on:** December 12, 2012, 06:40:50 pm »

Quote from: jamberryknots on December 12, 2012, 09:12:01 am

hi, wala bang meet up ng late dec - early jan? sana meron

sna wekends parin.

rocelim · « **Reply #124 on:** December 17, 2012, 09:45:59 am »

Hello!

Does the BHC have a meeting? If so, when, where and what time? Maybe it would be healthy to speak the pain out loud =)

Thanks!

klengmorales · « **Reply #125 on:** December 17, 2012, 04:00:31 pm »

sana before christmas para meron naman tayong pang divert ng attention at to meet new friends =)

littlejohn · « **Reply #126 on:** December 27, 2012, 07:44:26 am »

Hello, puwede po ba ang guy dito? Im hoping new friends and new life but no relationship kasi nakakadala. Taga-Quezon province po ako.

bluefeather01 · « **Reply #127 on:** January 16, 2013, 12:52:09 pm »

Can I join this group...super depressing to see someone you love move on that fast after an almost 6 years relationship...how he can just start to have a girlfriend after just a month...

piatos · « **Reply #128 on:** January 20, 2013, 06:06:59 pm »

^pareho tayo sis. It's so frustrating na binabalewala ka na at tingin na sayo sagabal kasi walang makapasok na new love sa kanya haayst. Baka nga ngayon si ex may bago ng gf

kReeSH · « **Reply #129 on:** January 28, 2013, 03:39:58 am »

kasama pala ako dito

crybaby05 · « **Reply #130 on:** January 28, 2013, 06:29:30 pm »

http://www.tagaytayretreatcenter.org/Events/UpcomingEvents.html
there will be an event sa BK tagaytay, one day lang sya, 9-4.
i signed up dun sa feb.10 "Love Hurts, Love Heals" ang title.
nagemail ako sa BK, sabi nila 500 daw ang fee with lunch, snack and use of facilities na yun. join na tayo. para good vibes na.

piatos · « **Reply #131 on:** January 28, 2013, 08:05:41 pm »

ang sakit ang hirap magmove on kasi ang naiwan na lang yung memories

jhaney · « **Reply #132 on:** January 28, 2013, 09:29:56 pm »

Count me in! I was in love with the wrong person talaga. Ikakasal na siya this feb.

^^Sayang di ako free ng feb. 10. I wanted to go sana. By the way, I found out today lang na feb. 10 ang wedding nila which is my father's birthday din.

Well, sa mga broken heart na katulad ko, it's not the end of the world. Yes, andun yung pain lalo na pag pinaglaruan ang feelings natin (like on my case). But we have to do our best para mapabuti ang buhay natin and maging wiser next time. So what I'm doing right now is trying my best to be a better woman instead of thinking about what he had done to me. I'm planning to put up a small business para maging busy at para maging successful ang career ko. Ginawa ko na lang inspiration yung nangyari sa kin. I go out a lot with my friends, I watched movies with my friends din, more bonding moments with my family and of course I read inspirational books (ulit). I've realized na marami pala kong friends and of course andun din yung support ng family ko. We need their support sa ganitong situation. Pag nakaipon ako maybe I'll try to travel, parang soul searching but not exactly. I also do shopping like buy nice dress or shoes pag may budget. Hayz, ang hirap ma-stress and ma-depress at napapabili ako ng mamahaling dress pero ok lang at least para sa kin naman yun.

We have to stay and feel pretty kahit malungkot tayo. Wag tayo magpapatalo sa emotions natin kundi tayo lang din ang matatalo. We have to be happy. Unfair naman kung si guy happy tapos tayo malungkot at pumapanget pa. Pero honestly, katakot takot na luha ang iniyak ko nung nalaman ko ito pero inisip ko na lang na I don't deserve that kind of guy kasi babaero, akalain mo yun napagsabay kami tapos malalaman ko na lang sa Facebook stat niya na ikakasal na pala siya. That hurts a lot. Until now mejo nandun pa ring yung feelings ko sa kanya pero divert na lang. Marami pang iba jan.

Kaya sisses wag tayong malungkot. Cheer up!

clouds_1028 · « **Reply #133 on:** January 30, 2013, 08:48:08 am »

Quote from: bluefeather01 on January 16, 2013, 12:52:09 pm

Can I join this group...super depressing to see someone you love move on that fast after an almost 6 years relationship...how he can just start to have a girlfriend after just a month...

I can relate to your situation sis. I also had a boyfriend of 7 years, we had a condominium and plans of getting married next year kaso he broke up with me. At first he told me was fed up with my attitude only later to found out that he has another girl. Ang sakit sobra na sobrang dali niya pinutol lahat ng communication namin and he really changed a lot. Not only to me but to his family. Ganyan talaga ang life sis, sad at first pero eventually all will come to places and we will be happy again.

piatos · « **Reply #134 on:** February 10, 2013, 02:54:55 pm »

Gusto ko na makalaya sa sakit pero sabi sakin ako lang makakatulong sa sarili ko.

clouds_1028 · « **Reply #135 on:** February 10, 2013, 05:04:17 pm »

^Yes sis. Ikaw lang talaga makakatulong sa sarili mo. Kahit payuhan ka pa ng iba't ibang tao, kung hindi mo din gagawin, sayang lang payo nila. You need to be strong sis, I know mahirap talaga. Iiyak mo lang 'yan and pray lagi.

saymynameangelica · « **Reply #136 on:** February 23, 2013, 09:40:19 am »

pwede po pa-invite sa support group nito? if meron man po.

piatos · « **Reply #137 on:** April 02, 2013, 11:30:26 am »

confirmed may new girl na si ex. Selos ang lola mo pero kelangan tanggapin ang totoo. Hindi naman tayo home wrecker.

Girltalker2 · « **Reply #138 on:** April 03, 2013, 09:05:48 am »

Quote from: clouds_1028 on January 30, 2013, 08:48:08 am

I can relate to your situation sis. I also had a boyfriend of 7 years, we had a condominium and plans of getting married next year kaso he broke up with me. At first he told me was fed up with my attitude only later to found out that he has another girl. Ang sakit sobra na sobrang dali niya pinutol lahat ng communication namin and he really changed a lot. Not only to me but to his family. Ganyan talaga ang life sis, sad at first pero eventually all will come to places and we will be happy again.

I always treat this as a blessing. Just imagine kung natuloy ang kasal ninyo at nagkaron sya ng kalaguyo. The more painful it can be.

Pero life goes on, just try to be your utmost best - mag aral ulit, enroll in something that can divert your attention and meet new friends para malibang libang ka rin. And before you know it, wala na sya sa isip mo.

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