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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #40 on: October 24, 2012, 07:40:10 PM »
paano ba natin ipapaintindi dun sa naunang baby na ate/kuya na siya? parang ang hirap... 7 months na ako on my 2nd child
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #41 on: October 25, 2012, 03:13:13 AM »
^ang hiap yata nun sis, 1 year old pa lang baby ko. di ko sure kung pano.

hirap magalaga kapag magkasunod. si baby boy ko gusto magpabuhat din kapag nagpapa BF ako sa bunso namin, ang hirap kapagb sabay na umiyak, di ko alam sino uunahin.. haay.. sa nov 26 magpapa inject na ako pang contraceptives. di pa kay financially and emotionally ang pag 3rd baby. gusto ko din ng 4 kids pero wag muna ngayon.

gusto ko sana i-pursue yung career ko pero dahil need namin ng cash, kailangan ko mag trabaho na may malaking income, minsan naiinggit ako sa mga friends ko na nakaka gimik... pero kpag nakikita ko na yung mga anak ko, masaya na ako..
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #42 on: October 25, 2012, 06:15:36 AM »
^i feel the same way sis. Naiinggit ako sa friends ko na flexible ang time. But im focused with my first, and magkaka 2nd na kami in 2 weeks so iisipin mo talaga na mas priorities mga anak natin. Eventually. Sa totoo lang, ayoko na may di ako makita sa milestones o development ng baby ko, gusto ko isa ko sa unang makita yun, and walang kapalit happiness pag may bago or development baby mo..
Now, im worried naman kasi mahahati time ko pagdating ng 2nd baby ko, wala pa si hubby, kasi working sya sa province. Hirap din no, pero sabi nga sakin pag nanay ka madami kang magagawa na dmo akalain na kaya mong gawin :) so think positive tayo mga mommies kahit mahirap..

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #43 on: October 25, 2012, 09:32:49 AM »
^Same here mga sis. Minsan naiinggit ako sa mga friends ko na nagwo-work at parang "normal" ang buhay. Nakakainggit din yun may mga inaasahan bienan or nanay na pwede nila pag iwanan sa mga anak nila. They could go out na walang iniintindi. Ako kasi, simula sa first baby ko, naging hands-on na ko. Di ko kasi kayang iwan si baby sa care ng iba dahil she was born with abnormality. Plus, wala rin talaga akong pwedeng pag iwanan sa kanya kasi yun mom ko busy rin sa family biz namin. kaya talagang natali na ako. Pero come to think of it, mas gusto ko na rin na ako nag alaga sa mga anak ko, at least nababantayan ko talaga sila, ako unang nakakakita ng developments nila, ako nagtuturo sa kanila. kaya kapag napupuri sila ng ibang tao, ay talaga naman tumataba ang puso ko! Saka mahirap na iwan ang mga kids sa mga yaya or househelper nowadays lalo na pag bago lang ang maid, di mo alam kung anong ugali nila pag wala tayong mga amo sa bahay. Kaya kahit mahirap, lagi ko talagang kasama mga kids ko, iniisip ko nga pano pag 3 na sila?? baka maloka na ako!  :o
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #44 on: October 26, 2012, 07:21:47 PM »
^haha natawa naman ako sis, magingat ka nalang na masundan sis para di ka maloka ;p
Btw, paglaki laki naman ng babies natin we can have time for ourselves na.. Think positive :)

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #45 on: October 30, 2012, 02:42:08 AM »
funny lang, this was me and my hubby's topic the other day. currently preggy with first baby tapos he was like suggesting, "dapat wag ka muna gumamit ng anything (he meant contraceptives) after giving birth. hayaan lang natin kung makabuo." bongga diba?

e hirap na hirap ako ngayon sa paglilihi. tapos I was hoping to breastfeed my panganay until he/she wants. so sabi ko mahirap if may baby agad. I was hoping at least may gap ng 2years. ine-explain ko yan sa kanya pero he doesn't buy the idea. madali na raw mag-alaga. I am witness to his being a hands-on tito at alam kong mahilig sya sa bata, helps me even at house hold chores kaya alam kong maaasahan ko sya when it comes to taking care of the kids but still.....

tapos while reading this thread, medyo convinced naman ako na sundan na nga agad. naalala ko yung nephew ko na nagwa-wild pag iniiwan ng mga kalaro (only child kasi) tapos biglang tatakbo sa mama nya at iiyak, "mamaaaa, gusto ko nang kapatid." :(

kaya yes na ako kay hubby, kung i-permit ni God, why not sundan agad. :)

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #46 on: October 30, 2012, 10:02:42 AM »
para sakin hindi good idea ang sundan agad ang baby .. Mahirap and hindi pa masyado nakakarecover yung katawan. Then my tendency na mgagawan ng atention yung mga bata ..

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #47 on: October 30, 2012, 11:49:45 AM »
For me, okay naman talaga yun konti lang ang gap. At least 2yo dapat. That is... kung meron kang maaasahan talagang tutulong sayo (not just maids, kasi hindi naman lahat ng househelper, eh reliable, meron pa ngang iba na pasaway din, dagdag lang sa stress mo :D ) Mahirap kasi pag solo lang kayo, tapos both of you are working. Extra challenge ang mangyayari sayo. hehe

Kaming magkapatid parang 1.5yrs lang ang pagitan. Pero si mom ko, na-manage nya kami. Siguro kasi during the time na lumalaki pa lang kami, SAHM si mama ko. Kaya na-manage nya talaga. Tapos nun mga 7 na siguro ako, dun na kami nagkaron ng family biz, kaya we're already big enough para iwan sa mga yaya. Buti pa sya.  ;D

pero ngayon, feeling ko, mahihirapan ako. Yun 2 nga lang, naloloka na ako.  :o Kasi yun eldest ko, meron mild ADHD. So, talagang madalas, puro pagsasaway ang ginagawa ko. Tapos itong 2nd child, mag 2 yo na by next year, kaya mas magiging makulit na sya malamang. ::) Sa totoo lang, hindi ko alam kung pano ko aayusin yun schedule ko pag dumating na si 3rd baby. Pano ba naman, everyday bitbit ko mga anakis ko sa office namin. Minsan nga wini wish ko na sana hindi na lang ako sa family biz nagtatrabaho, kasi naman sa totoo lang, kaka stress yun nagwowork ka na, meron ka pang 2 makulit na iniintindi. Although, kahit tanghali ako makapasok, gabi na ako makakauwi for sure. Hindi ko naman maiwan sa yaya kahit isa sa kanila kasi (no pun intended) hindi sya maganda pag iwanan ng bata. May pagka illiterate kasi si yaya, she can't read and write (nakakaawa nga), so natatakot ako maiwan yun bata sa kanya, kasi gagawin nya, isasama nya lang sa labas yun anak ko habang makikipag chikahan to death sya sa kapitbahay. Saka wala syang tyaga ipanood yun mga videos na gusto ng anak ko (my kid loves baby einstein and brainy baby). Kaya talagang no choice ako but to tow the kids with me. Minsan nga parang hindi na office ang itsura ng office ko dahil sa mga pakalat kalat na toys nila. Minsan nga naaawa na rin ako sa mga anak ko kasi syempre, pag gabi na ako uuwi, pati sila, gabi na rin uuwi. Minsan naiisip ko to be a SAHM na lang, kahit si hubby ayun ang gusto, kaya lang I have no choice but to help sa family biz since 2 lang kaming magkapatid and ako pa yun eldest. :( kaya nga sa totoo lang naloka talaga ako nun nalaman ko na preggy na naman me!  :o Pero si hubby happy talaga. at sana daw boy na ;D

Sa mga sis natin here na 3 na ang kids, tapos magkakalapit lang ang gap, pano nyo na-manage yun?

PS: don't know if OT  na yun Q ko. Sorry if it is.
« Last Edit: October 30, 2012, 11:51:55 AM by mommylyn »
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #48 on: October 30, 2012, 05:33:45 PM »
^hello mommylyn, when due mo? Goodluck ah..hehe ako sa 2 nga lang nammroblema nako :/

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #49 on: October 30, 2012, 05:48:45 PM »
If you are financially prepared -- no sweat.
Your physical and emotional being will reasonably follow.
It will also be a joy bringing up the kids altogether -- Basta you're financially prepared.

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #50 on: October 31, 2012, 05:05:36 AM »
pa-join. Ako I got pregnant at 19 but gave birth at 20 na.Then for some weird reason meron pa ako nung umuwi ang bf ko noon from the states. Sabi ko pa sa OB ko bigyan ako ng kahit ano but sabi nya safe pa naman daw ako nun so wala. Last day night nya saka ko lang sa pinagbigyan. 1.5 months lang si 1st baby preggy na ulet ako.But I had a miscarriage at 5 mos.Nagkahiwalay din kami nung dad ng 1st baby ko.


11 yrs later, I got married to my bestfriend and immediately got pregnant and delivered prematurely last june.11 weeks early. Hindi din maganda ang masyadong malayo ang gap kasi magkaiba na sila ng gusto and syempre ang selos. Plan namin ni hubby 1 pa after 4 yrs siguro kung papayag yung 2 kids na nauna. I am 32 na pala.
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #51 on: December 02, 2012, 04:14:28 PM »
saken din, kapag financially prepared ka, pwede magkasunod na anak, kung hindi, hindi pwede.

ang hirap lang talaga na magkasunod, super likot ng 1 year old ko, minsan ginagalaw yung kapatid nya, gusto lagi tusukin yung mata tapos yayakapin na parang dadaganan..hirap sawayin. palagi puyat pero keribels lang, di ko naman ganun ramdam ang pagod
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #52 on: December 02, 2012, 05:19:13 PM »
nkaka inggit naman magbasa nang mga post nyo sisses kabaliktaran kasi siya sa thread na kung saan in na in ako, TTC thread, problem naman namin hirap magbuntis, malaki na nagagastos pero negative pa din results. how i wish mkasabay ako sa usapan ninyo dito soon.hehe
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #53 on: December 04, 2012, 06:08:24 AM »
^sis, think positive. Isipin mo lang dka nagiisa.. And sa dami ng options na pwedeng gawin ngayon dba :)

Btw, nasundan agad eldest ko, 11 months sya when i got pregnant.. ngayon mag 1 month yung 2nd ko. Nung una, sibrang naging iyakin yung eldest ko. As in super needy, brat, ayaw pahawakan yung 2nd ko at talagang lahat dinadaan sa iyak. Nahirapan kami, pero eventually ngayon umo ok na sya though their are times na nagseselos padin sya. pero ngayon, gusto nya igoodnight kiss lagi si baby, and ihug and ifeed.. I can feel that shes going to be a good ate.. eventually makakapag adjust din naman lahat sa situation, sa una lang talaga mahirap. As long as pafeel mo sa first mo na love mo padin sya and dmo sya papabayaan.

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #54 on: December 04, 2012, 09:32:00 AM »
ako eldest ko 3yrs old na tapos 3months old naman bunso ko grabe yung eldest ko super pasaway kulit likot maldita dati naman hindi sya ganon simula lang nun alam na nya may kapatid sya nagsimula na lahat .. Nasa mom ko ang eldest ko kase nahihirapan ako alagaan sya . Tapos nasasaktan nya yung kapatid nya ..

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« Reply #55 on: January 06, 2013, 08:24:51 PM »
7 months palang first baby ko nung malaman ko buntis ako at 4weeks..  actually..sa ngayon,hirap kami ni hubby i announced agad sa family namin..  :(
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #56 on: January 26, 2013, 08:59:16 PM »
^ same tayo sis, 7 mos si eldest nung nalaman ko na preggo with second. di ko agad nasabi sa parents ko kase young mom ako.
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« Reply #57 on: January 27, 2013, 09:31:44 AM »
mahirap yung ganyan mga sis .. Ako nga 3ys old ang eldest ko ng mapreg ako mahirap kaya nga sabi ko tama na ang 2 .,.

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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #58 on: May 29, 2013, 09:25:48 AM »
naku mukang masusundan na ang 7th month old baby ko... waaah

delayed ako ng 2days.... di to normal sa akin
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Re: babies na nasundan agad?
« Reply #59 on: May 29, 2013, 01:53:11 PM »
ako naman 1 year old si baby ng masundan kagad.. 5 mos preggy na ko, january 30 1st bday ni baby nalaman namin feb 7 nag PT kasi kagad ako ng nag delayed ako ng 2 days at ayun nag positive na nga, di rin namin nasabi kagad sa lahat it took 3 mos bago nila nalaman hirap din kasi sabihin kagad lalo na pang third baby ko na to tsaka young mom din ako, tsaka unexpected talaga tapos di pa din namin kagad natanggap ang age gap kasi nung first at second ko is 6 years kaya bago talaga samin.. ayun! pero ngayon ok na kahit papano ubti unti n naming napaplan ulit that we have another baby na naman by oct. naisip namin ok na rin siguro para isang hirap nalang sa pagpapalaki sakanila.  :)
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