Author Topic: babies na nasundan agad? (Read 3844 times)

icee_star · « **on:** April 16, 2012, 07:41:42 pm »

Meron po ba dito nakaexperience na months apart lang ang mga babies?

How do you deal with it? Ano ang reaksyon ng mga family and friends niyo? and how do you go through taking care of a baby and meron agad inside your tummy.
please share your experiences.

Thank you.

tashasabs · « **Reply #1 on:** April 20, 2012, 01:20:12 pm »

Hi sis icee_star. Ako, beterana ako diyan. Lol.

Let me give you a run down. Maaga ako nabuntis, 15 years old. Nauna lang ako magbirthday kesa manganak kaya naging mommy talaga ako 16 years old na. After nun 4 months pa lang yata si panganay, meron na naman. Last year nanganak ako ng August, now I'm currently pregnant, 4 months. Ang biro ko, by batch ang mga anak namin. Hehe.

Sa reaction ng family/friends, sa first two babies, siyempre usual "Ang bata niyo pa" etc. May mga tsismosa/tsismoso din. Sa last two, married na kami so wala naman na masyadong ek-ek. Di ko na rin pinapansin mga nega na tao. Dati kasi madali ako maapektuhan, lalo na sa term na "disgrasyada." Still, it's my life and it's my business as a mom so ayun, kalaunan natutunan ko na silang dedmahin. Nang-aaway lang ako kapag below the belt na ang atake.

Sa pag-aalaga, I managed with my first two kids na ako lang. Oo ako lang. Part ng disiplina ko sa sarili. Natuto ako na ilang oras lang ang tulog, babawi na lang kapag natulog din yung panganay. Sa third ko kumuha na ko ng yaya pero stay out naman siya, salitan kami ni hubby.

icee_star · « **Reply #2 on:** April 21, 2012, 10:44:13 pm »

^wow sis, thanks for sharing! Ang bata mo pa nga nabuntis but you sound so happy naman! Ang saya naman, 4 babies ka na.

Di pa naman nangyari sa akin to, 5 yrs apart ang mga kids ko. Pero etong bunso, 3 months pa lang. Masyado lang paranoid sa mga pinaggagawa, di pa nakapagconsult for family planning eh. hehe!

Sana may magshare pa!

tashasabs · « **Reply #3 on:** April 22, 2012, 06:24:43 am »

@icee_star Oo nga eh, ewan ba, okay lang sakin na may family na kahit ganito pa ko kabata. Never ko naisip yung "kung sana di ako nabuntis ganyan-ganyan..." Weird. Nasa maling panahon yata ako.

Hehe, no wonder napaparanoid ka, mga ganyang edad sila kapag nasusundan sakin eh. Pero since bata pa ko (turning 21 pa lang) lahat ng nakausap kong OB ayaw ako i-ligate. So baka injectables ang uwi ko. Pills kasi ako dati eh nakakalimutan ko rin uminom kaya hassle.

May family planning method ba kayo noon kaya 5 years bago nasundan?

ana mimi · « **Reply #4 on:** June 05, 2012, 11:36:45 pm »

hi, joining in. young mom din. gave birth last October... mag-injectables sana ako nung 5th month ni baby pero di na ako nagka-mens. aww

jhoanneaganda · « **Reply #5 on:** June 09, 2012, 05:20:16 pm »

joining im turning 30 pero i have four kids na din... hehe mind you CS lahat huh...

Got pregnant when i was 20 1st child then nasundan after 1year and 2 months tapos medyo pahinga after 3 years gave birth to my 3rd child less than 1 year nasundan na naman si baby... Medyo hirap lang yun recovery and hindi na nakapag papayat kasi magkakasunod yun anak.

hunny_ally · « **Reply #6 on:** June 10, 2012, 11:02:28 am »

I'm giving birth 2mos before my youngest turns 2. Less than 2 years is a small gap for us (ang mahal magpaaral). Lalo na my 18mo old now is still breast feeding and looks like he won't wean any time soon. We are just afraid what will be the repercussion for him if we make him stop and he's not yet ready.

Reactions of family and friends: normal Lang. Mag-anak pa daw kami mag anak cause we make cute babies (umm thanks but we'll stop at 3).

For me and my husband it was really unexpected. We wanted to stop at 2. We even asked my ob after i gave birth with my 2nd re the possibility of ligation. But he wasnt up for the idea since i was only 29yo then. Maybe now papayag na. We really want to stop at 3 kids. Though financially kaya, we want to give our kids more than a comfortable life.

ana mimi · « **Reply #7 on:** June 12, 2012, 02:15:10 pm »

ako, I'll be giving birth 1 year 3mos na si baby...

mimigarcia · « **Reply #8 on:** June 17, 2012, 04:20:46 pm »

Sis anamimi congrats po, kuya na pala si baby drake..ü ako wag muna sana masundan nagpipills kasi ako 2m0nths after giving birth, baka maloka ako pag napreggy ulit pero want ko baby girl naman. Sana girl naman baby mo ngayon ciz.ü

Princess_Chill · « **Reply #9 on:** June 18, 2012, 05:34:35 am »

pa join!

2 years old na si bagets, gusto ko na sana sundan kaso financially hindi pa kaya e...want to have a boy sana..and hindi ko alam if its too early pa na sundan siya agad.

how would i know na ok na sundan? hmm

heaven_scent102 · « **Reply #10 on:** July 02, 2012, 07:13:35 pm »

me too pajoin

got married at the age of 20, i gave birth sa eldest ko 21 y.o ako.. then nung nag 1year and 2 months siya sinundan na namin, then nung 8 months palang 2nd namin nabuntis ako unplanned

now my youngest just turned 2 last month i'm currently pregnant for our 4th, 6 months na ako

so now turning 27 palang ako 4 na kids namin

malalapit age gap nila pero gusto namin na ganun kasi we really can see their closeness tapos yung hirap mo sunod sunod na, all my 4 kids are girls

habol pa kami sana maka boy tapos graduate na ako hehe!

ana mimi · « **Reply #11 on:** July 02, 2012, 10:30:25 pm »

mimigarcia : thanks sis, sana nga girl na this time. mag 7months preggy na din ako, due date by October.

heaven_scent102 : parang same scenario tayo sis ha. ako din, got pregnant at 20 then ayun kapag 1 year and 3 months na si panganay will be having my 2nd one na. kaka-22 ko palang... haay. sana wag muna masundan.

promise ko talaga. di muna kami mag-do until makapag pa-inject na ako or kahit anong contraceptives na magtatagal ng 5 years plus. di ko na yata makakaya kapag nasundan na agad tong 2nd. kay Drake pa nga lang hirap na. saka, mas gusto ko mag work. di pa ako ready na maging SAHM

heaven_scent102 · « **Reply #12 on:** July 03, 2012, 09:20:17 am »

^hehe ganun ba?

masaya din kasi makitang may kapatid na mga anak natin kaya gusto namin sunod sunod na sila

ana mimi · « **Reply #13 on:** July 03, 2012, 11:09:57 pm »

^ siguro samen tama na munang sila munang dalawa. hirap kase ng magkasunod e, gatas, diaper etc. haha. plan ko pa naman sana na we will celebrate lagi yung birthday ni panganay. lagi pa nagpapabuhat ngayon, nadadaganan tummy ko. haha

Tea97 · « **Reply #14 on:** July 03, 2012, 11:25:38 pm »

Sis anamimi - congrats! Ako rin unplanned and second, pero our firstborn will be 18 mos when I give birth next year (March).

Ideal sana sa akin ang at least 2 years age gap, para kahit papano, yun panganay marunong na maglakad and magbanyo, tsaka na pamper namin. Sobrang gulat nga ni hubby when I told him about our 2nd baby. Una dami ko iniisip kasi baka maapektuhan career ko (I'm under contract so baka hindi irenew), pero at the end of the day, mas importante naman ang babies namin so I'm sure God's sending this blessing our way habang kaya ko pa (I'm 36) and I've been telling my hubby that I want a sibling for our son.

Hehe, hubby wants a girl this time, ako naman boy pa rin ang gusto. Either way I hope our 2 kids will be close to each other.

sassyrosel · « **Reply #15 on:** July 04, 2012, 07:25:42 am »

Hi sis icee_star! I have my first child when I was 20, then after 2 years, I gave birth again. I think ok naman ang birth spacing... Although, hindi pa kami nakakarecover financially that's why medyo nahirapan kami.

Now, I'm 27 and I'm having my 3rd child. Initially, we just wanted 2 kids. However, since 3rd baby is coming, I think we decided to have 3 na (for now, kasi wala pa din kami baby boy

)

, but please dont get us wrong. We hoped for a baby boy when we're trying to have our 3rd, however, God still gave us a baby girl.

b3bang · « **Reply #16 on:** July 04, 2012, 08:58:05 am »

I just gave birth last year Nov 25 '11 on our first baby boy (turning 8 months this July). Ngayon I am 6 days delayed at kanina lang nag-PT ako at positve! Post CS ako..so this time sure CS ulit. Wala pang naka-kaalam sa family ko at hubby's family kasi plan ko magpa-TVS this Saturday muna to check kung ilang weeks na ako. Then tsaka na ako mag-announce. For sure maraami magugulat.. ahahah!! Naunahan kami.. wala kasi ako time para pumunta sa Center at kumuha ng reseta for injectibles. Ayun! Jackpot kami agad! Though unplanned at hinde kami prepare financially kasi pinaghahandaan namin yung 1st birthday ng Son ko. Pero andito na eh so doble kayod. Mahal ng gatas at diaper!

. Sana maka-baby girl naman ako.. by the way I'm turning 30 next year. Plan ko rin magpa-ligate na kasi ok na ako sa 2 pero depende pa sa sasabihin ng ng Doctor.

kimebies · « **Reply #17 on:** July 04, 2012, 08:06:59 pm »

I was 19 when I had my son. On the night of his 2nd birthday, I realized I was 1 month delayed na pala. Punta ako agad sa St. Luke's to have TVS, pero it's sill early to tell daw dahil wala pang sac. 3x ako nagbalik-balik weekly bago na-confirm my pregnancy.
So yun, my son was 2 years and 8 months when I gave birth to my daughter. At first, feeling ko masyadong close yung gap nila. Pero now that my son is 4y4m and my daughter is 1y7m, I can say na mas madaming advantage if the age gap is closer.
My son loves his sister so much to the point na he wouldn't leave the house pag di kasama his sister.

Husband and I are talking about having our next baby after 2-3 years ulit. I'll be 26-27 years old then. Tapos another one pa before I turn 30.

orangerain · « **Reply #18 on:** July 06, 2012, 02:23:48 pm »

Quote from: tashasabs on April 22, 2012, 06:24:43 am

@icee_star Oo nga eh, ewan ba, okay lang sakin na may family na kahit ganito pa ko kabata. Never ko naisip yung "kung sana di ako nabuntis ganyan-ganyan..." Weird. Nasa maling panahon yata ako.

Hehe, no wonder napaparanoid ka, mga ganyang edad sila kapag nasusundan sakin eh. Pero since bata pa ko (turning 21 pa lang) lahat ng nakausap kong OB ayaw ako i-ligate. So baka injectables ang uwi ko. Pills kasi ako dati eh nakakalimutan ko rin uminom kaya hassle. May family planning method ba kayo noon kaya 5 years bago nasundan?

Natuwa naman ako sa'yo sis! Ako kasi 21 nung nagka-first baby. Graduate naman ako and all pero para sa family and friends ko masyado pang bata. Nagpakasal lang kami before ako manganak kaya sinasabi nila "pilit" daw kahit hindi naman talaga (dahil plano naman talaga namin ni hubby magpakasal na nun). Sobrang affected ako sa lahat ng naririnig ko. Hindi kasi ako palaaway kaya iniiyak ko lang. Although may one time na sinabunutan ko tita ko sa galit ko nung nalaman ko tsinitsismis niya kami. hehe

Tapos ito, 13 months pa lang si baby girl at may kasunod na. 14 weeks pregnant na ako at parang disappointed ang mom ko about it. Dad ko and in laws ko excited, pero yung mom ko talaga ang nagpapakita ng disappointment and it stresses me out. Palagi niya kasing sinasabi sa friends niya na malayo pa sana narating ko. Ayan tuloy naiisip ko rin minsan yung mga what ifs.

Anyway. It's good na kinaya mo na walang yaya yung first two. Sana kayanin ko rin! Work at home naman ako kaso ang hina ko sa puyatan. Haha. Plano ko na nga kumuha ng yaya pero ma-try nga muna na wala.

ayami · « **Reply #19 on:** July 06, 2012, 03:03:22 pm »

Nakakainggit naman yung magkakasunod na. Ang goal ko lasi before 30 nakatatlo or dalawa na kami. Para ok yung body ko and di na ko mahirapan magreduce ng post baby weight. 20 din ako nanganak and nag depo provera shots ako. Tinigil ko na nung May kasi graduating na ko this year and ready na ko for the next one. Kaso ayaw pa ni hubby and in-laws kasi siya di pa tapos mag-aral and financially, wala syang own money. Ako lang ang may raket sa amin.

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