FNMod_Nelly:
PLEASE USE THE PERSONAL MESSAGE/PM FUNCTION DIRECTLY INSTEAD OF CLUTTERING THE BOARDS WITH PM CALLOUTS. THANKS.
phoebe1811:
maybe you'll fold if you realize that there is something wrong with your relationship or else you you'll still take the risk. and give all you can.
xenos54:
just my two cents..
why is it that the assumption here is.. sooner or later.. kelangan mo mag cash in? na may ending ang isang relationship? hindi ba ito parang business na may assumption din na "going concern"? that the relationship will continue long enough and couples carry out their commitments?
feeling ko po pag serious relationship - or marriage.. dapat bigay todo.. kasi.. ang goal mo dito ay maintain the relationship for a lifetime..
so pag iniisip mo lage yung risk of losing? ay hindi ka talaga tataya pag ganun..
ettevyvi:
^ Its not really about losing but about winnning. Sure, you have to give something. Your all, time commitment, and everything to make the relationship work. Pero sabi nga nila, ibigay mo lang yung kaya mong ipatalo. Kasi madalas nang nangyayari na you give all pero may nangyayari ba? Wala din. You end up feeling beaten up most of the time. More often than not, sino bang talo? Ikaw di ba? Kasi kapag ibinigay mo lahat, as in lahat na tipong respeto sa sarili wala na, dun na pumapasok yung sinasabing 'know when to fold'.
Ang buhay at pag-ibig, kailangan minsan matalino ka din. Hindi pwedeng puso lang at lalo na't di pwedeng hindi ka nag-iisip. 'Yan ang common misconception ng halos lahat ng tao, na kapag ibinigay mo lahat, maganda din ang babalik sa 'yo. Pero pano kung yung taong 'yun, di marunong magpahalaga? Know when to walk away. A person is wiser when he knows what battles he'll walk away from. ;)
aquacharly:
^ yup
^^. Cash in, as in figuratively stopping to play when things aren't going ok? As in: Ngek, maalat today.. okay, tama na muna.. Then they get back in another time, may pondo pang panglaro, versus going bankrupt, ano you will go into debt?? be flexible, don't burn all your boats, search for the aces
Just as with a going concern business -- you lose some, win most. Eh baket ka magpupumilit with for example, an employee/strategy/product line that is making you lose money??? Same same -- be flexible, don't use/ burn all your boats, search for the aces
