Would you prefer a guy older or younger than you?

[mriah8]

Older

[prettychestnut]

Gusto ko sana older. kaso ang mas nakakalapit sa akin ay younger, lol.

First bf - 2 years younger than me pero mas mukha syang matanda sa age nya. ako kc babyface hehe.

=)

[mspepot]

Older

[Cessiechu]

I want an older guy. Ang habol ko is maturity. Ayoko maging ate or mother figure ang dating ko sa boyfriend ko haha My boyfriend is 3 years older than me Sabe nila, 4 years ahead daw ang maturity ng babae kumpara sa guys.

[monbla]

My guy is 2 years younger than me. Ok lang naman most of the time since sobrang mas matangkad siya sa akin. Haha. For some reason, nah-hide nun yung difference. Also, jive naman kami pag dating sa humor, social opinions and what not so kasundo naman. May trabaho din naman siya so hindi ko siya binubuhay.

Ang hirap lang minsan yung feeling na been-there done-that ka na sa ibang naeexperience pa lang niya, like grown up stuff (money problems, taking care of your parents, responsibilities). Mas mahirap pag andun sila sa phase na ayaw pa nila tumanda and you're already there.

While I'm saving for the future house, iniisip pa lang niya yung next upgrade ng pc niya at pag iipon para sa kotse. Sa ganto pa lang, ramdam ko na na magkaibang level ng commitment mayron kami sa relationship namin. He's younger, he has more time, maybe he can still score a hotter younger chick than me (perception ko lang). I can't help but feel insecure sa relationship when I think this. Feeling ko mas invested ako.

While I'm not pushing naman for a married life anytime soon (to be honest, I just want the next years to be about adventures, which he hates but that's another story), ayoko lang ng reminder that we are at different points in our lives.

I would like to think na lang na hindi ito big deal. That he would eventually grow up / catch up. Mas madali siguro kung ka-age ko na lang or a little older, pero what can you do? Di naman napipili to.

[christine1992]

I always prefer to have an older guy kasi mature yung pag-iisip and in my case, will definitely make me feel like a baby and a princess. I had a 2 year realtionship with a guy who is 11 years older than. He's pretty much mature in so many aspects in life, but still it didn't work out. And it is all because, I was the immature that time. Hindi na niya kaya siguro ugali kong ganon. Anyways, now, I am having a relationship with a guy who is 7 years older than. I love him so. With him, I learn to understand and be patient. Mahirap pero ginagawa ko pa rin kasi mahal ko eh. Nasanay kasi ako sa first relationship ko, ako yung baby niya at lahat ng gusto ko gagawin. Naninibago lang ako ngayon, but I do love my boyfriend now. Hahay. Ang hirap pag in love, pag may desisyon kang gagawin kelangan you also need to think about what its going to do with your significant other.

[tifay]

Mas prefer ko older although Na experience ko din younger 2x pa nga ewan ko bakit lapitin ako nang bagets. Pero napansin ko pag younger mas sweet, mas worrier, mas possessive. Pag older naman more on maturity talaga, provider and mas understanding wala nang explain explain Na mahaba pag mag paalam.
Mas prefer ko older kase mas alaga ka financially, then also give more wisdom na tuturo nila simple things and they are more stable. Unlike if younger sweet nga and all pero not always may anda kase they're more into trends bar bar,usong toys,usong damit,usong gimik. Yung future is malayo pa hehe

[yengyeng]

older at least 2 years older

[pretty empress]

older guy.. Mature sila e..mas gusto ko yung ako naman alagaan, pagod na akong mag alaga!

[simple_chix]

older than me coz i hate immature and childish partner.

[Girltalker2]

biologically, mas mabilis talaga magmature ang mga babae. so kahit magka age na kayo, minsan mas mature pa din ang babae.

second, in terms of looks, women age faster.   look around you.  kung may mga kaklase kayong nagkatuluyan (same age), look at the couple. bihira na ang babae ang mukhang bata, especially after marriage.  proven ko narin ito. sa mga malls palang, I tried observing, majority mas mukhang matanda yung nanay kesa sa tatay ng isang pamilya.  so it is ideal that the guy is older than you. huwag naman tipong daddy/lolo na tanda. mga 5 years siguro.

[yengyeng]

older guy.. Mature sila e..mas gusto ko yung ako naman alagaan, pagod na akong mag alaga!

     Tama!! Hehe..

[babychellee]

When i was still 25, i dated a 21-year old guy and our "Mutual Relationship" did not last (it only lasted 6 months). I just couldn't get what I wanted from him. He's too immature and super isip bata pa. still, minahal ko siya and I cried a lot when we had to call it quits coz i super cared for him. The rest of the guys I dated are mostly same age ko or mas matanda ng konti and I can say mas better talaga.

But i really think it depends on the person. kasi i have a friend right now who's 31 years old and her bf/fiance is 26 years old lang. 4 years narin sila and just earlier last year, the guy proposed. pag kasama namin siya, i can say he looks matured and he makes my friend really happy. all praises nga e. siguro kasi panganay yung guy. so i guess depende rin sa personality nung tao.

[lavinia13]

older

[cute_pompom]

Older, preferably 5-10 years older. It feels great to be pampered and guys who are older tend to be more responsible and patient.

[ladyfoxy]

Older. Up to 15 years older, keri lang sa akin. 

But lately, napapansin ko, puro younger yung mga napapalapit sa akin.

[ashleycole]

i prefer older, base na rin sa mga past bf's ko na puro younger dan me at hindi naging successful..but now, may boyfie is older dan me about 4 years lang kaya hopefully sya na ang forever partner ko   

[pepurpink]

i prefer older kaso mas bata din mga napapalapit sa ken.

 

[xtine]

I would prefer older than me.  But if the guy is much mature than I am even if he's younger, welcome naman. he he he

[kwang sun]

older! parang parati naman older guys nagkakagusto sa akin lol