Let us write our Hubby a FEELING LETTER..............

[fegloria1954]

My dearest,

I just now thought of you, and I felt REASSURED, like when I checked our kids - when they were still young - one last time at night before going to bed and I find that they are already asleep. 

If my reassured feeling were a physical sensation, it would be like I am engulfed in a warm glow in a misty cold morning.  If my feeling were a color, it would be a warm orange, like the glow of the gas stove burner over which I am boiling a nice pot of hot chocolate that I love to drink.  On a scale of 1 to 10, my reassured feeling is a 9.

If my reassured feeling were something in nature, it would be the first growth of flower buds in early spring announcing that soon the garden would be filled with flowers a-blooming and later on the flowering trees would have fruits that we could gleefully gather.

If my reassured feeling were an image, it would be one of a baby held loving by its mother while it contentedly suckles at her breast.

Using a shared memory to describe my reassured feeling, it would like how we felt when we finally located a store where we could buy hot food that windy late autumn late night when we just arrived in New York City - at least we could finally eat something hot, after having traveled across the US continent, with just a small bag of mixed nuts and a cold drink for snacks on board the plane we took.

I love you,
Fe

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Okay, now write your own letter.  Pattern it to how I made mine.  Some rules:
Do not use the word "YOU."
Do not use the words "ALWAYS" and "NEVER."
Your goal is to write a letter to your hubby telling him of your feeling, and describing to him your feeling, so that he will understand your feeling.

All the best,
Mommy Fe

[aquacharly]

Darling,

I glance at you and feel CONTENT, like when I check a project's cash flow & I am satisfied with its funds management.

If my contented feeling were a physical sensation,  it would be like I am lightly but fully swaddled in cashmere  softness in cold NYC.    If my feeling were a color, it would be light blue;   like the view over the clouds outside a plane flying in early morning hours.   On a scale of 1 to 10, my contented feeling is an 8;  since I have a  chromosome of cynicism.

If my contented feeling were something in nature, it would be the champaca trees  when in full bloom; that scent our entire house on all levels, in all rooms.   It is unbelievable, how upon  entering the gates, the scent embraces you. 

If my contented feeling were an image,  it would be a lot of horizontally  aligned numbers in a bank Book/certificate/Account Summary. 

Using a shared memory to describe my contented feeling,  it would be like how we feel when just the 2 of us decide how much to close a bid that required a lot of work from our staff and consultants, and ourselves of course;  and we strongly feel it is a winning bid.  That though  another company may beat our bid, we remain confident we all did our best;  and that is only as far low we 2  want to  go.   

I love you, so long as you stay the way you are since God threw a bathtub at me but you are the one that got knocked off by the bigger epiphany, in 2006.   That's as far as I can go;   since you have used up the quotas of patience, forgiveness, & acceptance  I have for you.

God  be with you, and keep you safe always.
With all my love,

Chabelli (kasi chubby daw ako after our NYC trip).