"We have to stop this. We can't be friends anymore and I can't go out with you. Please stop contacting me. I'm getting married"
We broke up in 2005 but we remained friends he tried to win me back again pero I didn't want us to be together na tlaga hindi na pwede syado na complicated. So we remained friends for 3 years (when I was still single) we would go out sometimes, talk, eat, go shopping. He had gfs na kinukwento nya sa kin may mga nanligaw sakin na kinukwento ko din sa kanya. When I started dating my other ex (who is now my husband) we stopped seeing each other na syempre bawal na eh. He called me a couple of times tapos biglang sumusulpot sa FB chat or whereever na ngangamusta nangungulit na umalis kami.
Before I got married I told him to stop na talaga. I erased him from my FB page kasi sumasama ang loob ng husband ko. And ibang usapan na kasi pag may asawa na. Ayokong masaktan ang asawa ko.