Author Topic: needs some advice (Read 525 times)

glacier0903 · « **on:** March 05, 2012, 10:59:48 am »

my friends and i planned a vacation before holy week. it was already set but then my boyfriend told me that his graduation will be on the same date and he wants me to come. gustong gusto ko talaga tong vacation namin na ito and i have been looking forward to this matagal na. kaya lang nagtatampo/masama loob ni bf dahil hindi ako makakapunta sa grad nya. anong gagawin ko? sasama ako sa vacation pero magtatampo/magagalit sya sa akin? or pupunta ako sa grad nya pero parang napilitan lang ako? selfish ba ako?? hehe

needs some advice from other people kasi medyo biased yung friends ko.. hehe..

Thanks!

evilwoman · « **Reply #1 on:** March 05, 2012, 11:04:25 am »

^ pasagot kahit hindi ako lalaki. doon ako sa graduation. di naman kasi pwede i"rebook" ang date noon. plus, minsan lang mangyayari yan at sobrang importante. ang bakasyon, pwedeng planuhin uli.

CityHunter · « **Reply #2 on:** March 05, 2012, 11:14:06 am »

You can always go after the graduation naman - habol ka nga lang. Boys can be quite sensitive to such things and admittedly mas matampuhin pa than girls kapag sinumpong ng toyo

And yes, hindi pwede i-reset ang graduation but the vacation pwede.

|:AyemZia:| · « **Reply #3 on:** March 05, 2012, 11:22:59 am »

sa graduation din ako. sobrang meaningful and special kase yun for your bf kaya gusto nya andun din yung special person nya. he wants to share it with you. and just in case pwede ka naman sumunod dun sa vacation, why not? isama mu na rin si bf mu. parang celebration nyo na rin kase nga he graduated na.

chicafabulosa · « **Reply #4 on:** March 05, 2012, 11:28:58 am »

di ba pwedeng i move kahit kinabukasan ang vacation nyo? i think pwede pa naman kasi medyo mahaba pa time nyo. it won't kill your friend if imo move nyo kahit isang araw lang yung vacation nyo. yung graduation di naman pwede ipa rebook yan.

Stella_r · « **Reply #5 on:** March 05, 2012, 12:22:48 pm »

Kung hindi talaga pwede imove yung date ng bakasyon with the friends.. maybe you can sit down with him to explain how much you need and have been wanting the vacation?

For me, it's not selfish of you to want to go on that vacation na matagal nang naplano and which you feel that you need. If you're bf would still prefer you in his graduation even after explaining.. think which you prioritize more. but know that if he doesn't want you to go but you still do, it might be a permanent dent in your relationship that he may never forget. Sit down and talk, explain your side. let him explain his. Listen. then maybe you can come up with a solution that is favorable for both of you.