chic_louisse:
If you are a girl and you have a guy friend and you sort of develop an intense feelings for the guy, would you tell him what you feel and risk the friendship? I have been friends with this guy and we work under one department, under one cluster and we sort of do stuff together. As time goes by, i felt something that ive never felt for anyone for a long time, he sort of giving me mixed signals so im confused if he likes me too.
But there's this one time, he held my hand, so we were like HHWW. i was surprised, i did'nt ask him about the "hand holding" incident though and we never talk about it too.
Now things are getting really out of hand because of so many things. I dont know, I want to tell him what i feel but i am afraid of getting rejected. He is just 23 and i am 25, as far as i know he only had 1 relationship with some girl before so me being the older one and more experienced one, in all respects, do i have to step up, take the initiative because i know better? What do i do?
k_heart:
^Wait and see ka lang sis, Don't tell him anything. Kasi baka talagang friendly lang sya. Kung may gusto syang sabihin, dapat sa kanya talaga manggagaling. Kasi halimbawa, sinabi mong love mo sya,tapos ok if he feels the same way, pero paano kung hindi? Eh di pati friendship nyo,magiging awkward. Encourage him by being prettier everyday pero wag yung direstong ikaw ang magbibigay ng motibo na gusto mo sya. Let the guy runs after you!
chilla12:
my advise to you you is ...just whait a litle and you will see what hapens......... ;)
Naughty^GuRu:
as a guy, i have to agree sa previous posts na wait and see ka nalang. Don't make a move, if he likes you, sya dapat yung gumawa ng way. But, try to give him clues na you like him. Some guys are really weak, torpe, and sigurista. Kaya may mga guys na kahit gusto ka na nila, hindi sila magmomove unless sure sila na may feelings ka din for them. On the other hand, I think yung HHWW is enough na to send him a signal na you like him. And please, if you don't want it to be more complicated, don't get intimate with him. Tama na yung HHWW. and wag ka mailang with him, that will send bad signals sa kanya. and for now, just enjoy the kilig moment. good luck ;)
home_seeker :
I agree! let the guy make the initiative to start something. Nothing against girls making the first move, but sometimes guys really have to step up.
I had the same problem of confusion and just basically asking myself "what if maging kami?" with my former boyfriend. It really tested my patience and I guess common friends helped a lot because they would fish some details with the guy so somehow I had an inkling that he liked me. But I didn't do anything out of the ordinary. I would just give hints that I liked this particular movie... then that is an open invitation for the guy to ask me out on a movie date.
Konting pakipot muna just so that may thrill pa rin of the chase. =)
