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Author Topic: Resolving issues among your Maids/HH/Yayas  (Read 439 times)

hunny_ally

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Resolving issues among your Maids/HH/Yayas
« on: December 09, 2011, 07:20:16 pm »
do you step in to resolve the issues between/among themselves?

This is my problem. Yaya A borrowed money from Yaya B. If I get it right parang nasa 3 months na ata yung utang ni Yaya A and she hasnt paid a single cent. Now Yaya B approached me and asked me instead of giving Yaya A's full suweldo, I deduct daw the utang. Now I told Yaya B I cant do that cause: a) thats Yaya A's suweldo so it's her discretion how will she spend that money and b) if I do that, that will send signals of favoritism. They should resolve the issue between the two of them. The most that I can do is to talk (which I did) to Yaya A. I told her that Yaya B is a single mom and walang kahati with the expenses for the kids. Puwede naman niyang onti-onti ang bayad. She promised naman that she will. But according to Yaya B nakalampas na ang 2 cutoffs, di pa rin daw nagbabayad si Yaya A. Sa loob-loob ko I wanted to tell Yaya B hindi ko na problema yan. Thats the risk you take for lending money.

rianne_mallows

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Re: Resolving issues among your Maids/HH/Yayas
« Reply #1 on: December 26, 2011, 06:16:11 pm »
you have 2 options... either ignore totally or help them resolve it..

if you choose to ignore it, baka kapag wala ka away ng away yan, makita pa ng kids mo.. bad influence yun..

since yaya B acknowleges the utang, pwedeng salary deduction.. pero unti-unti.. nakakabayad na si yaya b, mananahimik na din si yaya a..   kahit maliit lang.. say, 3500 a month sweldo niya, 500 per month lang madededuct mo.. hanggang dun lang... i think that would be fair naman din
hindi naman ako masamang tao
sadyang kapag nasasabi ako ng totoo
tumatama at tumatagos sa pagkatao mo

aquacharly

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Re: Resolving issues among your Maids/HH/Yayas
« Reply #2 on: December 26, 2011, 07:10:50 pm »
HUNNY ALLY, I would handle it the same way. Wala ko pakialam sa utangan nyo; hindi ako ever collecting agent nor guarantor. Bow.

 

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