Author Topic: Pinakamalaking Kasalanan mo kay hubby/bf & vice versa (Read 2369 times)

azel · « **on:** December 09, 2011, 05:32:50 am »

beautiful sisses! as you know, hindi mawawala sa isang relationship ang fights between you & your guy. curious ako to know what were the reasons of these fights sa inyo.. Ano yung nagawa mo kasalanan kay hubby/bf na naging dahilan ng bonggang-bongga nyo pag-aaway & vice versa... and naayos pa ba ninyo? nagbati ba kayo? what did you do to make peace with him & vice versa..

post away dolls!

bebeloo · « **Reply #1 on:** December 31, 2011, 03:08:03 pm »

lahat na ata ng masasakit na salita, nasabi ko na sa BF ko. as in, name it! Even the ones you couldn't imagine. then, after we make up, nagguilty ako. then pag nagaway kami, ganun ulit. lalo pa nya kong pinapaguilty cos never did he ever tell me those words.. kahit yung mga considerable gentle ones pa. i really feel sorry 'cos i can't love him the way he does love me. his love for me is so pure, genuine, true. and i don't know. i can't do that. fury overpowers me 'pag nagkakaissue kami.

JHAZbewithyou · « **Reply #2 on:** May 29, 2012, 12:27:48 pm »

Ilang beses akong nanlalaki. Aww!!

xenos54 · « **Reply #3 on:** June 21, 2012, 06:28:53 am »

Quote from: JHAZbewithyou on May 29, 2012, 12:27:48 pm

Ilang beses akong nanlalaki. Aww!!

sis im really curious baket po nanlala-laki ang mga girls.. is there something wrong with you bf then?

dca201 · « **Reply #4 on:** June 22, 2012, 01:28:03 pm »

Quote from: Serena. on April 29, 2012, 07:43:20 pm

Hanggang ngayon tuwing maiisip ko pa din yung pinagsalitaan ko sya ng masasakit nung papunta kami sa Clark, hindi talaga ko mapakali. Nahihiya ako sakanya, at pinromise ko sa sarili ko na hindi ko na uulitin yon.

That's always the case. Women can't stop talking.

hot_chili · « **Reply #5 on:** June 22, 2012, 08:16:49 pm »

fight 1 - he cheated, as in all the waaaay with sex and all, for 3 months with an ugly b1tch
fight 2 - he found out im flirting with a guy at work (not more than texting and calling, not even holding hands)

fight 1 I broke up with him, then we got together again then fight 2 he didnt broke up with me. didnt even get mad, dahil inunahan ko ng sumbat sa ginawa nya before (fight 1)

nicoletta · « **Reply #6 on:** June 28, 2012, 07:18:14 pm »

Giving up on him siguro. I'm more determined now to fight for myself. We are supposedly getting married next year, pero wedding's off.

If meron sa inyo gusto magtake over, please pm me. He paid for church at santuario and reception at makati shang for 2 ballrooms.

Kriman · « **Reply #7 on:** July 19, 2012, 06:33:34 pm »

I cheated him,

Kriman · « **Reply #8 on:** July 19, 2012, 06:34:50 pm »

He has another Girl

ayami · « **Reply #9 on:** August 04, 2012, 07:52:16 pm »

bago naging stable ang relationship namin, andaming naganap. ayoko nang isa-isahin, pero yung pinakamalaking issue siguro yung pagsisinungaling nya sakin when I was pregnant. Palaging iyon ang sinusumbat ko sa kanya e. nagawa ko sigurong pinakamalaking kasalanan against him nung dahil sa galit ko dun sa ginawa nya, pinabagsak ko sa kanya yung isang subject nya sa school. Nagka singko tuloy sya kahit Cum laude standing na sya. dahil don, di na sya makakakuha ng acad award pag grad nya. ohwell, hanggang DL na lang sya tuloy

kukaii · « **Reply #10 on:** August 17, 2012, 05:06:29 pm »

Found out he cheated online with another girl introduced to him by a friend. Sucks.
Forgiven NOT forgotten.

phoebe1811 · « **Reply #11 on:** August 22, 2012, 08:53:05 pm »

3rd party sa side niya and make me look stupid and pinamuka niya sakin na ayaw niya na sa akin at tigilan ko na. ...past is past...kasalanan ko sa kanya siguro is that i gave up .. i gave him ultimatum but he waste it so sorry na lang. there's no turning back.

rheinfall18 · « **Reply #12 on:** August 25, 2012, 06:40:33 pm »

lying for any reason, para sakin malaking kasalanan na to kasi dito nagbubunga lahat ng mas malala pang kasalanan na pwedeng gawin ng isang tao. at masaklap pa nyan ilan beses nya inulit pero pinapatawad ko kaya di ko matanggap kung bakit di nya yun mabago.

(@.@)

~lovesick~ · « **Reply #13 on:** September 16, 2012, 05:29:28 pm »

Quote from: kukaii on August 17, 2012, 05:06:29 pm

Found out he cheated online with another girl introduced to him by a friend. Sucks.
Forgiven NOT forgotten.

same tayo sis, but he called it flirting. lol i may forgive him pero i can't forget what he did. kaya minsan, pinapaalala ko sa kanya para ma-guilty. at matakot na siyang ulitin yun. haha.

alex001 · « **Reply #14 on:** September 17, 2012, 10:06:47 pm »

nung july lang, kausap nya yung ex nya, ayaw na ayaw kong kinakausap nya yung ex nya dahil si bf my pagkalandi na rin, hindi alam ni bf na pinapakiaalam ko yung fb nya hindi nya alam na nahahack ko yung fb nya, naguusap kami ng bf ko sa fb about sa bago naming iintroduce na product para sa business namin kaso hindi constant yung pagreply nya may mga gap na 5 to 10 mins yung gap, ayaw ko pa naman sa lahat yung naguusap kami about business tapos ganun sya hindi kaagad nagreresponse so hinayaan ko na muna sya, sabi ko saka nalang tayo usap kapag hindi ka na busy, nagstart kami magusap mga 10pm ata or 11pm hinintay ko sya gang 12am to 1am, pero sabi nya matutulog na daw sya kasi may work pa daw sya kinabukasan so ako naman understanding sige tulog ka na, then nakahiga na ako, hindi ako mapakali, kahit anong side ko sa pagtulog hindi ako makatulog, ako naman sige check ko na fb nya tutal last june hindi ko pa nacheck..around 1am to 2am chineck ko, gulat nalang ako sa message nya na kausap nya yung ex gf nya, tinatanong nung bf ko kung kelan daw ikakasal yung ex nya and ganun nrin naman yung ex tinatanong king kelan kami ikakasal, mahaba yung usapan nila pero eto yung pinakanagpainit ng dugo ko

xgf: pakaksalanan mo ba si alex001?
bf: alam mo...hay, ewan ang mean pero,,,hindi ko sya nakikita as asawa ko eh, sa ngayon ha, ewan ko baa magbago ihip ng hangin

xgf: ayoko sana magtanong pero like, bakit hindi ka sigurado kay alex001?
bf: kawawa ako lage sa kanya,

im deprived of affection and appreciation, lagi ako nahahassle pag problemadi sya, pag ako may problema, di ko naman sya maasahan...ewan
xgf: dahil siguro kasi wala syang alam sa business?
bf: ok kami sa business, siguro she thinks more of herself lang talaga.

pinakawinner sa lahat

bf: ikaw minsan hinahanap ko sa kanya...honestly

nung nabasa ko yang mga yan...naku napamura ako ng bongga, gusto kong magwala, 2am tinatawagan koko sya sa landline nya para maexplain nya kaagad sakin yun, feeling ko kasi nagawa ko naman yung part ko nun, as in halos lahat binibigay ko, dahil aalis na sya dis october to work abroad and ako ginagawa ko lahat para lang hindi kami magaway, yung mga kaibigan ko at yung bestfriend ko nagtatampo na sakin dahil hindi na ako sumasama sa mga lakad namin, yung business ako nagpapatakbo, kapag may problem sya apektado yung relationship namin wala siyang oras sakin, halos makiusap pa ako sa kanya magkaron lang sya ng time for me tapos ganito pa mababasa ko, ang sakit lang...then every sunday tinatanong ko siya kung may prob, wala naman sya ng wala..

nakipaghiwalay ako sa kanya nun, kasi ang sakit hindi nya pala ako makita as wife nya someday pero nagkaayos rin kami pero mas wise na ako ngayon, yung pera sa business hati kaagad, yung plan ko para sa future ako nalang wala na siya, ayoko na kasi maginitiate ng kung ano ano lalo na kapag sa future...nagsorry sya sakin, nasabi nya lang daw yun pero nagkamali sya, nagalit nga yung bestfriend ko sakin kasi tinaggap ko pa sya anong magagawa ko t**** lang ako sa kanya...pero i can say na mas wise na ako ngayon, hindi na ako yung nagiintiate sa lahat, sya na nagpaplano....pangit nga ginagawa ko ngayon dahil nasaktan lang ako kaya ganito, ginagwaan ko pa rin ng paraan para maging ok kami ulit pero dahan dahan, nung july pa to pero yung sakin andito pa rin akala ko ok na ako pero hindi pa pala hehe

sorry for the long post!

MYANGELL · « **Reply #15 on:** September 23, 2012, 05:21:50 pm »

sis, pano siya ng sorry? pano niya na explain yung ginawa nya?

alex001 · « **Reply #16 on:** September 24, 2012, 10:50:26 am »

sorry daw hindi na mauulit, nasabi nya lang daw yun sa ex nya dahil hindi nya daw masabi sakin, tapos yung nasabi nya lang daw yung "ikaw minsan hinahanap ko sa kanya...honestly" kasi linalandi nya lang daw gusto nya makita yung reaction ng ex nya...sya yung kumilos para maging ok kami..pero minsan wala akong gana kaya ko magpatawad, inaaral ko ngayon kung pano kalimutan

Romina · « **Reply #17 on:** September 24, 2012, 11:18:22 am »

Telling his dad about his substance use. Though he stopped doing it when we moved in together, i get paranoid sometimes and end up accusing him whenever he's running late or wanna go see his friends. Our fight that night was so scary that i was seeking for a kakampi, i thought that if i tell his folks, then he'll stop going out na. His dad was very understanding naman when i explained what had really happened that night. I hurt him so bad kasi he looks up to his dad then sinira ko yung tiwala sa kanya. Pero everything's ok na. Forgive and forget.

MYANGELL · « **Reply #18 on:** September 25, 2012, 07:16:42 pm »

sis alex001 - bakit pa kasi kelangan maglandi? pero saludo ako sayo.. hindi ko ata kaya yun.. masyado ako selfish para mgpatawad.. haha.. pangit kasi.. baka mgfeeling pa yung ex db?? hehe..

alex001 · « **Reply #19 on:** September 25, 2012, 10:11:21 pm »

Quote from: MYANGELL on September 25, 2012, 07:16:42 pm

sis alex001 - bakit pa kasi kelangan maglandi? pero saludo ako sayo.. hindi ko ata kaya yun.. masyado ako selfish para mgpatawad.. haha.. pangit kasi.. baka mgfeeling pa yung ex db?? hehe..

yun nga tanong ko rin sa kanya eh, kung bakit kailangan pang manglandi, ganyan rin ako dati, decided naman ako dati na iwan na sya pero ewan ko ba...hirap rin nun ah..last na to, last chance na sya to...

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