Author Topic: everything is a lie (Read 981 times)

purpleblush18 · « **on:** October 31, 2011, 09:19:30 am »

hi mga sis.. andito nanaman ako.. another heatbreak and it really hurts sooo bad. Bigtime!

I met this wonderful guy through a friend. He is in Canada and I am here in Taiwan. He's filipino born and raised there. Everything is just perfect, we talked everyday, video chat everyday, phoning each other. We both agreed to take a 2 week vacation on January 28 to February 11 next year. He bought his air ticket first and I know its valid kasi I checked his booking online, then after a week I bought mine. Everything is fine, we had plans. He planned na I will continue my application in Canada after our vacation. She talked to my sisters. He makes kwento na about me sa parents nya dun, everything is ok.

Until this morning, he said that he is having a kid with his ex na he told me na wala na sila communication for a long time. That ex cheated on him because may naiwan palang family sa pinas yung girl pero na petition din nung babae yung hubby nya and their 2 daughters so magkakasama na sila sa Canada. I haven't seen it coming, kasi lagi ko naman sya kausap, kahit sa work magkausap kami, pag uwi ganun din. in the middle of the night tatawag ako or tatawag sya just to say i love you.

Nadisappoint talaga ako, kahit yung friend ko na nandun hindi daw nya alam kasi nag relocate sila. I was really faithful, I turned down a lot of guys for him, Umikot mundo ko sa kanya at sa skype at ym.

This past few weeks hindi ako nakakatulog ng maayos kasi alam kong may problema. Nararamdaman ko yun. Lagi ko sinasabi sa kanya na may insiticnt ako about him na hindi ko matukoy kung [textspeak!]. He said na theres nothing to worry about na we are so good eveything will be fine. BUt look at what he did.

I am a believer of LDR, I know it will still work for others pero not for me. I was super shocked until now and thinking of going home for good. I dont know where will I start. I am super lost

justin3 · « **Reply #1 on:** November 01, 2011, 10:54:24 am »

Congratulations! at habang maaga pa you discovered what you really need to know mula't sapul.

just practice what you preach as what you have posted in this thread
http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,242238.msg6397445.html#msg6397445

purpleblush18 · « **Reply #2 on:** November 01, 2011, 11:19:03 am »

Thank you for reminding me what I have posted before. Sana nga mai apply ko sa buhay ko yung advice ko dyan. Sana maka move on na ako.. feeling ko kasi ang t*nga t*anga ko.

And yes buti na lang hindi sya naging diwag to tell me the truth. Kung tutuusin pwedeng pwede nya ako lokohin and sabihin lahat lahat after the trip pag nakabalik na sya sa Canada pero hindi nya ginawa. I was nice, I was being faithful pero he still chose to be a retard.

calin22 · « **Reply #3 on:** November 01, 2011, 12:01:56 pm »

Quote from: purpleblush18 on October 31, 2011, 09:19:30 am

hi mga sis.. andito nanaman ako.. another heatbreak and it really hurts sooo bad. Bigtime!

I met this wonderful guy through a friend. He is in Canada and I am here in Taiwan. He's filipino born and raised there. Everything is just perfect, we talked everyday, video chat everyday, phoning each other. We both agreed to take a 2 week vacation on January 28 to February 11 next year. He bought his air ticket first and I know its valid kasi I checked his booking online, then after a week I bought mine. Everything is fine, we had plans. He planned na I will continue my application in Canada after our vacation. She talked to my sisters. He makes kwento na about me sa parents nya dun, everything is ok.

May catch talaga sis if a relationship is too perfect. Walang perfect na relationship to begin with and have you ever wonder na he is too good to be true??

*perfect for an LDR i mean*

purpleblush18 · « **Reply #4 on:** November 02, 2011, 06:20:34 pm »

I never see it coming sis, nabulagan ako, kahit anong sabihin ng mga friends ko dito na wag ako magpapakasigurado, feeling ko siguradong sigurado ako sa kanya. Wala rin akong masabi sa effort na binigay nya kahit malayo kami sa isat isat. Ilang araw na akong walang tulog ang super iyak na ako sa work. They said let it go, I should move on. I know I have to, pero its really hard.

Serena. · « **Reply #5 on:** April 30, 2012, 02:35:58 am »

Masakit talag kung malalaman mong lahat ng pinagsamahan nyo -- puro kasinungalingan. Ni hindi mo na nga alam kung pati ba yung feelings nya naging totoo? Eto na yung pinakamasakit na naramdaman ko sa buhay ko.