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Author Topic: is it better to know each others passwords?  (Read 14223 times)

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #60 on: August 29, 2012, 04:37:31 PM »
hindi naman malaking issue ang pagbigay ng password, in the first place kung wala ka tinatago there's nothing wrong..hindi naman ibig sabihin na alam ang password mo everyday monitored ang galaw mo. ang what's wrong with it. when in a relationship you are taking the challenge to open up yourself to your partner. katawan nga ang daling ibigay ng iba, password pa kaya?

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #61 on: August 31, 2012, 09:43:11 PM »
No, respect his privacy. Unless siya yung kusang magbigay.
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #62 on: September 01, 2012, 11:59:01 PM »
I don't think so. Well, I used to know my boyfriend's password pero may consequences. You guys are right, RESPECT one's privacy. I learned from it na. :)

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #63 on: September 02, 2012, 01:30:11 AM »
Pag husband and wife, ok lang. Pero pag bf/gf pa lang, better talaga na hindi. Pag married na kasi
Non-issue yang passwords since you share everything.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #64 on: September 14, 2012, 09:32:58 PM »
Hi everyone!

Uhh been there, done that. Before i used to know my boyfriend's password but later on i realized that is wasn't healthy at all to snoop or whatever, even though you have no plans of snooping but there's the urge to do it  coz you have an access to his account. I so agree that we should all respect each other's privacy kasi yun ang root of all arguments either walang ibig sabihin ang isang bagay minsan nabibigyan ng meaning because nagfifishout tayo ng information. Madaming ways para magloko ang isang lalake, pero there are still some guys out there na talagang faithful kahit hindi binibigay yung password. :)

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #65 on: September 16, 2012, 09:42:39 AM »
Its not better nor required. Of course every person has his or her own privacy parin. Its up to both of you kung gaano ninyo pinagkakatiwalaan ang isa't isa. Huwag maging paranoid kasi ito ang isa sa mga reason kung bakit nasisira ang relationship, sa sobrang pagiging paranoid ninyo minsan mas lalo lang ma te-temp ang partner ninyo na gawin yung pinaghihinalaan niyo sakanya. EX: Pamlalalake, Pambababae. They would have this thinking na.. since inaacuse mo din naman siya without any evidence edi might as well do it nalang..

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #66 on: September 16, 2012, 04:32:21 PM »
for me its ok. i know his password but hindi ko inoopen siguro pag sinabi lang niya pakiopen naman blah blah.. kasi for me its important pa rin kung may privacy kayo eh..
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #67 on: September 16, 2012, 05:13:21 PM »
in my opinion hindi. nag-umpisa kasi kami nagpalitan ng passwords nung binigay niya yung kanya. lo and behold, nakita ko mga conversations sa facebook niya at naging cause lang ng away. the same thing goes with his ym, i caught him flirting with another girl. what's worst is akala niyang di ko malalaman. tinatago niya sa akin ng matagal. i almost broke up with him kasi napagod na ako sa kanya. pero sa ngayon, he promised me na di na mauulit yung dati. sabi pa nila, what you don't know won't hurt you.
seize the day :)

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #68 on: November 02, 2012, 01:05:24 AM »
^kaso sis kung hindi mo alam password nya edi hindi mo malalaman? what if continue nya flirting with other girls kung hindi mo nalaman? curious lang.

kame ng bf ko alam namen password ng isa't isa kasi minsan pag nag nag i'internet sya or ako, inuutusan ko sya to open ganito, to message whom, ganun din naman sya saken. hindi naman para tignan kung may iba sya or ako. pero syempre nandun na din yun, pero at least that's not the main purpose in our case.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #69 on: January 08, 2013, 04:58:53 PM »
kami ng fiance ko, we both know each other's passwords kasi wala naman kaming tinatago sa isa't isa. parang hindi naman naging pwersahan yung pagtanong. parang it was a "test" before e. naka online kami nun sa bahay namin i think. nag FB kami tas magkatabi kami. di ko maalala kung sino samin yung nag oopen ng FB kung ako or sya, but anyway, someone from the two of us joked kung ano password. basta dun nagsimula so nalaman namin passwords ng isa't isa.

pero hanggang ganun lang. never namin pinakialaman mga FB namin. kahit ako even if alam ko password nya, alam ko namang wala siyang tinatago so i really don't bother checking it. wala din syang makukuha sakin. so matter of trust lang talaga. hindi ko rin kasi ugali makialam even yung cellphone namin, di namin pinapakialaman, pero pag gusto mong tignan, you're free to do so.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #70 on: January 13, 2013, 12:03:35 PM »
he asks me to open his facebook from time to time pati emails and skype niya dahil pinapachec niya important stuff so naturally i know the password though i never used it for snooping at binubuksan ko lang pag sinasabi niya.. i know he has his own share of white lies pero wventually naguguilty siya pa may nagagawa siyang kasalanan at kusa niya sinasabi sakin.. sa auaw man natin o gusto we'll eventually find something we don't like if we try to snoop around which will just onplicate matters..

He knows mine too dahil pag wala ako internet at may kelangan ako icontact na family member ponapacheck ko sa kanya.. other than that wapakels na kami sa account ng isa't isa

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #71 on: January 16, 2013, 06:45:52 PM »
i know the password of h2b  :) one time nagpalit siya i ask kung ano ang bago binigay naman niya ulit pero si h2b doesn't even bother to ask mine one time i ask him bakit di niya tinatanong sabi niya di naman daw kailangan and sometimes pinagmumulan lang yun ng away ::)

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #72 on: February 08, 2013, 10:09:08 PM »
His cellphones are very much open for me to read anytime and vice versa. One time he left his phone with me since we watched a movie and he leaves his phones in my bag when we watch. Nahuli ko na he was about to propose. He wrote his proposal idea in the Notes App of his iphone. Also the things I like, my favorite hirits, naka note sa iphone niya. :-) it means a lot since he's a very straightforward serious unromantic type of guy.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #73 on: February 09, 2013, 11:05:23 PM »
Sa Facebook we used to know each others' passwords but it only causes arguments.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #74 on: February 16, 2013, 11:49:49 AM »
Before, my ex and I used to know each others password sa Facebook account namin.
And it caused us "always" arguments. Kailangan talaga we respect each others privacy.
Now, with my new bf hindi namin alam ang password ng bawat isa. May tiwala namin kami sa bawat isa kaya ayos lang kahit hindi namin na oopen ang account ng isa't-isa.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #75 on: February 16, 2013, 12:19:46 PM »
no, its better you have each others privacy lalo na pag mag bf-gf's pa lang kayo..

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #76 on: February 17, 2013, 11:48:47 PM »
with my ex all of his online accounts (FB, forums and email) i know because he gave his pw without me asking and he didn't ask for mine i don't check naman unless may pinapatingin siya tapos walang internet kasi nasa gig siya or nasa labas.

with my new guy naman, i don't know his pw i don't ask him pero i check his phones haha

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #77 on: March 21, 2013, 10:19:05 PM »
Not necessarily! but I don't have a problem with it. :)
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #78 on: June 04, 2013, 08:54:09 PM »
Pag bf - gf pa lang, no way! I value my privacy and I respect his.
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #79 on: June 04, 2013, 09:47:16 PM »
I know all hubby's passwords, binigay naman niya. Pero he never asked for my passwords so di ko binibigay...  ;D

 

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