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Author Topic: is it better to know each others passwords?  (Read 14233 times)

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #40 on: June 18, 2012, 09:56:21 PM »
hindi alam ni GF ang pw ko.. pero alam ko pw niya kasi inuutusan niya ko mag-upload ng mga pics..
pero kahit ganun.. hindi ko binabasa mga messages niya.. etc.. i use it only for the purpose of uploading and tagging the pics..

one time hiningi niya pw ko sa FB.. iniba ko usapan.. kasi may tinatago ako..

yung proposal plans na pinagusapan namin ng mga kapatid ko at friends nya!


other than that.. willing din ako ibigay password..

pero personal preference ko.. keep the PW private..
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #41 on: June 21, 2012, 12:13:23 PM »
I'd rather not. I want to leave something for myself.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #42 on: July 01, 2012, 05:27:38 PM »
what if pati yung tagged pictures nya naka hide din?

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #43 on: July 06, 2012, 04:11:57 AM »
ako pulis-kind of girlfriend hahaha; i hated it, so i think better off na di ko alam
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #44 on: July 06, 2012, 09:46:23 AM »
Absolutely not!

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #45 on: July 13, 2012, 08:50:43 AM »
nope. i would like to respect his privacy and i hope he does too  ;D
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #46 on: July 13, 2012, 09:11:36 AM »
^i agree

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #47 on: July 13, 2012, 10:05:04 AM »
We know each other's passwords and I do not see a problem on that. Depende siguro sa inyong dalawa yun. Kahit alam namin password ng isa't isa, we do not use it to spy on each other's mails. (Minsan lang, pag may kutob ako  ;D)

Siguro sa aging couple, mas okay na alam nyo ang passwords. May officemate kasi ako na-stroke yung girl tapos yung husband pala walang alam sa mga finances nilang mag-asawa. Since affected yung memory nung girl, walang magawa si hubby. Nakakalungkot din.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #48 on: July 14, 2012, 12:55:01 AM »
kami rin we both know our passwords sa fb and emails. but hindi naman kami nag sspy sa isat isa. he rarely opens his fb na kasi these past few weeks kasi medyo nagiging busy siya with their business so he would ask me sometimes to open his account and check if may mga impt msgs ba siya or anything. sa email naman alam ko password niya kasi he would often let me send emails sa mga clients nila. ewan ko very transparent kaming dalawa eh. one of the reasons din siguro why we've been together for 8yrs na :)
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #49 on: July 19, 2012, 05:15:31 PM »
Pwede naman, nababago nman ang password eh ;)
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #50 on: July 25, 2012, 09:42:12 AM »
Ideally passwords and pins should be kept for your eyes only. Invasion of privacy na kasi if a person go through your personal files or accounts. If the account or mail is not addressed to you then it is not for you to open, read or whatsoever.

Pero ako I gave my bf my password sa email so if I'm expecting an email and I can't access the net he'll do it for me and update me through SMS. Secretary ko kasi bf ko hahaha! He handles my fb account too like uploading pics. And he updates me nalang if may message or something. Pero ako I don't go through his stuffs. I respect his privacy. Its not that he doesn't want to give away his passwords. Hindi ko Lang talaga nais alamin. His business is his. I don't care about his business.
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #51 on: July 29, 2012, 08:46:30 PM »
para sa sakin TRUST issue yan kapag ganyan. ibig sabihin wala kang tiwala sa kanya. dapat magtiwala ka lang sa partner mo. hindi ko gawain ang magcheck ng cp, wallet nya at alamin ang password nya. sya na lang ang kusa nagbibigay sa akin. mas nagiging matagal/matatag ang relasyon kapag hindi mo na lang aalamin. ayaw kasi ng guy na pinapakialaman ang privacy nila. yan ang no. 1 na pinakaayaw nila. malalaman mo kung mahal ka niya talaga if sya na mismo ang magbibigay sayo w/o asking him first.
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #52 on: July 31, 2012, 10:45:11 PM »
we know each other's passwords, etc. we tell each other everything. :)

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #53 on: August 02, 2012, 10:18:28 PM »
It's better if kusa na [textspeak!] ibibigay..it's all about trust
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #54 on: August 02, 2012, 11:13:45 PM »
Pareho kaming password eh, :) pero I trust him naman, so I don't need to go on investigating his messages.
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #55 on: August 03, 2012, 11:52:05 PM »
sa mga social networking sites, alam nya yung password ko and vice versa. hindi naman kasi issue sakin yun. kung yun ba ikakapanatag ng loob nya, pinapabayaan ko na :) tutal wala naman akong tinatago sa kanya :)
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #56 on: August 04, 2012, 12:32:50 AM »
i'm the more computer savvy sa aming 2 so i created all the email and social networking accounts.  he doesn't really care if i know his passwords, actually i made the same passwords for each site.
it's more for him so he only has to remember one set of passwords.
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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #57 on: August 06, 2012, 08:15:00 AM »
Its not required. of course you still have to set the privacy of each other. Nasa TRUST narin naman kasi iyan. if your partner cheats because of that then its not your fault.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #58 on: August 08, 2012, 09:12:34 PM »
NO! Hindi yun okay. Have some privacy for yourself. Hindi naman ibig sabihin ng hindi mo pagbigay ng password mo eh may tinatago ka. Ibig sabihin lang nun vinavalue mo din ang privacy mo bilang isang individual.

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Re: is it better to know each others passwords?
« Reply #59 on: August 13, 2012, 02:34:02 PM »
nope, in my case i didn't ask. kahit naman he has white lies paminsan minsan, i still trust him. it's up to him if he will break my trust..im just letting him know that my guards are up in a subtle way. if gagawa sya ng kalokohan, bahala sya i doubt he could live with his guilt to think na super gf ako sa kanya.
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