Count me in mga sis. hindi pa naman kami hiwalay ni BF pero I can really feel it. Kahit ilang beses ko na tnry na makipag usap sa kanya. parang wala pa din. on the rocks na talaga kami at parang ako ang laging kawawa dahil sya pa ang galit. Kailangan ko idivert ang attention ko. To be honest, I'm listing right now ang mga things na ayaw ko sa kanya and I can't believe that this is really a long list.
He's my very first BF and more than 7 years na kami kaya nahihirapan ako sa pakiramdam na to. 
Sana po talaga matuloy to.
I don't wish to butt in an all-sisters affair, but I don't think you need this group yet. You need a different support group, one that specifically deals with troubled
existing relationships. I think this group is designed for those who want to move on from break-ups where there's no possibility of saving the relationship anymore.
(Ang lalabas kasi, baka lahat ng payo na makuha mo dito ay "makipag-break ka na!" Whereas in your situation, marami pa namang possibilities.)
Hanap ka ng ibang threads, or start your own. I'm sure maraming tutulong sa iyo dito.