Author Topic: Pair♥up (Read 716 times)

green-aholic · « **on:** October 12, 2011, 03:38:40 pm »

Naranasan nyo na bang mag pair up ng couples? Some turned out ok and happy but of course some weren't successful. Those times you are very happy na and contented because you helped them find each other kahit na hindi sila naghahanap or nagpapahanap. You were satisfied that way kase parang kasiyahan mo na din na because of you that they met, and even they were thankful to you for pairing them up too. Oo nga, things were ok then. Some of those I paired up were interested on me but I am not interested on them because I am afraid one day, masaktan lang ako. I am aware that in love, it is never an asurance na happy ka, I know masasaktan talaga ako but I'm reluctant to try kaya nirerefer ko sila sa mga friends ko or sa tingin ko eh gusto magka-bf. Pati nga tita ko hinahanapan ko eh. Haay! I am best I think, in looking or finding happiness for other people but not for myself. I'm just too coward to try. Haay. Now they're all happy, but me? I felt all alone. Eto ako, nag iisa. And take note, kapag gusto ko namang itry, I met the wrong ones. If you know my other posts, then you know what my story in terms of love is.

whitelady17 · « **Reply #1 on:** October 12, 2011, 04:13:43 pm »

sis, I claim mo kasi lahat ng positive attitude na gusto mo sa guy, para dumating, kasi law of attraction diba, the more na maisip mo ayaw mo sa manloloko, doon bumabagsak eh. like "ang susunod na bf ko ang magiging husband ko kasi isa siyang responsableng tao, may respeto sa kapwa etc etc."

Good luck sis, just keep on loving yourself, dadating rin siya

green-aholic · « **Reply #2 on:** October 12, 2011, 09:34:59 pm »

salamat ng madami sis sa tip! ganun pala ang tamang technique! will do that.

whitelady17 · « **Reply #3 on:** October 13, 2011, 09:02:02 am »

tee hee! ganyan kasi ginawa ko before eh, nakakpagod na kasi maghanap diba, so iniba ko ang approach ko, ganyan. Mas nag focus na ako sa attitude, na gusto ko and until now happy naman ako :d 5 years 3 months na kami lol. Good luck sistah

green-aholic · « **Reply #4 on:** October 13, 2011, 09:54:50 am »

^wow ang galing! sige susundin ko yung sinuggest mo and i hope maging katulad nung sayo ang mangyari saken. sa totoo lang kase, nakakapagod talaga maghanap, mag invest at piliting mag work out ang mga bagay na hindi naman meant to be. sana makahanap na din ako. gusto ko pangmatagalan na eh at sana yung mahanap ko eh sya na. ayoko ng mag aksaya pa ng oras.

baliwsayo · « **Reply #5 on:** October 13, 2011, 12:14:10 pm »

Pansin ko sis fixated ka na magka-bf (based on your posts ha).. inaalat tuloy. Bakit di mo baguhin strategy mo? Instead of focusing na magkaron na ng relationship, mag-focus ka instead sa sarili mo.. self-improvement ba. Indulge in a new hobby or mag-aral ka ulit, indulge on a sport or any physical activity, etc. Pag kasi fulfilled ka on your own, nagraradiate yan at nakaka-attract.

Now, about pairing up your friends.. just be happy for them.. again, don't focus too much on negative energy para di rin negative bf ang maattract mo.

green-aholic · « **Reply #6 on:** October 13, 2011, 07:47:54 pm »

^sa sobrang focused at mapilit sis, nagrerepel. hahaha. sige, will do what you suggest too. susundin ko kayo ni sis whitelady and i think you're both right.

magkawork lang naman ako, lovelife won't matter anymore.