Author Topic: Temptations. How do you deal with it? (Read 5016 times)

imyourangel · « **Reply #40 on:** November 06, 2011, 09:25:45 pm »

Tama! If may mga situations na pwedeng maging alone kayo or magkakaron ng chance na maging friendly friendly with each other, avoid it na agad.

Sabi nga nila, kung magddrive ka sa gilid ng bangin, wag mo na tingnan kung hanggang gaano kalapit sa bangin yung kaya mong idrive. Dun ka magdrive sa gitna ng daan, iwasan mo na agad yung bangin sa gilid.

gridiron babe · « **Reply #41 on:** July 04, 2012, 03:02:09 pm »

i think if happy ka sa relationship mo hindi ka pahihirapan ng mga temptations na yan. so, instead of flirting with other guys (why should i in the first place, anyway???) i would rather focus my attention and energy seeing to it that my boyfriend and i have a great time whenever we're together.

twelvth_goddess · « **Reply #42 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:30:37 pm »

^Agree. If you're happy, content, and secure, then there's nothing to be afraid of. Pero ang temptations kase, anjan lang lage yan. Mapapansin mo lang na anjan sila dahil sub-consciously, meron kang hinahanap na wala ka ngayon.

The only way to deal with temptations is to detach yourself from it and to focus on your relationship. Kung may kulang/mali, ayusin and wag hanapin sa iba.

glamorosa_09 · « **Reply #43 on:** July 07, 2012, 12:12:36 am »

^True, ang temptation makakahanap nang makakahanap ng butas yan, kasi we don't have a perfect partner, we didn't marry our ideal man kasi in the first place he doesn't exist naman talaga. Kaya in marriage, palagi talagang may kulang, palagi talagang may mali, no matter how we try to solve all our marriage/partner concerns, meron at meron talagang hindi masosolve.

Kaya in addition to my previous post here, we should learn to WANT what we HAVE. To focus and appreciate the positive traits of our hubby, to accept their shortcomings instead of gravitating around them pessimistically. It's difficult but doable through prayersssssss.

Also, cling to Christ who experienced how to be tempted and who was able to rise above it. Yes, He understands perfectly and is compassionate to our weaknesses.

And gaya ng sabi ng iba, do not attempt to deliberately play with temptation kasi you will surely lose with it.

snix · « **Reply #44 on:** July 07, 2012, 12:15:57 pm »

right now, i see no one else but him..though nagkakacrush ako at siya din naman alam namin limitations namin..

when i confronted him about this topic ang sabi niya he's trying to challenge himself to stay loyal to me..cheating is easy but being faithful is harder

there would always be temptations, maaring makita niya yung mga wala sayo sa iba at ikaw ganun din but at the end of the day try to question yourself if it's worth it to go after that temptation and ruin the wonderful relationship you have right now..

sabi ko naman sa kanya okay lang tumingin pwro wag tumikim lol

megansmomma · « **Reply #45 on:** July 07, 2012, 04:03:02 pm »

temptations, temptations...

temptation ba yun magkaroon kayo ulit ng ex super true love mo way back childhood? YES

how did i deal with it ba few weeks ago? i am still dealing with it kase may constant communication pa din kami.. may tie na naglalapit samin palage kaya mahirap mag-iwasan, we were both aware before that "we" have something but it didnt push through siguro kase takot sya sa mga pinsan ko dahil pinsan din nia yun ang weird.. way back elementary come college sya yun masasabi kong super true love ko except with my 1st boyfriend. he was there with all my heartaches pero hindi talaga kami puwede. kase ba naman pinsan ko yun pinsan nia.. hay pagibig..

i love my husband pero alam ko theres part of him too in my heart, pero gang dun nalang siguro yun.. I used to think before i got pregnant what If he persuaded me? may chance kaya? wishful thinking..

junetwentythree · « **Reply #46 on:** July 09, 2012, 08:46:57 am »

^ The proverbial, "what if?" Walk down that path and there's no turning back. You are already emotionally cheating on your husband by entertaining feelings for your ex.

The fact of the matter is that... it's not a question of "what if"... it's "what it wasn't". Perhaps you didn't end up with your ex because it wasn't meant to be.

megansmomma · « **Reply #47 on:** July 09, 2012, 09:09:47 am »

^Yes sis, because if we were destined for each other, I am not in this thread. so Yes youre right!

xyreldc · « **Reply #48 on:** July 11, 2012, 05:13:28 pm »

padaan lang

napost ko na to sa ibang thread. my side >> you can never win over temptation, pero pwede mo siya iwasan.. i believe kasi kahit gano ka pa kalakas para labanan ang tukso, darating yung point na bibigay ka rin..once you're in , you're dead..

so para wala nang labanan issue, stay away from it na lang..alam mo naman sa sarili mo saan at sa anong bagay ka natutukso. kaya ako i'm not accepting "natukso lang ako" as a reason..it's unreasonable actually..

redsh0es · « **Reply #49 on:** July 12, 2012, 03:51:47 pm »

ouch.

marami niyan sa paligid. parang nakahalo na sa hangin. pag nagpatalo ka once, asahan mo matatalo ka uli. you have to stay focused on what is right not wrong, what you need not want. been there done that. masaya sa una pero talo ka sa huli.

dumpee.o13 · « **Reply #50 on:** July 14, 2012, 05:20:07 am »

Quote from: xyreldc on July 11, 2012, 05:13:28 pm

>> you can never win over temptation, pero pwede mo siya iwasan.. i believe kasi kahit gano ka pa kalakas para labanan ang tukso, darating yung point na bibigay ka rin..once you're in , you're dead.. so para wala nang labanan issue, stay away from it na lang..alam mo naman sa sarili mo saan at sa anong bagay ka natutukso. kaya ako i'm not accepting "natukso lang ako" as a reason..it's unreasonable actually..

^ agree!

sorry guys, pero mostly sakanila ko naririnig yang linyang yan na "natukso lang ako, wala akong nagawa." tama, alam mo naman kung ano yung mga tukso para sayo so pwede mong iwasan yun pag anjan na. isipin mo nalang na kung sayo gagawin yun, matutuwa ka ba?! golden rule lang yan e' "Don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you." =)

beach · « **Reply #51 on:** July 14, 2012, 09:50:18 am »

100% AGREE!

"Don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you."

Nangyari na ito sa akin with my ex... natukso sya...

Now, I am happy with my current... and kahit minsan you meet someone na mukhang better, iniisip ko mukha lang... kasi what i have is already PERFECT for me.

xyreldc · « **Reply #52 on:** July 16, 2012, 10:03:31 am »

Quote from: dumpee.o13 on July 14, 2012, 05:20:07 am

"natukso lang ako, wala akong nagawa." tama, alam mo naman kung ano yung mga tukso para sayo so pwede mong iwasan yun pag anjan na. isipin mo nalang na kung sayo gagawin yun, matutuwa ka ba?! golden rule lang yan e' "Don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you." =)

^^strongly agree sis! nakakainis marinig yung "wala akong nagawa"...actually meron ka dapat magagawa, hinayaan mo lang dahil akala mo kaya mo labanan ang tukso..well, madami namamatay sa akala

katrinac · « **Reply #53 on:** July 17, 2012, 01:07:22 am »

Temptations. How do you deal with it? -- I will stay away from it.

If may temptation na dadating, iiwas ako kagad. Ayaw ko masira ang family ko para lang sa isang passing fancy. mag focus nalang ako sa asawa ko, kesa naman masira buhay ko.

dumpee.o13 · « **Reply #54 on:** July 17, 2012, 01:20:02 am »

^ @beach & @xyreldc - thanks sisses! =)

HoldingOn · « **Reply #55 on:** July 17, 2012, 01:29:50 pm »

In all kinds of temptation, just remember:

"Ang temptation, hindi hinaharap.... bagkus, kailangan takbuhan!"

mitchal18 · « **Reply #56 on:** July 18, 2012, 02:16:52 pm »

Spend more time with each other.
Spend less time in the presence of temptation.

Jam Haliparot · « **Reply #57 on:** November 01, 2012, 02:51:31 am »

TEMPATIONS ...

Naku lapitin ako jan, kaya hanggat kaya ko iwasan todo iwas talaga ako especially sa mga guys na habol lang is to get laid, GOSH!

Ngayon mejo shaky relationship ng BF ko, all i want is to get drunk lumipas lang eto and move on kaya umiinom na lang ako sa bahay na nandun siya kahit hindi siya iinom. Atleast sure ako ako i'll be safe eventhough im so drunk.

KrabbyPatty! · « **Reply #58 on:** November 01, 2012, 01:17:56 pm »

Wag maglagay ng malisya. patay -malisya lang lagi! =))

Naughty^GuRu · « **Reply #59 on:** November 01, 2012, 05:52:24 pm »

Temptations. How do I deal with it?

i give in

im weak

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