Author Topic: How do you prefer to be courted? (Read 805 times)

babychellee · « **Reply #20 on:** March 05, 2013, 11:19:31 pm »

ako based on my personal experience, befriend muna. meron kasi ako naka-date noon, susme first date palang..direchahan na agad sinabi na like nya ako at he wants me to be his gf. nakaka shock. parang teka teka..dahan dahan muna tsong!

feeling ko tuloy, desperado siya at marami siyang issue. and yeah..i must agree sa spark thing. we didn't have that. or at least on my part.

pero kapag naman may feelings na (i believe kasi nadedevelop to along the way)..and you feel its the right time na to say IT..maging man enough naman kayo to say it to the girl na gusto mo na itawid sa next level ang relationship mo..and tell her na gusto mo na siyang maging gf. after a series of dates naman, more or less nakilala nyo na ang isa't isa kahit papano.

17arci · « **Reply #21 on:** March 07, 2013, 09:04:38 am »

I'm never ever comfortable being courted. I don't like being courted by someone I barely know. Friends muna, saka sya manligaw.

hersmart4ever · « **Reply #22 on:** March 08, 2013, 03:52:45 pm »

I prefer the old style. Yung dinadalaw sa bahay. Dine date formally. I used to be courted this way before and really...nothing beats the old way.

kikayako · « **Reply #23 on:** March 10, 2013, 01:20:03 pm »

^Same here. I prefer the traditional Pinoy way of courting.

hersmart4ever · « **Reply #24 on:** March 14, 2013, 11:40:13 am »

I can never forget how it feels to be talked to with respect, hinahatid ka sa sakayan, isasakay ka ng maayos, making sure you're OK bago ka iiwan, humaharap ng pormal sa parents, etc.

bittermelon · « **Reply #25 on:** March 27, 2013, 12:28:14 pm »

i don't like guys coming out too strong.
I don't like them being shy either.

The "FRIENDS" thing would work for me (pero dapat short span of time lang kami sa stage na ito)
For me the pakiramdaman stage/ hulaan stage is the most kilig of all.

After much encouragement that's the time for him to woo me

angelzero · « **Reply #26 on:** March 27, 2013, 03:58:42 pm »

as much as i would like the traditional pinoy courting experience, ang uso na ata talaga ngayon ay dating or hanging out. i never experienced "ligaw" in the traditional sense. with dating, both of you are trying to size up each other or "tantsahan"/pakiramdaman. if everything goes well in, say, 3-5 dates, at nagkaaminan na ng feelings eh di sagutin na agad diba. if you found out na after a month or so di pala kayo compatible eh di mag break.

pag ayaw, madaming dahilan. pag gusto, maraming paraan.

lawrence01 · « **Reply #27 on:** April 05, 2013, 02:23:36 am »

Nice read.

Im just curious. Is it possible that some women intentionally ignore the guy they are interested with, for some reasons maybe to make him work hard more, prove to her that he is for real? but im talking about not completely responding to his messages. let just say girl is somehow interested coz it shows on her body language (holding eye contact, checking him out and other signs she is at least 1% interested, mixed signals) and the guy could read it. Girl had a bad experience with previous rel but was ended 3 years ago.

If that is a female strategy, why do it? personal issues? taking her time to know him? (but she doesnt even respond to him). can somebody help me understand?