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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #20 on: January 28, 2012, 04:45:54 AM »
absolutely. my boyfriend's best friend is engaged to a single mom. she's young din, 25 and her kid is a toddler. at first, he had qualms about dating her but well, he fell in love. so ayun hehe :)

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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #21 on: February 13, 2012, 09:42:03 PM »
I have 2 BFFs who are single mothers, and are now happily married to guys who were once very much single. 
What did the men see in these women?  Definitely, not the "excess baggage".  They probably saw how nurturing they were as mothers, how organized, and inspite of their busy skeds... still had time for them.

However, Filipino men balk at tying the knot with single mothers.   It's a cultural thing, really stunts emo growth.. but this is slowly changing, this kind of attitude.   Btw, my 2 BFFs -- their 2nd husbands are both Americans.


Sis, this is sooooo true. I don't know how things work in the Phils nowadays pero dito sa US it is Never a problem! Actually mas higher tendecy pa sila to be in a good relationship than someone like me ( NBSB )

I have a friend she has a kid mas maganda pa ang katawan sa akin! She's the one who says no to guys pa. She looks so much better than almost all girls i know (me anak o wala ) that we ask advice from her pa!

I think men pine for her because she takes care of herself well, she is outgoing and generally loves life. Nasa pagdadala yan sis. Mas madami pa nga nahuhumaling sa kanya kesa sa amin na walang " baggage "

So wag mo isipin na kasiraan sayo yon. Take care of yourself and you will exude good vibes.

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« Reply #22 on: February 13, 2012, 09:45:08 PM »
Oh, i forgot to say this friend of mine had been divorced once and had been a single mom for a short while and now happily married to a very good guy ( who was once very much single )

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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #23 on: February 14, 2012, 06:48:16 AM »
nakaka uplift [textspeak!] ng spirits yung mga stories ng friends niyo..hehe, correct...ako, I stopped sulking na rin..
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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #24 on: February 14, 2012, 01:49:18 PM »
hopefully one day, someone that God destined for me will find me...
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« Reply #25 on: February 14, 2012, 02:03:10 PM »
of course! im a single mom of 2 before i met my soon-to-be-husband. dati wala sa isip ko yan after my late husband passed away. yes im widowed with 2 kids. then i met him. at first it didnt work well kasi iniisip ko pare-pareho lang mga lalaki. so sad coz my late husband had hurt me too much. then one day i learned that im pregnant with him. i just learned it after we broke up. tinago ko yun sa kanya. but before i gave birth sinabi ko na sa kanya yung totoo. after i gave birth, wala pa din same pa din kami. but after mabinyagan baby namin something change. and that time i fell in love with na seriously. kasi nakita ko yung caring nya sa baby namin and even sa 2 kids ko which before hindi ko sya binigyan ng chance gawin yun. right now we're living together and hope to be married soon. :)
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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #26 on: February 15, 2012, 09:37:51 PM »
i am a single mom, may bf sa ngayon pero on the rocks ang LDR.. not so good. :)

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« Reply #27 on: February 18, 2012, 04:50:51 AM »
OMG! ganda ng mga stories nyo. kinikilig ako!  ;D

i'm a hopeless-romantic single mom. i have a 2 yr old daughter and more than a year na kame separated ng dadie nya. sobrang hirap tlaga makahanap ng matinong guy. tama naman na marami ng guys naun ang keber na kahit may anak ka, kaso lang, karamihan din, yung perception sa single moms e, game. parang anything goes kase nga naman naranasan na magka-asawa or something. idk about them. kaya nakakatakot na at napapagod na ko sa totoo lang, madame na rin ako naka-encounter na akala ko, sila na. kaso in the end, ndi pa rin nagwowork out. i'm already 28. feeling ko sobrang tanda ko na para makahanap ng matinong guy. no offense meant sa much older sa ken ha. kaya lang negative thinker kase tlaga ako. eto nga siguro yung aura na hindi matagalan ng mga guys e. dahil sa experience ko with my ex, para akong may negative aura na nakapaligid sa ken. sabe pa man din nila d ba if negative ka, you will attract negative things din. kaya dpat palaging positive. kaso mo, matigas ang ulo ko. ndi ko maiwasang ndi maging negative. nakakatrauma kase. :'( share lang. but hindi naman ako naging manhater kahit madame na kong failed relationships. expecting pa rin ako kahit palaging nadadapa.
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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #28 on: February 18, 2012, 12:17:22 PM »
here is my story.

Nov2009 kinasal ako kay ex. I am physically, verbally and financially abused. Sa pera ko sya dapat ang maghawak tapos pinangsusugal. anyway, naghiwalay kami ng march 2010.

nakilala ko si single guy ng may 2010, sya bf ko ngayon. love na love nya kami ng 3yr old daughter ko. nasa UAE si bf mga 1 month na. magfile na ako ng annulment against my ex siguro on june or july. sasagutin ni bf yung half, tapos yung half ako.. I feel blessed kasi alam ko love nya ang baby ko, lagi nya kami pinapasyal nung andito pa sya, pinagluluto din nya kami. ngayong LDR kami ni bf, madaming misunderstanding pero nakakayanin pa rin. sana going strong na talaga kami.

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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #29 on: February 18, 2012, 12:23:49 PM »
of course! i know someone pa nga na biyuda with 3 kids pero nakapag asawa ng single. sa culture natin ang madalas lang na problema sa sitwasyon na ganito ay mga inlaws. hindi ganoon ka tanggap ..

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« Reply #30 on: February 24, 2012, 02:16:24 PM »
here is my story.

Nov2009 kinasal ako kay ex. I am physically, verbally and financially abused. Sa pera ko sya dapat ang maghawak tapos pinangsusugal. anyway, naghiwalay kami ng march 2010.

nakilala ko si single guy ng may 2010, sya bf ko ngayon. love na love nya kami ng 3yr old daughter ko. nasa UAE si bf mga 1 month na. magfile na ako ng annulment against my ex siguro on june or july. sasagutin ni bf yung half, tapos yung half ako.. I feel blessed kasi alam ko love nya ang baby ko, lagi nya kami pinapasyal nung andito pa sya, pinagluluto din nya kami. ngayong LDR kami ni bf, madaming misunderstanding pero nakakayanin pa rin. sana going strong na talaga kami.

Sis question nung mag bf/gf palang kayo ni ex. Alam mo na ba na sugarol sya? Shocks ayoko rin ng ganyan lalaki

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« Reply #31 on: February 24, 2012, 02:35:19 PM »
^hindi sis. kasi nung mag bf/gf pa lang kami wala pa syang trabaho.. before ako magbuntis, dun pa lang sya nagwork, sa taiwan. so paguwi nya nagcivil wedding agad. kaya akala ko responsable ang mokong.. hahaha. hindi pala..

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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #32 on: February 28, 2012, 11:51:31 PM »
Hi mga sis. I'm not sure if I can join this topic or not. Ano ba ang tawag sa may anak pero kayo parin nung Dad nung bata pero hindi pa kayo married? I mean, I know live in pero single mom parin ako diba? Kasi hindi pako married?

Mag 3 years na kami ni BF, yung son namin 1 year and 6 months old na. We're ok naman, so I thought, but yesterday, I met with one of my old friends na single and no kid pa.. She asked me kung ano daw ba plano namin, ang sabi ko hindi pa kami pwede i-kasal and ayoko pa naman. Pero mga sis, if he'll ask me to marry him, I would say yes naman. After that talk with my friend, napaisip naman ako.

So I asked BF, out of the blue lang, "Sa tingin mo, kelan tayo ikakasal?" Wala syang nasagot. Medyo kakagising lang kasi nya nun and siguro aantok-antok pa. Pero I dunno, baka talagang hindi pa sya ready or wala pa sa plans nya yun. Pumunta ako agad sa CR at umiyak kasi I really felt bad. Ang dating kasi sakin, oo nga ok kami pero wala pa ba talaga sa plano nya ang kasal? We've talked about it before and yun nga, hindi pa daw pwede kasi may plans pa ang mom nya na nasa US for him, kukunin sya or something. Eh kaso hindi pa naman inuumpisahan ang process at by that time they start the process, gano pa katagal bago sya makaalis at gano pa katagal bago kami pwedeng kunin? Diba?

Ewan ko mga sis... Am I just wasting my time with this guy?

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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #33 on: February 29, 2012, 12:40:24 PM »
OMG! ganda ng mga stories nyo. kinikilig ako!  ;D

i'm a hopeless-romantic single mom. i have a 2 yr old daughter and more than a year na kame separated ng dadie nya. sobrang hirap tlaga makahanap ng matinong guy. tama naman na marami ng guys naun ang keber na kahit may anak ka, kaso lang, karamihan din, yung perception sa single moms e, game. parang anything goes kase nga naman naranasan na magka-asawa or something. idk about them. kaya nakakatakot na at napapagod na ko sa totoo lang, madame na rin ako naka-encounter na akala ko, sila na. kaso in the end, ndi pa rin nagwowork out. i'm already 28. feeling ko sobrang tanda ko na para makahanap ng matinong guy. no offense meant sa much older sa ken ha. kaya lang negative thinker kase tlaga ako. eto nga siguro yung aura na hindi matagalan ng mga guys e. dahil sa experience ko with my ex, para akong may negative aura na nakapaligid sa ken. sabe pa man din nila d ba if negative ka, you will attract negative things din. kaya dpat palaging positive. kaso mo, matigas ang ulo ko. ndi ko maiwasang ndi maging negative. nakakatrauma kase. :'( share lang. but hindi naman ako naging manhater kahit madame na kong failed relationships. expecting pa rin ako kahit palaging nadadapa.


aw! T_T
ahm, ate ayem, married po ba kayo ni hubby u?

PM u na lang po if di mo po pwedeng sagutin dito..

Thanks po.. ^_^
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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #34 on: March 05, 2012, 02:55:45 PM »

aw! T_T
ahm, ate ayem, married po ba kayo ni hubby u?

PM u na lang po if di mo po pwedeng sagutin dito..

Thanks po.. ^_^
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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #35 on: March 06, 2012, 04:01:08 PM »
Well ang sagot ko sa tanong na ito ay...

Oo naman pwedeng pwede. Basta dapat si guy at may "napaka-lawak" na pag-iisip. At higit sa lahat marunong tumanggap ng "past" ni SingleMom

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Re: Can a single mom still be loved by a completely single guy.
« Reply #36 on: March 06, 2012, 06:14:35 PM »
when will i EVER find someone who'll respect me and treat me right?


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« Reply #37 on: March 08, 2012, 04:46:08 PM »
still loved completely by a single guy if the single mom is pretty. Pero kung hindi i doubt :P

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« Reply #38 on: March 13, 2012, 12:28:49 PM »
Why not??? EVERYbody deserves to be loved, respected and cared for :)

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« Reply #39 on: March 16, 2012, 05:28:19 PM »
hi mga sis... ako pala ang nagstart ng thread na ito not knowing  na after ilang months ill end up happy with my new bf (whose single)


we are currently 5 months dating....okey naman.. accepted si baby and i guess nasa  getting to know stage parin..

sabi niya the na-dissapoint talaga siya nung  nalaman niya about my baby. he stopped courting me at sabi niya nag-isip daw siya maigi.

then, after a month he continued again. he told himself na mahal daw talaga niya ako at wala na siyang pakialam whatever it is in the past.

ayun..5 months, hopefully magtagal. i still keep praying kasi i'm also starting to fall in love again..
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