Ang babata nyo pa! Ako feeling ko napag iwanan nako ng panahon. Ito question ko naman - Can a 40yo single mom who has never met other guys except her hubby still be loved by a completely single guy?
I was married before, pero hiwalay na kami ngayon. I have a teenager na. Wala pa naman akong 40, I am in my late 30s na. Just thinking of getting over my ex first bago ako mag entertain kasi. Kaya am thinking ahead, pag nasa 40s nako may magseryoso pa kaya sakin?
Ito pa, for guys who are interested with married women or single moms, hindi kaya sex lang ang habol nila? Who among those single moms na may bfs/hubbies ulit did not sleep with their current bfs/hubbies until they are married? Natanong ko lang yan kasi I came from an old school. Naniniwala parin ako sa sanctity ng marriage (so far), kaya parang hindi ko ma imagine with someone na hindi ko asawa. This is my second problem. Since I did not entertain other men other than my hubby, takot ako.
In the past few years, there has been a couple of guys na umaaligid. Pero laging pakilala ko kasi sa mga tao eh "married" ako kasi wala pa naman kaming documents ng ex ko na nagpapatunay na separated na kami. We are just not together anymore. Now, meron ulit lumalapit and this time makulit ito. But at our age naman kasi - wala namang "I love u's" agad (I think). It is more like you look interesting, let's go out and see from there. Naisip ko naman, baka naman kasi he just wants to sleep with me. After that, parang di na naman kami magkakilala. I don't know. I don't know how to respond. Kasi nga naman, my hubby was my childhood sweetheart. We have been inseparable since we were kids. Kaya when we separated, hindi ko alam san ako pupulutin. My parents did not teach me to collect and select when I was young. Kaya looking back, hindi ko pinapansin ang ibang lalaki kasi yung ex ko lang nga ang focus ko until we got married. Then na realize ko since hindi ako makuha ni ex nung single pa kami, when we were married na, tsaka naman sya nambabae. Pareho siguro kaming hindi nakapag explore nung mga bata pa. Kaya sya lalaki, nag explore nga nung kasal na kami. Pero ako babae, napag-iwanan ng panahon.
The other question I have as well is - with me, parang nag give up nako to find Mr Right. Kasi naman napaka torpe ko. Tapos anong mapapala ng single guy with me if I have this rule of not sleeping with bfs? Eh di syempre sa single gals nalang sila o di kaya nga, sa single moms who are ok with sex.