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Author Topic: HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER  (Read 2903 times)

tennisgirl

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HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER
« on: September 09, 2011, 04:38:48 PM »
Meron kaming co-worker dito na may attitude problem (babae pa naman). From what I've heard, nilipat-lipat na sya ng dept. Meron din daw syang naka-away sa orig department nya. Ang ayaw ko naman sa kanya yung ugali nyang tamad at mahilig magpasa ng trabaho sa aming mga ka-department nya. Sya ang senior sa amin dito pero wala syang alam sa trabaho, ang gusto lang nya ay magfield. Di ko gusto ginagawa nya kaya nakikipagusap lang ako sa kanya pag tungkol lang sa trabaho, other than that, wala na. Then this morning, nung nasa pantry kami, while putting my food sa loob ng ref, and sya naman nasa tapat ng microwave, aba, binagsak ba naman yung door ng microwave! Ang sabi ko "galit ka yata?" then sabi nya, "obvious ba?". Sabi ko, kung galit ka, "wag mo pag-interesan yung microwave at baka masira, kausapin mo yung tao." Then from there, medyo nagkasagutan na pero di naman kami nagsigawan. Siguro nakakahalata na ayaw ko as kanya, pero diba kung ayaw syo ng tao, wag mong ipilit. May attitude din kasi sya na gusto lagi syang pinapansin ([textspeak!] yata). How do you handle this kind of co-worker?
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whitelady17

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER
« Reply #1 on: September 09, 2011, 04:48:09 PM »
deadma sis, you are there to work and not to make friends naman eh, work related talk to her. Kapag panay ang pasa ng work eh puwede namang tumanggi kahit naman senior na iyan kung pareho kayo ng designation eh dapat alam niya gawin mga bagay-bagay. Huwag kasi tanggap ng tanggap eh. If may enough reasons to refuse the job, say it out loud sa kaniya. Huwag ka masyado papa apekto, ang pikon talo. So hayaan mo siyang maubos ang kandila niya  ;D sa inis para dumami wringkles niya lol

Kady_14

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER
« Reply #2 on: April 08, 2013, 04:05:57 PM »
non existent siya syo, ganun gawin mo. Ganyan ako dati sa mga di ko gustong officemate. I just talk to them if it's really needed like work-related. hehe... ayoko ma-stress.

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER
« Reply #3 on: April 22, 2013, 11:01:19 PM »
As an employer, hindi maiwasan may mga staffs kami na nagkaka asaran. I always tell them, kung pwede ninyong ayusin, wag na ninyong palakihin. Kung hindi kaya, then trabaho nalang kayo ng ayos, hindi naman kayo andito to make friends, but u are here to work. Wala akong pakialam if sa labas ng office hindi kayo magpansinan, pero habang nasa office kayo u should show respect to each other, and shouldnt let ur personal feelings get in the way of work.

kwang sun

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER
« Reply #4 on: November 24, 2013, 06:10:50 AM »
problem ko to ... it started with these two girls na hindi naman kagandahan.. seriously .. ewan , wala naman ako ginagawa sa kanila eh ...i was being friendly to all of them naman. hindi ko alam saan ako nagkamali. pero siguro  nga dapat hindi masyading makipagkaibigan sa co-workers mo. mas ok pa siguro yung solo flight eh para hindi masyado napapansin. nakakainis lang yung every move you make napapansin ka.. ganun

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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER
« Reply #5 on: December 04, 2013, 06:49:42 PM »
Ya wag na lang pansinin kasi hindi mo naman siya kailangan  :D

It's a different story kung naghahanap siya ng kakampi or kinampihan siya ng boss.  :D
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Re: HOW TO DEAL WITH A RUDE CO-WORKER
« Reply #6 on: December 04, 2013, 07:29:49 PM »
sana  karmahin sila.yun lang..

 

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