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Author Topic: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?  (Read 6194 times)

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #20 on: December 15, 2011, 11:29:13 PM »
YES.  :-\  Mas lalo gumulo.  :'(  Pero atleast I tried to save it.
as i matured, i realized how i should value my sanity and well-being more. mas madali naman kasing makipagbalikan. andun na kasi yung familiarity and comfort. it takes real strength to break it off and let it stay that way. sa kaso ko, sinikap ko talagang magkaroon ng lakas na iwanan yung bagay na nag-dradrain sa akin. i know a relationship takes work pero nakakaligtaan ko na yung ibang aspeto ng buhay ko sa kakaasam kong maayos yung relationship namin ng ex ko.

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #21 on: December 26, 2011, 09:30:54 PM »
yes... but still it ended up useless..

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #22 on: April 30, 2012, 02:30:34 AM »
YES, nung bulag na bulag na ko! :o
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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #23 on: June 14, 2012, 10:19:12 PM »
 :) yes, for the sake of our son.

but before when i was single,never talaga! im afraid of rejection. sa mind ko lagi, pag hindi sya bumalik, its destined to be that way.marami naman iba. :)

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #24 on: June 16, 2012, 03:40:49 PM »
yes. several times.

it was worth it. he's my first bf, now my husband and father of my son
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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #25 on: June 16, 2012, 09:40:04 PM »
no.. and never will

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #26 on: June 20, 2012, 03:21:03 PM »
i think so yes, i let him know na i still love him and told him that im just here if he still want me pero hanggang duon lang. im not expecting anything from him. i just wanna be honest about how i feel and not trying to pretend na im okay.

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #27 on: June 21, 2012, 03:58:40 AM »
~ not yet. pero i can try, haha!  ;)
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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #28 on: June 21, 2012, 08:53:01 AM »
No. Why should I? :)
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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #29 on: June 21, 2012, 09:03:49 AM »
not really. for me its not worth the effort. i would initiate friendship though.

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #30 on: June 21, 2012, 09:39:44 PM »
once with my first bf. walang nangyare, never tried it again sakaniya, at dun sa dalawa ko pang nakarelasyon noon.
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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #31 on: July 06, 2012, 10:23:36 PM »
Nope.

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #32 on: July 06, 2012, 10:58:56 PM »
Yes bu I changed my mind. Good thing I realized that the pieces were too broken before I hurt myself trying to mend the broken pieces of the glass.

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #33 on: July 08, 2012, 08:06:40 PM »
nope..siya ang mg initiate..
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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #34 on: August 31, 2012, 07:57:41 PM »
yes, nung nakahelmet p ako  ;D

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #35 on: September 03, 2012, 08:14:02 AM »
Yes with my latest ex. Sobrang hooked pa ako kasi sa kanya nun pero sya nakipagbreak e , so rejected ata ako. Sabi ko kasi dati na magusap kame pero sabi nya next week daw kame magusap. Hindi naman ako umasa sa sinabi nyang next week, pero nakaleave pala sya sa office namin ng whole week na yun. So I guess ayaw nya na talaga akong kausapin. Palusot nya lang yung "next week" na yun

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #36 on: September 03, 2012, 01:24:29 PM »
yes.. hehe. pero wala talaga.. tsaka that time bata-bata pa ko nun...  ;D
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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #37 on: September 04, 2012, 06:27:51 PM »
Tried it once. It wasn't really the same anymore and did not work for me. Lesson learned!

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #38 on: September 26, 2012, 02:39:23 PM »
Yes, a few weeks after we broke up but I was rejected... Pero nung nagkaroon na ako ng bagong boyfriend a few months later, si ex naman nagreach out. He told me he regrets letting me go. Smile nalang ko. Alam ko kasi na kung hindi niya nakita na magkasama kami ni new BF, hindi pa rin niya marealize what he lost...  :)

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Re: Have you ever initiated a reconciliation with an ex-lover?
« Reply #39 on: October 05, 2012, 07:06:17 AM »
I tried before. Pero ayaw niya. Masyado siyang bitter sa mga nangyari samin. E siya naman ang nagsimula. hehe Sa lahat ng mga naging Ex niya, sakin siya galit na galit. Pati sa FB niya naka block ako.

 

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