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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #40 on: August 25, 2011, 02:05:13 AM »
Di ba! He claims kasi daw siya ang bumili and Im like to hell with you!!! Breakups pala can bring out the worst in people ha ha ha laughtrip talaga when I remember this.

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #41 on: September 06, 2011, 04:32:55 PM »
My ex demanded I return the lingerie he bought me haha I wasn't pissed I was extremely humored..

sis, baka papagamit nya pa sa next na GF nya. yay! kaloka ka yang EX mo. buti na lang EX na at hindi CURRENT.
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #42 on: September 07, 2011, 04:52:11 AM »

sis, baka papagamit nya pa sa next na GF nya. yay! kaloka ka yang EX mo. buti na lang EX na at hindi CURRENT.
^sis baka gagamitin nya :) narealize na bading pala sya.. hahahahahaha
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #43 on: September 07, 2011, 08:38:50 AM »
^sis baka gagamitin nya :) narealize na bading pala sya.. LOL

sis, anong tatak nun binigay nya? kaloka talaga! kakatawa! lol na lol..baka sis! baka joding nga! baka mahal kasi yung bigay nya kaya like pa nya bawiin :D
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #44 on: September 08, 2011, 12:37:26 AM »
Di ba! He claims kasi daw siya ang bumili and Im like to hell with you!!! Breakups pala can bring out the worst in people ha ha ha laughtrip talaga when I remember this.

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #45 on: September 19, 2011, 01:17:50 PM »
Di ba! He claims kasi daw siya ang bumili and Im like to hell with you!!! Breakups pala can bring out the worst in people ha ha ha laughtrip talaga when I remember this.

nakakaloka to. haha
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #46 on: September 22, 2011, 04:47:50 PM »
im returning the things i got from bf. so sorry i had to return even the gifts galing sa mom at sister niya. i just don't think i still need to keep them... there is really no point in doing so.

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #47 on: October 21, 2011, 01:08:36 PM »
tinapon ko lahat ng pictures, anything na galing sa kanya except  stuff toy binigay ko sa ate ko and last bond ring namin binigay ko sa friend ko.  the rest, tinapon ko na :)

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #48 on: November 05, 2011, 09:15:51 PM »
Di ba! He claims kasi daw siya ang bumili and Im like to hell with you!!! Breakups pala can bring out the worst in people ha ha ha laughtrip talaga when I remember this.

ayoooos!!! e di bumili nalang sya ulit, sus... at least you (and us here, hehe) got a big laugh out of it...

ako naman, i put everything i was given in one box and gave it to my ex's sister... close naman kami so she told me that when she gave it to him, she said, "o ayan, 10 years..." sabay point to the box... hehe, aliw ako sa drama...

i did it because at the time i really meant to be hurtful... plus, i didnt want to have to explain to my household why i was throwing away perfectly good stuff...
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #49 on: November 22, 2011, 06:32:03 PM »
Para sa akin, much better huwag ng ibalik kasi bigay yun.

Pero if you don't want to see those things, better ipamigay sa iba or sunugin.

Sa brother ko, sinusunog niya yung mga bigay ng mga ex girlfriends nya.

Eh ako naman, nasa storage box, balak ko isoli pero hindi na rin kasi nagkabalikan na din kami lol.


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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #50 on: November 24, 2011, 05:12:30 PM »
NO NO NO mga sis. a real lady will never return yung mga things na bigay ng ex. even if he cheated..its a big NO. its not proper and its not the right way to show na kaya mo kahit break na kayo..if you don't want to keep it donate it that's the best thing to do, to get rid of those things if you want..and haller kumusta naman mag mumukha ka lang papansin hehe no offense po

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #51 on: November 24, 2011, 05:30:04 PM »
naalala ko nong nag-break kami dati ng ex ko. nakakatawa because helped me packed my things kasi lilipat ako ng apartment non tapos nong pauwi na sya he said "kunin ko na to lahat ng to ha kasi ako naman may bigay nito eh." napa-o [textspeak!] na [textspeak!] ako na natatawa.hehe
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #52 on: December 26, 2011, 10:44:14 PM »
ibalik lahat sa kanya..show them we dont need anything that would remind us of them. hahaha prang ang tapang ko.. pro in real life nagduplicate muna ako ng laht, scanned letters, pictures at picturan lahat ng binigay bago inilagay sa box at return to sender. :(

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #53 on: December 27, 2011, 09:22:20 AM »
I wanted to but I didn't. In retrsospect maybe the reason why I wanted to give the stuff back was because it will give me a reason to go to his place, or contact him somehow.

I ended up throwing away everything or stashing them someplace na hindi ko accidentally makikita, pati jewelries.

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #54 on: January 01, 2012, 06:13:24 PM »
at first, tinago ko [textspeak!] mga bigay nya.. then dinonate ko na lang [textspeak!] iba sa charity, [textspeak!] iba tinapon ko tapos [textspeak!] medyo high value, ginagamit ko.. :)

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #55 on: February 23, 2012, 10:50:56 PM »
I returned the items that he needs specially, and the items that are really his. But other stuff, I kept the things that I liked the most, things I think I still have use for in the future, things that I just can't let go not because of him but really I just like it. :) example: sweater, funny books, a shirt. etc.

the letters and cards I didn't return but have to throw it, part of cleansing. the pictures and digital copies, hmmm...i'm collecting some that I know he'd like to keep so i can send them to him.

we're not mean to each other I think maybe this is why I'm able to do this.

with my other ex, I did not return his stuff but I did left it in my old apartment and told the landlord that he can give them away. including shoes, pants, etc. :D

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #56 on: February 24, 2012, 04:10:39 PM »
Hindi ko binalik.. pero kung kaya niya ibalik yung 7 years na nasayang sa buhay ko, sige, baka pag-isipan ko.  ;D
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #57 on: March 06, 2012, 07:23:02 PM »
My wx bf of more than 5 yrs called it quits lang first week of feb. come April 1, his bday. If he will still invited me to his bday, hindi ko isosoli yung mga gamit. pag hindi nya ako invite, then i will send thru Air21.

Matapang lang.

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #58 on: March 12, 2012, 03:57:51 AM »
It's a BIG NO! First of all, binigay na nila yun so akin na un. Unless, bawiin ulet ng nagbigay. Just give it back kesa naman magka-utang na loob ka pa at malasin kung isinumpa pala yung ng nagbigay after ng mga di magandang nangyare sainyo. :D I think di naman common sa mga lalake yan, kase syempre ego nila yun but I have this EX-BF na binawi talaga ang lahat ng binigay saken after we broke up, hahaha! Naiintindihan ko naman kase siguro bitter sya. So what I did, everything that he gave me (cellphone, love letter, flowers, pictures, couple's ring etc) binalik ko sakanya na nakalagay lang sa paper bag. Di ako yung nag-abot sakanya kase I asked our common friend to give it to him, ayun nag-emote si Kuya! Habang naglalakad daw e isa-isa nyang sinisira at tinatapon sa daan ang mga gamit na sinoli ko. Syempre except sa cellphone which binigay na lang nya sa younger sister nya. Ang weird talaga nung EX ko na un, hehe' Pero oks lang kase atleast wala akong utang na loob sakanya at wala syang maisusumbat saken. Ayoko ring isipin nya na un ang habol ko sakanya.

After almost 5 yrs, nagreconcile kame (as in nagkabati lang, walang balikan). Nagsorry ako sakanya kase I know na nasaktan ko sya before and I know na parang nakarma na ako sa ginawa ko sakanya. (Para kaseng na-fall ako for another guy nung time na on the rocks ang relationship namen, medyo may pagka-brutal kase ang Kuya mo.) Ok naman ang pag-uusap, although minsan nagpaparamdam sya na gusto nya maging kame ulet. Pero hinde na talaga e' wala ng feelings. So tinapat ko sya, after nun medyo naglaylo syang magtext at makipag-usap saken. :)) Pero oks lang kase atleast di ko sya pinaasa. I know I've done my part at nasakanya na un kung magiging bitter pa den sya saken. :D
« Last Edit: May 31, 2012, 03:58:00 AM by dumpee.o13 »
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #59 on: March 12, 2012, 06:12:32 PM »
Better to throw than to return  ;D

 

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