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returning things after break up
« on: July 22, 2011, 10:26:37 PM »
hi sissies,

enlighten me please. ok lang ba ibalik ang gamit ng ex mo? hindi nya binigay ha? parang hiningi mo nung courtship period then binigay before naging kayo. thanks
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #1 on: July 23, 2011, 01:22:58 AM »
i just realized everything that my last ex gave I just threw away.

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #2 on: July 23, 2011, 03:09:25 AM »
yung sakin di ko binigay. E akin na yon e, binigay nya so akin na. haha, Yung mga letters, sinunog ko, yung iba tinapon ko, yung mga damit na gift nya sakin sinusoot ko paren, wala ng bitterness, bahala sya mag isip ng gusto nya isipin basta akin na yon.. hahahahahahaha
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #3 on: July 23, 2011, 03:35:05 AM »
^ haha korek sis. sayo na un eh.  ;) actually after break up ang pinagawayan pa namin ng ex ko eh yung mga stuffed toys na baby namin. 3 yung nasa kanya 2 lang nasa kin. ayaw nya sa kanya daw yun at sya daw mag aalaga. o diba para lang kaming nag away sa custody ng bata  ;D

sis yasuy - hmm, if you're not comfortable na nasayo pa gamit nya na hiningi mo siguro simplehan mo lang - ako kasi nun tnxt ko sya kasi may ilang damit pa sya na nasa akin. sabi ko lang "ui yung mga damit/gamit mo dito" sabi lang nya sa kin na lang daw yun and ingatan ko. sya pa talaga nagbilin na gamitin ko mga bigay nya. nakaready na lahat yun sa paper bag just in case bawiin nga nya. pero since he asked me to keep it ayun, siniksik ko ulet sa cabinet ko. ang arte ko, wala ako tinapon, ultimong movie tickets eh nakatago. panget pa breakup namin nyan ha. lahat ng bigay nya ginagamit ko except sa wallet. ewan ko lang, baka kasi hindi na swerte yun eh. hehe.

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #4 on: July 23, 2011, 08:25:28 AM »
haha.. i dont think it still belongs to me lalo nagkabalikan sila ng ex nya. yun lang naman. saka parang memorabilia kasi yung binigay. parang dapat talaga nasa kanya kasi remembrance nya.

anyway, it still in my cabinet. i dont have plans for now. pero ayaw ko nakikita. nagagalit ako. haha
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #5 on: July 23, 2011, 08:48:58 AM »
I think ha pag binigay na niya yun sayo hwag mo ng isauli kasi sayo na un same as sa mga binigay mo sa knya, sa kanya na din yun. I also think ang childish pag nag solian pa kayo. If your really not comfortable hide it somewhere nalang. Ako,  hindi ko na binalik but I just kept it lang with me. The bag he gave me,  I still use it. Sayang eh..

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #6 on: July 23, 2011, 09:48:52 AM »
ako binalik ko.. kasi mga gamit niya naman talaga un hehe. like jackets and other gadgets na hindi ko magagamit nagkataon lang nasa sakin kasi pinaiwan or nadala ko- un pala di na kami magkikita ulit. kaya pina LBC ko kasi sayang naman. pero the things na he gave to me i just threw it away  :) :)

for you naman sis yasuy wag mo na ibalik sis kasi iyo na din yan  :) :) kung di mo kaya makita tapon mo na lang  ;)
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #7 on: July 23, 2011, 12:52:22 PM »
thanks. wala lang.. naisip ko lang ibalik since hiningi ko naman at di kusang binigay. and i find no use to it. kalat lang.. at nakakainis na kalat! LOL
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #8 on: July 23, 2011, 01:21:52 PM »
^heheh tapon mo na lang sis, masarap sa feeling  :) :)
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #9 on: July 23, 2011, 11:05:44 PM »
naku huwag ng ibalik, ipamigay or itapon mo nalang  :)

yung sa case ko naman, yung gf niya that time ang nagsabi sa akin na ibalik ko daw ang mga binigay ng bf niya sa akin... ang nakakahiya pa dun ginamit pa nung gf niya that time yung mga items na binigay sa akin na isinoli ko  ;D ;D ;D  tapos nung nag break sila hindi na binalik ni girl yung mga gamit ko sa bf niya.  but... friends pa naman kami ni ex-bf kaya nung naghiwalay sila may hiningi akong isang bagay na binigay niya sa akin na luckily tinago niya from his gf.  :)
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #10 on: July 24, 2011, 02:39:03 PM »
yah.. i think ill keep nalang.. then pag sobrang tagal at friends na kami ulet, ibabalik ko. kasi memorabilia talaga sya.
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #11 on: July 24, 2011, 05:06:50 PM »
Keep them, unless he asks back for them. Totoo yung sabi dito na ang childish pa na mag-offer ka na isoli, parang feeble attempt to hurt/make contact pa yun.
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #12 on: July 24, 2011, 05:47:22 PM »
What was given to you, is  yours already.  You wanna keep/return/throw away - that is your call.

BUT if he gave you some family heirloom, or childhood stuff like photos, or anything ,of sentimental value to him and his family (awards, trophies, markers of achievements) -- darling, soli mo yan.  Oo, kahit na tempting to keep that 5k ring - if galing  sa mommy or grannie nya  - return it. 

But if he bought you that 5k ring, and asks for it back -  lol, remove the diamond  and keep it - Send him back the ring/setting. Lol.  This happened in real life.  (Engagement called off coz girl caught husband to be - may GF/mistress pa lang  binahayan and goes there regularly.  Then he had the kapalmukz to write her asking for the engagement ring back.  So she sent him the ring, without the 5k stone. Lol)


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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #13 on: July 24, 2011, 06:18:30 PM »
^LOL! I love what that girl did. I hope the loser learned his lesson well.
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #14 on: July 24, 2011, 10:13:46 PM »
She sure was 1 lucky woman, finding out on time. To think they were in a relationship for over 10 years -  childhood sweethearts. Daw!  she kept everything, but threw out a lot - and sold some expensive stuff so cheap - and made sure he learned of such. 

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #15 on: July 26, 2011, 11:35:32 AM »
hahaa... wala lang.. i just feel i dont own it. ayaw ko itapon kasi memorabilia ng championship game
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #16 on: July 26, 2011, 03:49:32 PM »
dati, i gave them all back. kasi ayokong ako pa ang magtapon.

yung ngayon.... hmn... hindi ko alam kung [textspeak!] gagawin ko if ever magbreak kami eh. siguro itatapon ko or susunugin ko. or idodonate ko sa mga batang lansangan. *hobby kasi ni bf magbigay ng stuffed toys eh. kahit nga hindi pa kami naghihiwalay, pinamimigay ko na yung iba kasi sobrang dami na. hahahaha*
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #17 on: July 27, 2011, 10:49:42 AM »
yun binigay ni ex sa akin ayaw ko ibalik... t.v at mp3 kasi sayang naman di ba..at hindi naman niya kinukuha  ;D madami din siya binagay na mga souvenir tshirts sinusuot ko pa rin naman..ang tinapon ko lang talaga is yun binigay niya picture sa akin..aanhin ko naman kasi un..
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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #18 on: July 27, 2011, 11:13:29 AM »
ako i throw/burn yong mga pwedeng sunugin or itapon like pictures and cards, pero yong mga expensive stuff like jewelry, gadgets, clothes or whatever na pwede pang magamit di ko tinatapon or sinusunog, kung ayaw ko na talagang makita yong mga yon pinapamigay ko na lang...

May binigay sa aking bracelet yong ex ko, after the break up never ko ng ginamit nakatabi lang somewhere, basta di ko inaalagaan, nakakalat lang sa kwarto ko, nakita ng then bf now hubby, sabi ko galing kay ex... Napagkatuwaan naming isanla hahaha at di na namin tinubos (intentionally). In fairness may value pala yon haha. 

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Re: returning things after break up
« Reply #19 on: July 27, 2011, 12:48:06 PM »
ok naman kami naghiwalay ni ex kaya di ko napag-isipan ibalik yung mga gifts nya pati din sya, except dun sa baby picture ko na hiningi ko sa kanya, yun lang. Then after several years, I learned from his friend's wife na until that time he still keeps my baby picture in his wallet kahit married na sya. Di ko alam na two pala yung kinuha nyang baby pic ko, yun di ko na nabawi.
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