Break Up Stories/Diaries

[iam_miel]

^ ouch! Parang ganito yung situation namin: Me, my ex & his ex.."Pinikot" daw si ex ng ex gf nya (the gf before me but they broke up long before he met me)..my ex chose me over his blackmailing ex & his baby with her..nakaka-gulity man nung time na yun, I think the girl & the baby are better off w/o him coz Im sure magiging miserable lang buhay nila sa ex ko..

[renda08]

Currently in a relationship- yes, happy, I could say
 
...But always been hunted by my past..its been freakin' 10yrs since it happened, we are currently in our 30's now.. he was my college boyfie (imagine college life?! we really went thru a lot) after our college graduation he was offered a job abroad and accepted it, we stayed LDR for 2 yrs, it was all ok, I get to work as a call centre agent when he left and really enjoyed my job then,.

Next, I met someone who helped me work overseas too, i may have to leave our country but not the same as where he was. I broke up with him by the time I have to leave, I have my reasons why i did that and one is, we really just cant stand the long distance thing,..I know it won't work for us...I was young..He refused and even begged me not to leave..I was firm and decided.

Abroad,.I again enjoyed the new place, environment and people, loved my work too..he came to my senses again after a year when the news came from our common college friends that he was back home (phils) for his vacation..I humbly made my move..made calls to speak to him and tried my best to clear things up and start again..I was more than willing to work things out, he was responsive but i just realized later on that he was not that interested..30days of his vacation in manila, 30days i was on the phone with him, everyday...I was full of hope. We compromised that we'll try to work it out. I was the happiest.

He left Phils again...After 4mos of not hearing from him, after that 4 long months of waiting, heard not a single thing, you bet!  Shortly, I found out he was in a relationship already and seemed happy. I was really devastated, im in a foreign land without my family and console of my true friends...I have no choice but to move on, I have done some stupid decisions during those painful times but my life does not end when he ended

2 years ago, he finally decided to stay in the Phils and work there..during this time, I heard from friends,  him and the gf broke up... he tried to communicate not with me but with my sister to tell me to get in touch with him and his family when I get home for vacation/holiday, and that he was really sorry about what had happened to us (duh?! to my sister, seriously?!)...I went home few times, met our common friends but never saw him even once..wished our paths had crossed but never did..At one point, I knew that it is because of me too that our friends never invited him. For them, its been long overdue and being friends with him is something not necessary plus I always give them the impression that I am all ok and seeing him does not interests me..

I had relationships in between years... Well afterall, he might not be the one I have seriously prayed for so I went on with my life, at least i tried. All relationships I had after that nightmare lasted for minimum 2 yrs and was all ok, I felt I was really loved by those people I shared my short life with. Infairness to the one i am with currently, me being thankful is an understatement. A very selfless, caring human being.

The hunt of the past never ceases...he is still single, not sure if in a relationship but at least not married..we are not even fb friends, I only get to see his pictures and whereabouts thru our common friends, and it always, always melts my heart.

I know what I have to do, but i dont have the courage anymore...I am so indenial...I wanna keep the lil' pride for myself after every stupid thing I did for him, its been 10yrs, and it is really an old story for some..everyone has moved on, but not me..

A closure might be necessary....I don't know

[clouds_1028]

During our 4th year together, nakakahiya but I cheated on my boyfriend. I broke off with him because may fling ako. Hindi naman tumagal kami nung fling ko kasi hindi rin kami happy dahil alam namin na may nasasaktan. Then I reconciled with my boyfriend and he accepted me pa din inspite of it all. Alam ko naman na its hard to forget such an issue kaya sa loob ng 3 years after the incident he kept on bringing it up. Sometimes to tease me, sometimes when we fight.

Then October last year, I noticed na super textmate sila ng officemate niya na girl. Younger girl than me, (I was 24 then and my ex was 30). Sabi ko kay ex, sana wag kayo magtext pag magkasama tayo. Then infront of my friends sabi nia, "bakit natatakot ka na gawin ko sayo yung ginawa mo sa akin before." Right then, I felt na may something which was definitely true.

The next month, he broke up with me. Before pa nun, napapansin ko na moody siya and looks confused. Then we had a huge fight na nagtrigger na break namin. Ugali ko ang sinabi niyang dahilan sa lahat (family and friends). Madami hindi makatanggap kasi were supposed to get married next year. Power couple nga ang tingin saming dalawa. Madami din ang mataas ang tingin kay ex kasi "good boy" daw. Kaso like any other guy, he fell into temptation. Front niya lang pala ang attitude ko for our break, the truth is he's flirting with the officemate.

I was so hurt talaga sobra. I thought is this my karma? Kasi nagawa ko sa kanya before and now siya naman ang gumawa sakin though sabi niya hinding hindi niya gagawin yun sakin kasi alam niya gaano kasakit. But what now, he left me just like that with no communications or admitting to his deed. He even neglected his own family because of that crazy thing he did. May malaking gap na siya sa family niya dahil sa nangyari. Ayaw niyang magpa-reach out sa kanila. He totally changed. 

[mariacadie]

ill just make it really short

it was summer of 2008

we were going on our 6th year together.  he was already based in singapore and i just graduated from law school. pabalik balik na ako sa sg noon and on my last visit napansin ko na iba na.  before i went home for the bar review, we had an agreement we will get married after the bar exams.
paguwi ko he just got "lost" meaning nawala. no text or call. no explanations. nawala parang bula. so i was clueless. i dont know what happened. not answering my calls not returning my call. not replying to my ym basta nawala sya.

hinalungkat ko yung maleta ko from sg. sa back pocket nakita ko. it was a plane ticket. he was in hong kong with another woman.  i dont know kung intentionally nilagay nya yung ticket doon o naiwan lang nya. but from that moment bumitaw na ako.

now i am happily married to a delicious hunk hahaha and have a 3 year old super cute son   

[devilish_einjel]

We broke up yesterday lang.. 4 months na sana kami today, yes, hindi kami nagtagal despite the matagaaaal na ligawan.. it was hard for me kasi feeling ko ako yung nakasakit although may fault din naman siya.. I dont know why pero nung sinagot ko siya parang nagbago, nawala yung "spark" nawala yung dating kilig.. parang kami pero hindi kami.. magkasama kami pero hindi naguusap, minsan gusto ko lang na lambingin niya ako pero wala.. kaya parang dumating sa point na I got bored at hindi na ako masaya.. matagal ko ng gusto makipag break pero hindi ko kaya kasi ang bait niyang tao tapos sasaktan ko lang.. pero yesterday parang napansin niya yung cold treatment na binibigay ko sa kanya, he even called me selfish and full of pride daw.. and sabi ko sa kanya bakit ganon mas ok pa kami before, ano ba nangyari? siguro naramdaman na din niya na dun papunta kaya siya na mismo nag let go kahit hindi pa ako nakikipag break. im glad na din kasi he made it easy for me.. super nakaka guilty pero hindi ko naman pwede pilitin yung sarili ko mag stay sa isang relatiosnship na hindi naman na ako masaya at komportable..

[babymeow04]

pinaka-maikling kwento, ginayuma =))

[elreen14]

We broke up last November. We were each other's first in everything. Nakakaloko lang na nag iilove you pa siya last December January and for me to find out na he's already flirting with another girl. I regret doing silly things for him at naawa pa ako sa kanya pero siya pala masayang masaya na siya. Totoo talaga people and feelings change. I've been sad for too long already. I wasted my tears and time to the wrong person. And I know someday someone will come na hindi ako igigive up no matter what happens.

[Len0523]

Totoo ba ang gayuma? Nacurious lang.

[Romina]

Worst break up ever ever.....

Senior prom. Of course date ko yung bf ko na athlete ng school. Matangkad, guapo, matipuno, parang si machete ang alindog. Mag 2 months palang kami noon. Actually, I broke up with my first bf para maging kami. Kasi talagang gigil na gigil ako sa kanya. Eh kahit alam nya ng may bf ako, pinupursige parin ako. Anyways, during the prom, he didnt even dance with me. After the official prom picture taking, he was MIA. I later learned that they left the party with some of the male teachers and went drinking instead. Worst part, he broke up with me the day after the prom. Saying na he don't want to be with me anymore and that I'm too high-maintenance. I have this gay teacher na super inis sakin even if wala akong alam na ginawang masama or Mali sa kanya. I just noticed  na they were always together since we broke up. They have lunch together and hang out after school. I confronted the gay teacher and he told me to stop trying to win back the dude kasi sila na daw and may monthsary pa sila.. The day after our prom. What happened pla is when he went missing during our prom, they were together drinking and actually slept together.  Sobra akong nandiri kasi naman bading ang ipinagpalit sakin. Alam ko naman ang habol nila sa isat isa, pero bad trip lang kasi tinaob ako ng bakla. Up to now ( 9 years after) lagi parin ako inaasar ng mga kabarkada ko about that