Author Topic: Break Up Stories/Diaries (Read 3817 times)

minikeyklush · « **on:** June 06, 2011, 11:09:38 am »

Hi mga sisses!

Please share your most unforgettable and painful break up stories..

Breaking up is really hard to do

miss resilient · « **Reply #1 on:** July 14, 2011, 04:05:54 pm »

yung first na painful for me was way back in college.

kasi nga, i have to study first..nahiya ako sa parents ko na di makapagtapos...so i broke up with him..kahit gustung gusto ko pa siya. he was disappointed at nandoon yung mga sumbat na "tinalikuran mo ko, inayawan mo ko"......hay naku one week akong nagiiyak noon! pero natapos rin....

iamshiela · « **Reply #2 on:** July 14, 2011, 04:17:55 pm »

i'm in love with my bestfriend. sad part is he's in love with someone else...

alam mo yung whenever nagkwkwento siya about dun sa girl i have to put up a poker face na hindi na ako nasasaktan. yung pinaka nakakaiyak na part nung tuwang tuwa siya kasi sila na ni girl, then he hugged me.. super pinipigilan ko pa yung iyak ko nun pero wala eh..naiyak pa rin ako..sinabi ko na lang na im really happy for him. which is true naman. im happy for him coz he's happy with his girl. sobrang sakit nga lang kasi im not THE DREAMGIRL for him.

minikeyklush · « **Reply #3 on:** July 15, 2011, 10:52:54 am »

Quote from: iamshiela on July 14, 2011, 04:17:55 pm

i'm in love with my bestfriend. sad part is he's in love with someone else...

alam mo yung whenever nagkwkwento siya about dun sa girl i have to put up a poker face na hindi na ako nasasaktan. yung pinaka nakakaiyak na part nung tuwang tuwa siya kasi sila na ni girl, then he hugged me.. super pinipigilan ko pa yung iyak ko nun pero wala eh..naiyak pa rin ako..sinabi ko na lang na im really happy for him. which is true naman. im happy for him coz he's happy with his girl. sobrang sakit nga lang kasi im not THE DREAMGIRL for him.

sis iamshiela, awwww..sakit nyan sis *hugs, i feel for you. I think sis you need give yourself a space muna away from him. Believe me sis it wont do any good kung lagi mo pa din syang nakakausap. You cant be friends with him at the same time kimkimin mo yang pain na nafifeel mo dahil sa pagkukuwento nya about sa girl na gusto nya. Sis, unaware ba sya na may feelings ka for him? Kasi if aware sya it's insensitivity. Basta sis as of now, you should love yourself more than him. Isipin mo muna yung kapakanan mo kung pano ka makakagetover sa feelings na yan. And i think the only way is icut mo yung root kung bakit ka nasasaktan ngayon which is sya yun. Goodluck sis! Pray also for enlightenment and guidance. It will help a lot. Aja!

now back to topic

I think the worst breakup experience ive encountered was with my first love when he broke up with me because of another girl. Di pa nakuntento because days before sya makipagbreak sa akin through text he physically hurt me, yun ang nakakasama ng loob. Tapos as in maliwanag pa sa sikat ng araw and most of my common friends knew na may iba na syang nililigawan pero mega deny pa din sya. Literal na nasira buhay ko after we parted ways lolz!

Naging self destructive ako to the point na naging lagalag ako, and muntik nako matanggal sa work kakaabsent because of depression. It hurts like hell especially at one point pinili ko yung first love ko over my family. That was the worst decision na talagang matagal kong pinagsisihan. Matagal before kame nagkaayos ng family ko, they were really against with my Bf before pero dahil sa pagmamahal ko hindi ko yun inintindi. But looking back now, nung nakarecover nako I really thanked God na hindi nya hinayaang magkatuluyan kame, siguro im still miserable as before pa din kung nangyare yun. Yes, that break up almost took away my sanity but one thing lang yung sigurado ako, it made me a better, matured and stronger person. So there, there is always a reason for everything, we just need to see it for ourselves.

iamshiela · « **Reply #4 on:** July 19, 2011, 04:18:38 pm »

@minikeyklush

thanks. dont worry it happened last year pa and break na sila ni girlie. haha!

minikeyklush · « **Reply #5 on:** July 19, 2011, 09:28:08 pm »

Quote from: iamshiela on July 19, 2011, 04:18:38 pm

@minikeyklush

thanks. dont worry it happened last year pa and break na sila ni girlie. haha!

@sis iamshiela, good to here that sis hehe

atleast hihi

ladyisabella · « **Reply #6 on:** July 20, 2011, 01:16:19 am »

well ang pinaka painful naman talaga ay yung first. He was my 1st bf for 6 years. Nag livein na din kame for 2 years and ikakasal na sana october this year.

Ok lahat for me, pero sa kanya hinde na pala. Nagulat nalang ako nakikipag break na sya, kase gusto lang daw nya mapagisa. At first pumayag ako kase baka nga nagkakasawaan na. KAse sa 6 years lage talaga kame magkasama, as in everyday.

Nasa opis ako nung nilapitan ako ng officemate ko. He said nakita nya si Bf sa sinehan may kasama girl. Deny to death pa ko nung una na hindi sya yun pero super lakas ng pakiramdam ko na totoo yun.

Nasakanila pa lahat ng gamit ko that time and may susi pa ko ng room namen, so after office dumerecho ako sa kwarto, at ewan ko ba sa dinami dami ng bag nya sa taas ng aparador nakuha ko yung bag na yun na may 2 ticket ng sinehan at dated yesterday (nung day na yun). Iyak ako super.. Lumapit ako sa mom nya, pinakita ko yung nakuha ko sa bag nya, pati mom nya super shock. Nagiyakan kame ng mom nya, (nahawa sa kakaiyak ko)

hinintay ko sya umuwi, at 11pm na sya nakauwi from 1pm nya na out sa opis, nagusap kame, inamin nya na may iba na sya nagustuhan, at kaya sya late kase hinatid nya pa sa batangas yung girl. Iyak lang ako ng iyak mga sis, para ako batang wala ng nasabi iyak nalang ng iyak.

After non, since na inamin na nya na may babae sya. Pinapalayas na nya ko. Kinuha nya lahat ng damit ko, inimpake nya then pinapalayas ako. Di ako pumayag, (ang tang* ko talaga that time.) Ginawa nya para umalis ako kinuha nya photo albums namin tapos isa isa nya pinunit mga pix namin sa harap ko. Nagmatigas paren ako, di paren ako umalis, gulong gulo ako that time talaga. Sinabihan nya ko "BOBO" etc etc. Sumingit na mom nya kase naaawa na sakin mom nya, sabi ng mom nya "anak ano ba nangyare? bakit may babaeng involve?" sagot nya "mom, biyaya na ang lumapet, ikaw ba mom pag dumating biyaya sayo tatangihan mo ba?" niyakap nalang ako ng mom nya tapos iyakan kame. Yung dad nya nag walk out kase di na kinaya yung mga pangyayare. Nag decide na ko umalis nung narinig ko na yung "biyaya" thing. Lahat pala ng ginawa ko sa kanya di pa pala biyaya. Super ouch kaya tinext ko na bestfriend ko, nagpasundo na ko.

After that ni sorry wala ako narinig sa kanya. Sya pa nag cut ng mga connection namin. Nagtry ako kausapin sya or ayusin pero ayaw nya talaga makipag usap, muntik na masira buhay ko dahil dun, kahit gutom ako wala ako gana kumain, daig ko pa may sakit. Lagi din ako absent sa depression, buti nalang may taong kumausap sakin masinsinan at pinakita ang reality sakin. Unti unti ko inayos sarili ko, kahit nalulungkot ako smile paren, basta bigla nalang ako nagising isang araw na sinabi ko sa sarili ko THIS IS TOO MUCH! and I DONT DESERVE THIS!. Dami kaya nagkakagusto sakin para sayangin ko lang sa kanya. Haller!!. Hahaha, In short nag ayos talaga ako, as in ginamit ko yung slim ko na body para mag model, hahaha, bumalik na ko sa pagbabanda na pinigilan nya ko dati kase puro daw boys kasama ko. Hahaha.

Nagkasalubong kame one time pauwi ako from work, ewan ko san sya galing, as in napahinto sya nung nakita nya ko, ako naman kunware di ko sya nakita, buti nalang madami tao, dumaan pa ko sa gilid nya (papansin) tapos sya talagang hinaharap nya muka nya sakin, pero kunware parin ako malayo tingin ko. hahaha.. Bahala sya ngayon..

7 months palang ako single pero masasabi ko ok na ko. Di ko na sya hinahanap hanap, minsan naalala ko sya pero gang dun nalang yun, napapa smile nalang ako pag naalala ko yung past. Masaya na ko for him kase balita ko ikakasal na sya. Buti nalang at kahit ganun ugali nya nakahanap paren sya na magmamahal sa kanya. Sana na lang wag nya ulitin o gawin sa girl na yun ang ginawa nya sakin. God Blessed him.

Ann_1983 · « **Reply #7 on:** August 01, 2011, 03:52:25 pm »

pa share nga..i have been through worst break up but this time its heavy for me its not ordinary break up lang..we were supposed to be married this dec, all plans are set..reservations are made all it takes is for him to come home just this may 27 he really broke up with me..he works in passenger ship kaya ako nag-agree for him to work there again kase [textspeak!] nya its for us and for the wedding.Then all of the sudden he had doubts nd needs space then i gave him that pero it dodont worked pa din he broke it off..I have decided its best to cancel everything especially at early time so d na lang mgkapahiyaan..It's been a gruelling 2 mosnths of my life and I know it will be hard for me..pero I am still hopeful naman a rainbow will come for me..He said he felt really doesnt deserve to be my husband there is no 3rd party..ewan ko bad judgement and bad decision making..I have cut all communications from him and move on kase lam ko it will for the best..he is supposed to finish his contract this sept but yet he filed for extension until dec..he doesn't have the guts to face me or to explain..sya pa etong ng self pity na di naman sya ang iniwan..so I decided na tama na kausapin ko na alng sya pag uwi..if he will want to talk to me.If not he really proved to himself he is a full time jerk.

CutiePatootie · « **Reply #8 on:** August 07, 2011, 11:23:13 am »

I broke up with my bf of 6 months today

It started when I read flirty text messages between him and a certain girl from work who he calls a "friend". I believe nothing is really between (not yet), just flirting. He's sorry and admitted he went overboard and didn't take my feelings into consideration. he said he called the girl and told her that he will avoid her. I didn't want to break up with him, i was waiting for him to ask for another chance and make things work. After all, this is his first offense. But he didn't make an effort. He agreed to the break up, blaming our "differences" as the main culprit. I couldn't do anything else but save face. It hurts that he didn't even fight for us. He just let go.

weirdzz · « **Reply #9 on:** August 12, 2011, 10:05:20 pm »

Reading all your experience na alala ko tuloy yun ga break up ko sa mga naging bf ko. Well nagkaron lang ako ng 4 bad break ups pero sa pinaka worst siguro yun 3rd bf ko na sobrang ginulo yun buhay ko.

Nakilala ko yun bf ko na yun online actually wala naman akong plans to meet him kaya lang meron akong ka date na guy nun araw na yun na sobrang *censored* at gusto kong makawala sa knya eh siya yun may pinaka malapit na house kaya naisipan ko siya tawagan para maiwan ko lang yun *censored* na ka date ko. Sobrang ironic [textspeak!] I believe that time na siya yun knight and shining armor ko. Tumagal yun relationship namin ng 1 year pero one and off siya. SObrang bulag ako sa kanya nun hindi ko na kita yun masamang ugali niya yun nag trigger talaga at masasabi ko na last break up namin dapat pupunta siya the day before my birthday inaantay ko siya buong araw pero hindi siya dumating. Contact ko siya pero hindi ko sya ma reach tapos try ko pa tawagan yun friend niya kase nag aalala ako sa kanya. Nun finally na reach ko na siya he won't gave me straight answer kung [textspeak!] ano lang sinsabi niya nagmamadali syang ibaba ang telepono tapos ayaw niya mag salita pag nag tatanong ako. Kinabukasan (birthday ko na nun araw na yun) tinawagan ko yun friend niya para malaman ba kung may problema siya, wala naman sinabi sakin un friend nya. Tapos finally nakausap ko sya sinabi nya sakin "PUTANGINA MO WAG MO NA AKO GUGULUHIN KAHIT KAILANGAN MISKI MGA KAIBIGAN KO"

Take note ahhh birthday ko nun araw na yun. At saka ko lang namalaman eventually from other friend na may long time gf pala siya all those times na kami. Sobrang naloka ako nun I keep on thinking ano bang ginawa ko to deserve that experience and treatment.

iamshiela · « **Reply #10 on:** August 16, 2011, 03:23:34 am »

it really hurts no? yung tipong iyak na lang kaya mong gawin. yung sakit wala ng mapaglagyan sa katawan mo. haaay.

loveann · « **Reply #11 on:** August 16, 2011, 04:56:36 am »

sad

iam_miel · « **Reply #12 on:** August 18, 2011, 02:46:38 am »

Hi..Im Miel & I just turned 30yo last July..This is my break-up story..

My ex & I met thru a TV chatroom Mar. 2010..He's 7yrs younger, pure chinese & frm a well-to-do fam..We got steady after dating for a month & Ive nvr bin happier my whole lyf (or so I thought)..On our 3rd month, I accidentally found out that he got his ex pregnant..It was the saddest day of my life bcoz all the wyl I thot I found my soulmate, he was all I evr wanted in a guy despite the age gap..So I broke up wit him & got drunk every night just to ease the pain..But a week later, we got back 2geder & he explained everythng: that it happened before he even met me, that his ex tricked him into getting her pregnant & was blackmailing him into the whole pregnancy thing, told me that his ex was threatening to tell his family abt her situation if he wont follow her demands: that he cant have a filipino gf, that he needs to send her money, etc..My ex was worried bcoz he cant let his family know abt it since he's actually having issues wit them for a long time, said he didnt feel like he's a part of his fam, that he's treated like a puppet..We were able to keep our relationship a secret , though, for a month but his ex found out abt us & threatened him again..She said she wud tell his fam if he wont break up wit me & so he did but bcoz we really love each oder it only lasted a day..We agreed to be more careful & I made a huge adjustment..I became the martyr gf who wud remind him to deposit money for the gurl on mondays, i even offered to go wit him to buy baby stuff, I wud allow him to talk to her on his phone wyl we're together (evn on dates), I wont text him everytime the gurl visits him at the shop (family business), & on Saturdays they wud hav dinner & he wud buy her groceries..I love my ex that time & since I ddnt hav a choice, I endured the hurt I was experiencing..October, we found out that his ex has plans of telling everyone abt the baby once she gives birth..My ex decided to cut all ties wit her: communication & support..Aside from that he couldnt take his family any longer so he left & came to live wit me..For 3 months I tried to fix the problem my ex left behind: his family issues, his pregnant ex gf, all issues in his life..I became his lawyer, his bestfriend, I wud give him moral support, boost his morale & made him believe in himself again..But when all his problems were over & he returned to his family, that's when we started falling apart..He ddnt have time for me anymore, wud always hav an excuse not to see me, he became a stranger..It was 4 days before our 1st anniv when I got fed up & broke up wit him..20 days later we talked & got back together but it was totally different..Its like he was no longer the same person bcoz he wud hurt me so bad emotionally I can fell my heart getting ripped to shreds..I decided to break up wit him again after a month & did it thru text..I let all my emotions out, the hurt, my sentiments..I wanted him to know how deeply hurt I was wit what he did..5 days after, we got back together again & this time it lasted for 2 months..5 days after my birthday we decided to break-up but this time for good..But the funny thing was we still love each other & we wud meet ocassionally & we still DO it though we're not in a relationship..I told him that I ddnt want to become his f*ck buddy & said that I wasnt..But that's exactly how I feel wit our situation..When I told him that I wanted to be his gf again he said he's confused so I decided to let go..There were so many times that we would both say we wont bother each other anymore but we would take it all back..I decided to let go for good last Tues but he texted me that he wanted to see me this Friday..what should I do? I know how weak I am & I know that my defenses will come flying out the window once I see him again..Why do u think he wants to see me still? Do U thinks he still loves me but he's just confused? Pls help me..Im really lost

minikeyklush · « **Reply #13 on:** August 18, 2011, 09:29:06 am »

Quote from: iam_miel on August 18, 2011, 02:46:38 am

Hi..Im Miel & I just turned 30yo last July..This is my break-up story..

My ex & I met thru a TV chatroom Mar. 2010..He's 7yrs younger, pure chinese & frm a well-to-do fam..We got steady after dating for a month & Ive nvr bin happier my whole lyf (or so I thought)..On our 3rd month, I accidentally found out that he got his ex pregnant..It was the saddest day of my life bcoz all the wyl I thot I found my soulmate, he was all I evr wanted in a guy despite the age gap..So I broke up wit him & got drunk every night just to ease the pain..But a week later, we got back 2geder & he explained everythng: that it happened before he even met me, that his ex tricked him into getting her pregnant & was blackmailing him into the whole pregnancy thing, told me that his ex was threatening to tell his family abt her situation if he wont follow her demands: that he cant have a filipino gf, that he needs to send her money, etc..My ex was worried bcoz he cant let his family know abt it since he's actually having issues wit them for a long time, said he didnt feel like he's a part of his fam, that he's treated like a puppet..We were able to keep our relationship a secret , though, for a month but her ex found out abt us & threatened him again..She said she wud tell his fam if he wont break up wit me & so he did but bcoz we really love each oder it only lasted a day..We agreed to be more careful & I made a huge adjustment..I became the martyr gf who wud remind him to deposit money for the gurl on mondays, i even offered to go wit him to buy baby stuff, I wud allow him to talk to her on his phone wyl we're together (evn on dates), I wont text him everytime the gurl visits him at the shop (family business), & on Saturdays they wud hav dinner & he wud buy her groceries..I love my ex that time & since I ddnt hav a choice, I endured the hurt I was experiencing..October, we found out that his ex has plans of telling everyone abt the baby once she gives birth..My ex decided to cut all ties wit her: communication & support..Aside from that he couldnt take his family any longer so he left & came to live wit me..For 3 months I tried to fix the problem my ex left behind: his family issues, his pregnant ex gf, all issues in his life..I became his lawyer, his bestfriend, I wud give him moral support, boost his morale & made him believe in himself again..But when all his problems were over & he returned to his family, that's when we started falling apart..He ddnt have time for me anymore, wud always hav an excuse not to see me, he became a stranger..It was 4 days before our 1st anniv when I got fed up & broke up wit him..20 days later we talked & got back together but it was totally different..Its like he was no longer the same person bcoz he wud hurt me so bad emotionally I can fell my heart getting ripped to shreds..I decided to break up wit him again after a month & did it thru text..I let all my emotions out, the hurt, my sentiments..I wanted him to know how deeply hurt I was wit what he did..5 days after we got back together again & this time it lasted for 2 months..5 days after my birthday we decided to break-up but this time for good..But the funny thing was we still love each other & we wud meet ocassionally & we still DO it though we're not in a relationship..I told him that I ddnt want to become his f*ck buddy & said that I wasnt..But that's exactly how I feel wit our situation..When I told him that I wanted to be his gf again he said he's confused so I decided to let go..There were so many times that we would both say we wont bother each other anymore but we would take it all back..I decided to let go for good last Tues but he texted me that he wanted to see me this Friday..what should I do? I know how weak I am & I know that my defenses will come flying out the window once I see him again..Why do u think he wants to see me still? Do U thinks he still loves me but he's just confused? Pls help me..Im really lost

Hi sis iam_miel

I feel for you sis *hugs. I cant categorized how much in pain you are right now but based on your story I think the best for both of you especially for YOU is to let go and this time its for good na. Its easier said than done pero thats the only way out lang sis to the miseries and hurt that you're experiencing now. It wont be easy coz it will really take time for you to be able to be at your senses again pero one thing lang talaga yung true sa lahat ng stories na ganito, IT'LL PASS sis. At this down moment isa lang yung pwede mong matakbuhan and that is God. Mag pray ka sis for guidance and enlightenment.

About naman dun sa question mo na if your ex still loves you, maybe he did but not enough love para ipaglaban ka sa lahat at sa sitwasyon nyo. Kasi sis kung talagang mahal ka nya hindi sya magiging uncertain right then and there he'l gonna say it straight to you, wala ng IF's and But's. So there sis, you've already give what you can give to him before, and nagawa mo na din yung part mo, I think its time naman na you think of your own welfare and love yourself more than him. Just let go, it wont be easy but it will save you and to not prolong your agony anymore with the situation. Goodluck sis. Kaya mo yan. Keep on praying lang, theres a reason for everything that is happening to our lives and yun nalan yung lagi mong isipin. In God's time you'll gonna find someone much better than him dont settle yourself for less. Aja!

*CuTiE* · « **Reply #14 on:** August 18, 2011, 10:38:53 am »

i guess the hardest is when you fall for your friend and he actually agreed to have a relationship with you, maybe because he's confused of what he really feels for you. but when things got clear, he realized, friends lang talaga kayo.

it hurts kasi on your end, its love. but you have to set aside the "love" just to save the friendship...

minikeyklush · « **Reply #15 on:** August 18, 2011, 11:35:34 am »

Quote from: *CuTiE* on August 18, 2011, 10:38:53 am

i guess the hardest is when you fall for your friend and he actually agreed to have a relationship with you, maybe because he's confused of what he really feels for you. but when things got clear, he realized, friends lang talaga kayo.

it hurts kasi on your end, its love. but you have to set aside the "love" just to save the friendship...

@sis *CuTiE*

this is so true. the feeling is like that person is way too special pero its improper and not the right thing to do to say how special he is. Ang sakit nun sa loob.

Dapat friendship lang ipakita mo kahit gano sya kaspecial kasi baka masira ang pinagsamahan nyo

iam_miel · « **Reply #16 on:** August 18, 2011, 11:54:31 pm »

@ sis minikeyklush

I know that I really need to let him go because Ive suffered too much because of him nung umpisa pa lang..I tell myself over & over na "mapagod ka na sa pagmamahal mo sa kanya coz he aint worth it" pero ganun pa din, I still love him despite what he did to me..I always pray & it includes asking God to take all the love back coz I dont want it anymore..I know na he's probably using me pero Im giving him the benefit of the doubt na hindi nya gagawin sa akin yun coz we both know na ako yung best sa lahat ng mga naging gf nya..Sya nga din nagsabi na kaya siguro hindi pa sya naghahanap ng kapalit ko its because he knows na wala ng gaya ko out there..Pero malay ko nga naman if he's telling the truth, super LIAR sya eh! I hate feeling this way, loving the wrong person & forgetting my own self-worth

minikeyklush · « **Reply #17 on:** August 19, 2011, 09:16:09 am »

Quote from: iam_miel on August 18, 2011, 11:54:31 pm

@ sis minikeyklush

I know that I really need to let him go because Ive suffered too much because of him nung umpisa pa lang..I tell myself over & over na "mapagod ka na sa pagmamahal mo sa kanya coz he aint worth it" pero ganun pa din, I still love him despite what he did to me..I always pray & it includes asking God to take all the love back coz I dont want it anymore..I know na he's probably using me pero Im giving him the benefit of the doubt na hindi nya gagawin sa akin yun coz we both know na ako yung best sa lahat ng mga naging gf nya..Sya nga din nagsabi na kaya siguro hindi pa sya naghahanap ng kapalit ko its because he knows na wala ng gaya ko out there..Pero malay ko nga naman if he's telling the truth, super LIAR sya eh! I hate feeling this way, loving the wrong person & forgetting my own self-worth

@sis iam_miel

forgetting someone is not something that you can do overnight sis na mawawala sya agad. you need to put an effort meaning hindi lang lahat prayers, kelangan gawin mo din yung part mo. kaya ka nahihirapan kasi until now continous pa din yung communication nyo eh. i think sis when you say you are letting go meaning to stop everything na nagbibigay ng kaugnayan sa inyo ALL means sis (communication, meet-ups, stalking on his fb or other social networking, hearing news about him) kasi its not possible talaga na makakalimutan mo sya hanggang may isang bagay pang naguugnay sa inyo. Sis letting go is really hard, pero one thing lang if you are decided na talaga and tingin mo hindi na tama you'll have to do something about it. and based naman dun sa sinasabi nya na hindi pa sya nakakahanap ng kapalit mo (supposed to be) i think it really doesnt matter na would it change a thing or would it change the situation to both of you? Ang bottomline ayaw nya pa din icommit ang sarili nya and it means one thing he's not certain sa feelings nya for you. Kaya if you have some pride pa save yourself from misery and walk away. Easier said than done but as ive said its the only way out. I hope this could help. Goodluck sis and be strong. Malaki kana and alamu na yung tama at mali, yung makakabuti sayo at hindi. Just weigh things out and try not to overanalyze kasi lalo ka lang masasaktan pag hinimay-himay mo pa. Ang isipin mo kung ano yung mabuti para sa'yo sa ngayon at pano ka makakaalis sa ganyan sitwasyon. Godbless

iamshiela · « **Reply #18 on:** August 20, 2011, 03:36:31 am »

^korek ka dyan sis! wala namang madaling paraan to move on. ako rin naman sinasabi ko rin yan sa sarili ko na im really stupid on acting like that pero wala pa rin. it's because we are getting overwhelmed by our feelings sa guy.

siguro i would suggest na gradual lang yung pag let go. sort of like this month wag mo siyang itetext then the next month wala ng stalking sa fb until you wont really think about him all the time. makikita mo sis after that you'll see yourself calling him a jerk.

khakhaganda · « **Reply #19 on:** August 23, 2011, 11:57:04 am »

mine was last year lang sa father ng baby ko...

i just gave birth lang nun and nasa hospital pa ko kasi CS operation ako habang nagpapahinga ako may tumawag sa bf ko sa cp nya and they were talking about me nung ibababa na nila yung cp i heard him saying "i love you" what the heck right in front of my face

then i asked what is that about he is so makapal ang face para sabihin sa akin na may mahal syang iba at hindi ako ang babaeng kaya nya pakasalan (after we had the baby ha)

gusto ko magwala sa galit kaya lang hindi pwede kasi baka bumuka ang tahi ko kaya wala ako nagawa kung hindi umiyak

and now eto ko single parent sa anak ko and so blessed na everyday ako napapasaya ng aking makulit na anak no regrets na nawala sya sa buhay namin and never asked din to support the kid kaya ko naman mag isa and syempre with the help of my loving family

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