^ ikaw to sis no? nagpost ka rin kasi ng how to convince your hubby for annulment.
anyway, I had an officemate na ganyan yung situation, yung hubby nya nagloko, then ngayon nagpapa-annul na sila, pero even though di pa tapos annulment may bf na sya na officemate din namin. And guess what? Most people from our office hindi masyado maganda tingin na kakahiwalay lang nya (at di pa tapos annulment) eh may bf na agad sya at very visible pa samin. Some people were advicing her to take things slowly muna.
My take on this is that you have to make things clear first, para wala ng problema. Push through the annulment, get it over with, then start having fun with your life. Mahirap naman kasi na palaging may gumugulo sa isip mo, mas okay na ayos na lahat diba? It's just like getting a new job, before you transfer to another company, magresign ka muna sa present job mo, magpaclearance ka, then you're good to go. Hope this helps even just a little bit.