Have an open mind, try it.. you just might like it.
Whatever is reasonable to you, go.
If you think it demeans you.. then, don't
Hwag mo isipin na he is turning you into his ex-kabit's xerox copy. Think of it as added information or additional preferences he picked up in his journey through life.
Eto lang ha, the more unpredictable you are... the better hold you have on your hubby, IMO.
Try to give him the illusion of your being in the category of "bawal". Sabi ng lolo ko noon in the face of my lola's volcanic anger at catching him at something again.. kasi "masarap yung bawal"
LOL , go figure.