hurting myself for the 2nd time around..need advice!!!

[sheyfashionizta]

  I broke up with my exbf 3 months ago, because of the one night stand thingy.. i caught him before that he slept with a waitress from a bar, then i decided to separate with him.. until he change his number and we dont have any communication at all so i try to heal and move on.. after a couple of months, he texted me with his new no. and call me up just to say sorry and asking fo forgiveness since im half way moving on, i tried to communicate with him again, im kinda stupid because i never noticed that im expecting again for the 2nd time around, so were texting again like before and we even have dates.. until i find myself loving him again.. until one day his gone.. he stop communicating in me again.. i wonder what happen, im stupid coz i thought and expect for another chance with us.. but i think im wrong.. it hurts even more, dapat pala iniwasan ko nalang siya mas masakit pala yung ganito.. wrong move ako! what should i do now?

[jpsv72]

move on again and change your contact number because as long a you have that number, i know that you are still hoping that he would be back again and again to you. Matuto ka sa isang pagkakamali, hwag mo ng ulit ulitin.

You will find a better one. Good luck.

[ysa.belle]

@sheyfashionizta,

tama si sis jpsv72. you should change your number nalang & if may common friends kayo, dapat alam nila na ayaw mo nalang paalam yung number mo sa kanya.

[jpsv72]

well said sis ysa, kung ayaw na talaga ng communication, putulin lahat ng access.

[aquacharly]

Cut off communication totally.  If you see him on the sidewalk -- cross the street immediately.
You have proven twice already he is very unreliable - so, there is nothing to think of but:  good riddance!!!

Find a new sport to  challenge you physically, and occupy you emotionally.  Make new friends!

Basta, do not wallow in self pity, you will lose your self esteem and get depressed.  He is not worth all that.

Basta, isipin mo suerte ka at  you didn't marry him, and that you do not have a kid with him.   

[sweety_paige]

Sis, hindi naman wrong move, at least wala kang "WHAT IF" sa buhay ngayon di ba?  Mas mahirap ata yung buong buhay mo iisipin mo kung what it pinatulan mo pa siya.

Now alam mong ganyan siya, deadmahin mo na siya forever...

[bravo86]

another example ng sinasabi ko sa ibang posts ko sa ibang topics... at di ako magsawang uulitin na...

IF YOUR BF CHEATED ON YOU ONCE, DROP HIM! ASAP!

wrong move ako! what should i do now?

simple lang ah, you should do the opposite of the "wrong move"  you've done sis.

[sheyfashionizta]

now lang ako ulit naka pag open ng forum..guess what sis.. i was totally move on now, nakalimutan ko na siya.. nung una mahirap, i erased his number tapos nung nagtext sya saken i replied to him "who u" ayun galit na galit siya sa akin then i erase him sa facebook friend's list ko, having no communication at all really helps me a lot.. and now im happy with my new boyfriend kahit long distance relationship kami, mahal na mahal niya ako, and it makes me realized na kapag may nawala sayo at hindi ka binigyan ng halaga. may darating pa pala na mas higit pa,. tnx sa mga advices sissy.. it was really appreciated.. God bless you all..

[gurlzat03]

wow sis, glad to hear that you're okay.. God will never allow bad things to happen to us.. good luck sa new lovelife mo!

[whitelady17]

nice to hear that sis, go go go!

[buchi]

Good to hear that.. =) i think tama yung mga sises natin.. hindi wrong move, mali ba ang magbigay ng chance? i'd say tama naman din yun.. pero now that you know na hindi na siya worth it.. you can really move on and forget he ever crossed your path in the past. he he as in erase erase erase! =)

[sheyfashionizta]

yeah mga sissies tama nga..erase erase erase talaga..mahirap gawin sa una need to be strong, and acceptance din, na hindi na talaga siya worth it, kapag na accept mo na and wala ng expectation magagawa mo na talaga lahat ng bagay para makalimutan lahat. dati iniiyakan ko pa.. now tinatawanan ko na lang..  and i learned how to be cautious to where i give my heart too.. im happy now.. kasi inaalagaan niya ako and guess what long distance pa ah pero mafefeel mo talaga [textspeak!] love and care.. im so happy sobra..

[lualhati]

girl, give time for yourself muna. Try to deal with your own ghosts ( that is your mind ) because I know ang daming salita sa isip mo na nag-aappear, believe me sasakit ang ulo mo. Try to calm down and relax for a bit. Pause ka muna for having a relationship, and try to bring back the pieces of yourself that you've given in that relationship you had before

[soulace]

sana makamove on ka na sis.. ako din gusto ko na magmove on.. hay hirap ng womanizer ang karelasyon sakit sa ulo. pero bakit sa iba deadma ln.. ok lang sa kanila na pinagsasabay sila... di wede yun..

[lovely_chic]

I hate this kind of men.. You better move on sis and stop communicating with him. He's not worth it and you deserve someone better. Just pray.

[iamgold]

sis just pray hard. i've been in that situation also..alam mo yun yung parang kusang tumutulo luha mo yung di mo mapigil, yung parang literal na may mabigat sa dibdib. ako nun pinagdadasal ko kay Lord na Lord kung di mo na sya ibabalik sa kin tulungan m nalang ako na kayanin ko [textspeak!] sakit, tulungan mo nalang ako to walk away.alam mo sis naalala ko nung sobrang problemado ako nun nag eeye shadow ako ng medyo grey tas nag eeye liner ako then mascara na hindi water proof..para may reason ako to hold back my tears sa hospital kase ko nagtatrabaho before..alam mo ending sis, binalik siya ni Lord sa kin. I will pray for you sis