Author Topic: the end for the both of us :( (Read 2294 times)

qwrty88 · « **on:** February 28, 2011, 04:02:35 pm »

though we've been only together for a short period of time. iba sya sa lahat. iba yung pinagsamahan na naten within that short span of time. though we've known each other for 4 years. Alam ko mahal nya ako, ramdam ko yun. Mahal nya family ko and so my family loves him too.

then just suddenly, bumalik ex nya saying na she's 5 months pregnant sa bf ko. nalaman ko lang yun january 21. tinago nya sken for about 3 weeks kase ayaw nyang iwanan ko sya. and he still wanted to prove kung sknya ba yung bata. he knew it even from the start na i can never accept him kapag my ganung nangyre.

and that was my initial reaction. nkipaghiwalay na ko. pero nung nakausap ko ulit sya, nakita ko yung itsura nya, awang awa ako. bumagsak katawan nya, halatang dinibdib yung mga ngyre. di ko natiis. i still accepted him. ganun pala talaga pag mahal mo. we have to accept them for what they are and for what they are not.

sabe nya kase yung bata lang ang pananagutan nya. di daw sya mgpapakasal kahit anung mngyre. but it happened the other way around. he was forced to marry that girl, though he was standing by his tough decision na di sya mgpapakasal. nasukol sya sa bahay ng ex nya. 4 lang cla nun, tas buong angkan ng ex nya andun. may pulis pa.

sinabe din na haharangin sya sa POEA pg hndi pmyag. walang syang ngwa kundi pmyag na lang kahit labag sa loob nya.

their civil wedding was performed last january28, a month now.
di nya na mahal yung asawa nya. lahat ng friends, cousins and even parents and brother nya yun ang cnsbe sken. kaya lang wala na kameng mggwa. he's now in UAE since february5, week after the wedding. laging ako pa rin ang tntwagan nya. tineteks. iniiwasan ko na pero di ko magawa ng no communication agad. hirap kase mahal ko eh.

kung sana pumayag ang parents ko na magpakasal na kame last dec. sana walang gnitong problema. kame pa rin sana. dame nameng plano i was about to go in UAE rin next month kung walang ganitong nangyre. but things changed. it changed for just a matter of second.

ngayon eto ako, am really trying hard to get over him. mahirap, masakit but i must accept the fact na this is the start of our end.

bravo86 · « **Reply #1 on:** March 03, 2011, 01:38:46 am »

kalungkot naman. [textspeak!] [textspeak!] [textspeak!]

sali ka sa mga single ladies dito sis. may outing sila sa Baguio next week. PM mo si Chuvaeklavu ano ang details.
volunteer nga sana ako as kargador-sekyu eh.

gurlzat03 · « **Reply #2 on:** March 03, 2011, 02:40:59 pm »

hugz sis... i know how hard it is to avoid having a communication with the person that you love. isipin mo na lang na things happen for a reason... you're right, sobrang hirap sa ngayon na i-accept ang statement na yan kasi fresh pa lahat sa 'yo ang nangyari. pero in time, we will know why things happened. give yourself time to grieve sis, the more kasi na nilabanan mo agad ang sadness, the more na magiging matagal for you ang healing process.. talk to God through prayers, 'yan ang ginagawa ko for the past few months and I find it effective. kaya mo yan sis, and I know when the right time comes, you'll be much happier. remember that time heals all wounds... yes, there are times na you will still remember ang mga happy moments nyo, i-cherish mo lang 'yun. don't do something na sa tingin mo sa huli eh pagsisisihan mo lang din. Share ko lang ang line sa movie na Eat, Pray & Love: " If you feel like loving him, then love him. If you feel like missing him, then miss him. Then DROP IT ALL OFF... "
Good luck sis!

aquacharly · « **Reply #3 on:** March 03, 2011, 02:51:07 pm »

Good he is far off or else, full-fledged kabit ka na by now malamang.
Kasi you always fall back sa tiklop na tiklop na tiklop na reason/excuse: "mahal ko kasi eh"

Sya naman, tiklop na tiklop na tiklop na statement: hindi ko sya mahal, napwersa lang ako pakasalan sya. another 1: akin ba talaga ang bata? yeah right.

Count your blessings... you are not the woman who got pregnant and is now married to him. Can you imagine the hell she put herself in? Getting trapped in a marriage with an uncertain or lying man? Susko, purgatorya na hindi pa patay!

kaye27 · « **Reply #4 on:** March 03, 2011, 03:23:16 pm »

sis mas kawawa yung girl na pinakasalan nya kesa sayo.. atleast ikaw you still have your freedom at makakahanap kapa ng taong magmamahal sayo at magiging sayo ng buong buo.. pray for god's guidance sis.

auane · « **Reply #5 on:** March 04, 2011, 11:15:49 pm »

may shot gun wedding pa pala nangyayari ngayon..pero alam ko sis, puwede yang grounds for annulment, paki-check na lang sis.

jpsv72 · « **Reply #6 on:** March 06, 2011, 11:56:12 pm »

sis, i know how hard to be in that kind of situation but you have to let him go or else magiging kabit ka nga gaya ng sabi ni sis aquacharly, plan your next step, there were a lot of fish in the ocean much better than your ex.
Next step? change your number (sim card) para dika na nya ma [textspeak!].
then plan for the next one.
good luck

qwrty88 · « **Reply #7 on:** March 07, 2011, 09:14:06 pm »

hey mga sissies! thanks for those encouraging words. I know naman na everything happens for a reason. God is still writing the best love story for me.

Sobrang ginugulo ako ng babaeng yun ska ng friends nya. wala naman silang proof na may communication pa kame ni EX. pinagpipilitan pang kabet daw ako. kesyo kating kati daw ako sa asawa nya. naku! They even sent an email kay papa ko saying na nagpalaki daw sila ng kabit. what the heck!

sugurin ko na ba mga sissies?

StrawberryJammy · « **Reply #8 on:** March 08, 2011, 12:22:56 am »

nakakatawa naman sya, ikaw pa yung kabit eh sya tong pumasok sa eksena. bastos naman nya.

wag mong sugurin, don't stoop down her level. she's an insecure psycho b!tch.

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #9 on:** March 08, 2011, 12:49:11 am »

Quote from: qwrty88 on March 07, 2011, 09:14:06 pm

hey mga sissies! thanks for those encouraging words. I know naman na everything happens for a reason. God is still writing the best love story for me.

Sobrang ginugulo ako ng babaeng yun ska ng friends nya. wala naman silang proof na may communication pa kame ni EX. pinagpipilitan pang kabet daw ako. kesyo kating kati daw ako sa asawa nya. naku! They even sent an email kay papa ko saying na nagpalaki daw sila ng kabit. what the heck!

sugurin ko na ba mga sissies?

wag mo sugurin. may pinag aralan ka sis.. hayaan mo sila

2nd change your number asap. para d ka guluhin

kung ginugulo ka sa FB.. iprivate mo.. or better yet block hahaha

daria · « **Reply #10 on:** March 08, 2011, 12:51:50 pm »

pareho pala silang mag-asawa. magpasalamat ka talaga at wala ka na sa mga kamay nila.
buy one take one na yang mag-asawa na yan. just remember that whenever you feel like taking him back to your life.

jpsv72 · « **Reply #11 on:** March 08, 2011, 03:38:53 pm »

sis, hwag mo nalang patulan, kung buntis nga sya hormonal imbalances nya yun siguro nga di sya pinapansin nung asawa kaya ikaw ang ginugulo so yun lang naka ganti kana.

pabayaan mo nalang, at change your number at hwag mo na entertain yung calls nungex mo para wala ng proof na may communication pa kayo magsasawa din yan.

good luck

WONDERGURL · « **Reply #12 on:** March 09, 2011, 09:05:51 am »

Lungkot naman sis. Hirap talaga kapag mahal mo isang tao.

Keep on praying sis, if talagang para kayo sa isat-isa, ibibigay sa'yo yan ni God.

bravo86 · « **Reply #13 on:** March 10, 2011, 03:14:46 am »

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sugurin ko na ba mga sissies?

wag sis. ipaubaya mo na lang sa akin.
ano ba FB account nya? wala pa akong fwendz sa new dummy FB account ko eh

i feel like i wanna celebrate April Fools' Day two weeks earlier.

chaichikay · « **Reply #14 on:** March 10, 2011, 03:55:14 pm »

Quote from: qwrty88 on March 07, 2011, 09:14:06 pm

Sobrang ginugulo ako ng babaeng yun ska ng friends nya. wala naman silang proof na may communication pa kame ni EX. pinagpipilitan pang kabet daw ako. kesyo kating kati daw ako sa asawa nya. naku! They even sent an email kay papa ko saying na nagpalaki daw sila ng kabit. what the heck!

sugurin ko na ba mga sissies?

ang kapal naman nya sis! in the first place sya ang nang-agaw and namikot! grrrr. pero tama ibang mga sis dito, don't stoop down her level. kebs lang, wala ka naman ginagawang masama eh.

aquacharly · « **Reply #15 on:** March 13, 2011, 09:17:36 am »

Hwag mo sugurin... she is living a life in hell already, buhay na buhay pa naman sya! lol
told ya so! Life with an uncertain or philandering husband is a life in hell.
Sabi ko na nga sa yo... you are lucky you are not that man's wife.

Eto nga pala, there is no such thing as just having someone blocked from leaving for abroad.
Kung yan ang sabi nang ex BF mo, pwes madali pala sya takutin or he was outright lying to you.
To have someone blocked from leaving (HOLD DEPARTURE ORDER), Immigration must receive a court order or an order from the DOJ... at kelangan, may filed case na or what they deem as "sufficient grounds that make (someone) a probable flight risk".
Maniwala ka, hindi ganon ka dali magpa hold departure order kahit na ba buong Police force ang mag request... baka sila pa magkaron ng caso.

hAy, another Story-Telling Lie of philanders or cheating BFs:
"napikot ako! kasi pa hold departure daw ako!" (t@nge! buti pa sabihin mo kasi papatayin ka)

Eto lang alam ko mula nang hindi na ko anga-anga:
Even if his brains say otherwise/No/walk away; as long as his d1ck is willing... pwes, the man is willing... ang sabihin napilitan, nawala sa malay dahil sa kalasingan, sa kaland1an nung girl, etc.. is a lotta BS/bullsh1t.
Maniwala pa ko kung sabihin na lang nya: lapse of judgment.... yan telling the truth! lol

jpsv72 · « **Reply #16 on:** March 14, 2011, 08:40:56 pm »

Quote from: aquacharly on March 13, 2011, 09:17:36 am

Hwag mo sugurin... she is living a life in hell already, buhay na buhay pa naman sya! lol
told ya so! Life with an uncertain or philandering husband is a life in hell.
Sabi ko na nga sa yo... you are lucky you are not that man's wife.

Eto nga pala, there is no such thing as just having someone blocked from leaving for abroad.
Kung yan ang sabi nang ex BF mo, pwes madali pala sya takutin or he was outright lying to you.
To have someone blocked from leaving (HOLD DEPARTURE ORDER), Immigration must receive a court order or an order from the DOJ... at kelangan, may filed case na or what they deem as "sufficient grounds that make (someone) a probable flight risk".
Maniwala ka, hindi ganon ka dali magpa hold departure order kahit na ba buong Police force ang mag request... baka sila pa magkaron ng caso.

hAy, another Story-Telling Lie of philanders or cheating BFs:
"napikot ako! kasi pa hold departure daw ako!" (t@nge! buti pa sabihin mo kasi papatayin ka)

Eto lang alam ko mula nang hindi na ko anga-anga:
Even if his brains say otherwise/No/walk away; as long as his d1ck is willing... pwes, the man is willing... ang sabihin napilitan, nawala sa malay dahil sa kalasingan, sa kaland1an nung girl, etc.. is a lotta BS/bullsh1t.
Maniwala pa ko kung sabihin na lang nya: lapse of judgment.... yan telling the truth! lol

Agree!!!

it_girl · « **Reply #17 on:** December 11, 2011, 09:09:08 pm »

sis ikaw ba ako? parehong pareho tayo ng story. even yung UAE na dapat sasama nako sakanya. hindi pala ako nag iisa huhuhu

Superjoie · « **Reply #18 on:** December 15, 2011, 04:19:25 pm »

Quote from: auane on March 04, 2011, 11:15:49 pm

may shot gun wedding pa pala nangyayari ngayon..pero alam ko sis, puwede yang grounds for annulment, paki-check na lang sis.

yeah definitely pwedeng ipannul yan, what i remember prescription period is 4 years. pag di pa yan pina annul agad ng ex mo.. tuluyan na syang mabibilanggo dun sa girl. Kaya ipa annul nia na kamo hangang mas maaga, mas malakas ang laban sa court.

k_heart · « **Reply #19 on:** December 15, 2011, 10:50:25 pm »

Hmm, shotgun wedding? Uso pa ba yun? Naku, ang mga lalakeng g**o, iisa lang lagi ang alibi or excuse lagi, na pinilit lang sila magpakasal.
Nung ginagawa ba nila ang baby ay napilitan lang din sya.Me thinks,the guy is lying.
Di raw mahal ang asawa pero binubuntis. Hay! Mga walang kwentang lalaki, mga wala pang balls. Dapat lang talaga nyang panagutan. At swerte mo sis, di kayo nagkatuluyan.
Hay naku,wag ka ng magpabola uli, kung di nya talaga gusto yung girl, wala dapat nangyari sa kanila.

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Author Topic: the end for the both of us :( (Read 2294 times)