The One that Got Away -> just wanna share this article =)

[hot_chili]

haaaaayyyy. sobrang relate na relate. I also have "the one that got away"
-we met and had a relationship 1st year college, I had to change school so we broke up and lost communication
-after graduating he found me on friendster and nanligaw sya ulit (FS pa ang uso noon  but I had a boyfriend. Naging M.u kami when my bf and I broke up
-fast forward 10 years later we found each other on facebook and a common friend gave my number to him, hes still telling me he missed me and hes still single. But im in a relationship again.

He got away twice, and I really liked him kasi gwapo na super bait pa. But the timing is always wrong. Ang weird lang kasi bakit we always seem to find each other 

[yang]

in a lifetime you would somehow meet the one that got away.
we met, im already engaged.

[jhenpretty]

Para sa akin, the one that got away was not the right one for me. Kung mahal niya siguro ako malamang he do something to fight for the love he feels for me. Lalo na kung he didn't even do something to win me back. Yun na talaga ang sagot dun, hindi siya nararapat for me.  Everything just happens for a reason. Kaya kung naghiwalay kami, tapos na yun and I am happy where I am right now.. God is always good. Pero dun sa nagtatanong pa din kung "what if?" magandang gumawa na ng way bago mahuli ang lahat. Dahil kung hindi baka matanda na tayo hindi pa din natin nasasagot yung tanong na "what if?"... ^_^

[madhez]

it's like the song "What if by Babyface" .. I do have "The One That Got Away" din. He's engaged pero kahit naman hindi siya engaged di na din pwede kasi opposite character kami, lagi kaming nag-aaway sa kahit na maliit na bagay. So better na wag na lang.

May bf na din ako and sana wag na sya dumagdag pa para hindi naman ako, The Two That Got Away.   

[theshopaholicprincess]

I always believe if "someone" got away then its not meant to be... I'm not the type din who's pining away for a lost love. I always believe that things happen for a reason and it is.

BUT...

I used to think noon na I always have something special for my bestfriend. He was my shoulder to cry on during college days pero syempre we didn't end up together nor start any loving relationship. It's just a deepest friendship I had with a guy friend.

Now, thankful na rin ako how things turn out. He's married and I'm married. Malamang hindi nga rin mag wwork out kung naging kami ng bestfriend ko kasi I found someone better than him. Someone who I knew would be there for me and who treats me like a queen. Someone who is more capable of providing my emotional needs and love me for who I am. 

[momentum]

meron din ako nito

I kept all of his love letters from high school up to the last letter he sent before he stopped writing me and when we discovered using emails

he really loved me. I just saw it as a puppy love before. maybe coz I was infatuated with someone else.
So sad that I ended up with the wrong guy. and he burned all of my letters to him when he found out I got married na 

I still see him around once in a while. but we no longer talk to each other. just say hi and hello.
I guess I really hurt him so bad  hay..regrets..

[iwannabeasupermodel]

super relate. hayy.

to my the one that got away based on this definition:
yes. not the right time. maybe next year? hahaha. if we're still both available, both more mature, both ready, both sure and certain, and wala ng baggage/past hovering around, maybe we can give it another shot. 
i'm happy with what we've settled for. i'm glad we're still friends. i will actually not feel hurt in the event you'll be with someone else, kasi i know it's not yet the right time for us. so let's be happy, go out and meet more people, paint the town red and all those s***. if we go for it ngayon, we might end up being hurt kasi, i dont want that for us.
actually with you, i believe that if we're really meant to be together, we will be together. i never knew what that means until now. so i'm happy and ready to let you go, kasi if you're really meant for me, you'll come back to me. if not, all's good as well. 



meron akong ibang "the one that got away", sa kanya ko dinededicate talaga yung kantang yun. first time i heard this song siya talaga ang iniisip ko. sa kanya ko rin dinededicate yung "landslide" by stevie nicks. gradeschool/highschool sweetheart. i've literally built my world around him. sobrang hirap i-let go. sobrang bitter ko. pero ayun. i want to move on na rin. ang hirap kasi na lagi na lang may kirot sa puso pag naiisip ko siya. when i let it go, parang naging ok na din. 


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[Chinito]

regrets is what we only have in the end..ganon talaga. but don't be so sad we just need to realize that god is still writing the best love story for us that will turn our world upside down. he said, not done yet! wait lang..

[loverofsummer]

Hits right to the heart.

[kawen]

I am thinking of just letting him go again.. a year ago I was so inspired to write about how we got back together, after 5 years of not seeing and talking to each other.. The thing is I am just so disappointed in him.. I thought all those 5 years he will be ready, he will be a man that any woman would dream of.. but he just can't live up to my expectations.. now I am just full of regrets, I did everythig I can to motivate and help him.. so now I am wishing he just never came back.. But I know in my heart he really is the one for me..

[momentum]

^ aww sis I know it is frustrating..but come to think of it, if you didn't try, you would never know, diba? you would always be thinking at the back of your mind yung mga what-ifs..it's good narin that you know you tried everything but it didn't work out, rather than wishing all your life you could have tried again and given another chance to cross paths with him.

buti nga ikaw sis, nabigyan ng second chance..at least wala ka ng "what might have been" (if so)
ako wala na ata talaga, I really lost him for good


You can shed tears they they are gone, or you can smile because they lived. You can close your eyes and pray that they come back to you,Or you can open your eyes and see all they left behind, Your heart can be empty because you cant see them, or  you can be full of  the love that they shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live in yesterday, or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. You can remember them and only that they are gone, or you can cherish the memories and let them live on. You can cry and close your mind be empty and turn your back on the those who love you and want to help you get through your grief, Or you can do what the loved one you lost would want you to do....SMILE open your eyes, Love and go on...

[miSlovESka]

"The one that got away" this time ako na,

Nakipag break ako sa high school bf ko kasi my parents want me to focus on college studies, he then studied in manila & me I studied in the province! No communication after 5 years we met again, this time todo ligaw siya! Single at that time & I really like him kaya sinagot ko din agad, after 6 months naming mag on I've learned na me naanakan pala siya sa Manila, though di sila married! Ang galing niya magtago ng secret, it took so long and he even told me that he was just waiting for the perfect time to tell it to me! I'd still love him though, but sobrang disappointed I have to broke up with him! Part of me just hates him so much!

I'm happy now with my fiance, and as for him, he's still single and always wanting me to come back to him!

[kawen]

Hi sis momentum... kamusta ka naman?

OT:
Tama ka dun.. Well, it's not actually over.. he's going through a phase right now, pero I felt like I was left hanging, ewan ko ba.. I don't know if I should still hold on to it..

[momentum]

@ sis kawen

pray nalang sis that time will reveal everything..talagang we can't rush love noh? hirap kasi minsan, atat tayo, tuloy wrong timing ang nagyayari, happens to me too. if you feel sis na taken for granted ka na or you don't feel you're special to him..then maybe think twice na sis, mahirap to be taken for granted..mahirap yung ikaw lang umaasa at nagiintay parati na maging "ready" siya..we can't settle for less..diba dapat after ng past relationship natin we're looking forward sa mas okay and mas best na future, kumbaga, "upgrading" our standards..hay kahit mahirap, we know naman what we deserve

[momentum]

OMG!!!

A highschool ex bf (puppy love lang b4) has been communicating with me from time to time,,tagal na namin di nagkikita..years na..hindi kasi magkatugma scheds namin tsaka i just got separated from ex hubs..and this morning nagkataon na morning shift siya, he wanted na sabay na kami sumakay ng bus..same area lang kasi kami.

then this morning, as in now, chinachat niya ako...OMG lumalabas na mga nararamdaman niya..ito sis mga sinabi niya sakin:

him : kanina..i was playing odds
me: what do you mean?
him: What are the odds that you and me will meet under the circumstances kanina? (sa bus)
me: haha kaya nga eh...feeling ko baka destiny if ever
him: destiny na di talaga tayo?
me: sira! hehe destiny kung same bus nasakyan ko as yours
him: ah ok hehe..pero alam mo yun, Yung mga what if game na naman..tsktsk
me: I know what you mean (i think)
him: yeah..I think I know that you know (big smile)
me: hehe teka mahirap magread-between-the lines  mamaya magkamali hehe. teka, may gusto ka pa ba sakin?? LOL hehe
him:In a way yes I still like you. and from time to time...naiisip ko, what if..What if you didn't go to places na malayo sa manila..What if 2007 was different
me:
him: im sorry, ganun talaga ako. hehe. labo ko ba?
me: hindi no..minsan naiisip ko din yun. i guess normal lang na magka-what-ifs kapag something didn't turn out the way ewe thought it would be
him: yeah..Alala mo nung nagmeet tayo ulit after a long time..sa ___(place. ito yung may anak na ako and going bad na relo namin ni ex hubs, nagkataon na may time ako to reunite with him)..I said nun (as in nuon..2007 single pa ako), I was ready to give you the world.. Haha ang yabang ..Pero you weren't ready that time..
me: (shocked) teka, yun ba yung nuon na sinabi mo sakin? as in nuon nuon 2007?
him: Yeah noon noon  ...ay wait, 2007 , Magulo yun kasi  si __(name of the person na sinabi ko dito that got away, yung sinunog letters ko) was in the picture rin..And you don't know what to do with the situation
me:  oo magulo nga yun. laging magulo buhay ko
him: Nung ngmeet tayo ulit, you're married na
me: if pwede lang talaga hindi maalala yung past..
him: im sorry..i am digging the past
me: no it's okay. ako dapat magsorry..i was stupid and immature
him : There's always something lingering tlaga sa mga first    Sentimental ako eh haha
me: yeah..parehas naman tayong sentimental.. "first" hahhaa di naman ako first mo noh! LOL
him : first kiss hehe



I guess ako yung "the one that got away" niya

talagang wrong timing kasi siya parati pagdating sa akin..lagi silang sabay kung magparamdam ni "the one that got away" ko, na naguguluhan ako, kasi i was immature pa and young, didn't know how to handle the situation....until now nga e..di parin kami makareunite to get together and catch up..


sorry napahaba, just wanted to share

[pt_2000mf]

kakarelate ako dito... pero still I know someday he will be the one who will said this.... 

[kawen]

^^ oh shucks sis... grabe... hehe..

Why wrong timing? kung wala na naman kayo ni ex-hubs..? Are you dating someone?
Let's discuss nalang dun sa thread ko on single moms.. hehe...

[momentum]

^ sige kita nalang tayo dun sa single mom's thread hehe

no, di pa ako ready mag-date..tsaka yung mga may interest sakin eh mga taken na bwisit nga eh.