Author Topic: The One that Got Away -> just wanna share this article =) (Read 9982 times)

douxmadchen · « **Reply #40 on:** April 01, 2011, 10:50:07 am »

^ oo nga. i'm sure God has a reason for all these. let's believe na wala talaga si the one that got away, or if he/she exists, she/he only got a way... for a while and that when the perfect timing has come, he/she will be back.

minikeyklush · « **Reply #41 on:** April 01, 2011, 11:02:53 am »

@sis douxmadchen and realmofdreamer, do you want to have a copy of that book? yung confessions of an impatient bride? nakakainspired yun sis hehe eto yung nasa cover nya sa back:

BOOK DOWN!
In this delightful, girl-to-girl, let-your-hair-down book, Rissa Singson-Kawpeng
shares her funny, tear-jerking or sometimes downright embarrassing
experiences as a woman finding her place in this world.
Taken from her column “Just Breathe” that appears in Kerygma, the
country’s no. 1 selling inspirational magazine, this paperback chronicles
her struggles and victories as a single woman in pursuit of her calling in the
Lord and, later, how God fulfilled His many promises regarding marriage and
having a family.
Through her stories and godly insights, learn how you can:
Nurture your soul with God’s Word • and discover His grace at work in
your circumstances
• Eliminate your worries and enjoy life where you are — right here, right
now
• Enjoy your single life to the hilt while waiting for Mr. Right to take you
to the altar
• Overcome your trials and sorrows with the strength of God
• Stay happy even when life isn’t going according to your plan
• Discover God’s presence in the mundane and the ordinary
• And many more life-changing lessons!

ayan kung gusto nyo sis i have a pdf copy you can pm me your email ill send it you now. Thanks!

aja! mga sisses! hehe

realmofadreamer · « **Reply #42 on:** April 01, 2011, 11:32:45 am »

^thanks sa offer sis. meron na yata ako copy check ko muna. will let you know kung wala

Quote from: douxmadchen on April 01, 2011, 10:50:07 am

if he/she exists, she/he only got a way... for a while and that when the perfect timing has come, he/she will be back.

parang gusto ko tuloy umiyak dito. this is exactly how I feel. i even have to constantly convince myself na niloloko ko lang sarili ko, na hindi totoo yung nararamdaman ko.

kneekee · « **Reply #43 on:** April 01, 2011, 02:18:11 pm »

Like! =)

craziestqueenever · « **Reply #44 on:** April 02, 2011, 02:40:56 pm »

Super Like it Sis!

I can probably say ganito ang situation ko ngayon at sa crush ko...
Andyan na sa kanya ang Hinanahanp ko kaya lang may gf siya...

minikeyklush · « **Reply #45 on:** April 02, 2011, 05:10:59 pm »

Quote from: craziestqueenever on April 02, 2011, 02:40:56 pm

Super Like it Sis!

I can probably say ganito ang situation ko ngayon at sa crush ko...
Andyan na sa kanya ang Hinanahanp ko kaya lang may gf siya...

hi sis craziestqueenever, mahirap yan hehe, pero since alam mo na ang situation well wala ka ng magagawa kundi tanggapin na ganun lang talaga un.. madami pa dyang iba sis, makakahanap ka din.. hehe you just need to open your heart and yourself to anyone, and also pray a lot to God to give you serenity for the things you cannot change. Aja sis! hehe

kawen · « **Reply #46 on:** June 20, 2011, 01:32:56 pm »

Sorry if I have to write this, na inspire lang ako., after reading the article.. grabe siguro in an hour nasulat ko 'to.. as in nagflow lang lahat ng words.. Thank you so much for sharing this... Here's my write up..

I think life has a funny way of making us realize things. You know me, I’m so much attached into finding my one great love. I was always this dreamy, romantic and passionate when it comes to the things I want to achieve in life. People would always see me so happy (in love at all times) but deep inside I have a tendency to explode and fall apart but that didn’t stop me from living a better life.

Yes, in that search for great love I was in the worst relationships I could ever be. Luckily, I was able to move on and it brought me to where I am now. Stronger and more independent when it comes to men BUT I have a weakness, it’s when I fall in love ‘again’. It can wreck havoc in my senses, it can drive me away from my priorities and bring me down and destroy the wall I build for myself.

The one that got away - I actually let him go. Because of my immature way of life, I hurt the person who mean a lot to me. I would think about him even when I’m in relationships. He loved me so much that I got tired of it... he’s soo good to me that I can’t stand it. If it’s my fault, he tells me he’s sorry... He’ll do just everything for me. I got bored. Unfortunately, I needed someone more in control, bad ass and someone who can boss around and be dominant.

So in the midst of living my life in the single world, I thought of all these. I manage to build my career, be happy with myself not thinking of LOVE or being in a relationship. I know I am ready to commit someday and in the back of my mind, I thought of him. I have been very grateful for everything, especially having my son... Maybe now what’s missing is someone who I can spend the rest of my life with and someone who’ll love my son as his.

To the one that almost got away and came back – Many times I thought of you and in those times I tried to reach out but you shut me off. For years, I carried this guilt of hurting you and wished you are okay. And if there’s one guy I’ll fall in love with over and over again, it’s you. If only I can tell you how much I love you every day until you forget all the things that hurt, I would in a heartbeat.

Sometime last year, you had a girlfriend and it broke my heart. I wish I could steal you away.. but I was also scared that I might hurt you again.. and I wanted to be happy for you and so I let you go.

Sometime this year, we talked again.. I was worried that you got married already.. Somehow the couple of months of silence helped me to move on. I asked how you were and you told me the relationship didn’t work, I smiled, breathe. It made me think but after that I seized every moment I have - to be with you.

So here I am now, falling in love with you again.

By: Kawen
2:00pm 6/20/2011

whitelady17 · « **Reply #47 on:** July 15, 2011, 01:24:37 pm »

Quote from: kawen on June 20, 2011, 01:32:56 pm

Sorry if I have to write this, na inspire lang ako., after reading the article.. grabe siguro in an hour nasulat ko 'to.. as in nagflow lang lahat ng words.. Thank you so much for sharing this... Here's my write up..

.......So here I am now, falling in love with you again.

By: Kawen
2:00pm 6/20/2011

Sis, ano naging ending? Naging kayo ba ulit?

kawen · « **Reply #48 on:** July 16, 2011, 02:16:07 am »

^Hehe yes sis we're back together.. sana ito na...

whitelady17 · « **Reply #49 on:** July 18, 2011, 12:46:29 pm »

Quote from: kawen on July 16, 2011, 02:16:07 am

^Hehe yes sis we're back together.. sana ito na...

yeehaw! nice one sis, huwag mo ng pakawalan pa

fernn88 · « **Reply #50 on:** July 21, 2011, 01:25:24 am »

hahaha..

naalala ko tuloy.. yung "the one that got away" ko.. naging sila nung bestfriend ko.. malaman laman ko "the one that got away" din pala nia ako.. kaso nga... ayun.. ndi na pwede.. though wala na sila ng bestfriend ko, offlimits ang mga ex eh.. e alam ko love parin yun ng bestfriend ko.. =(

BacMook · « **Reply #51 on:** July 27, 2011, 11:51:00 am »

Aaaawe. Congrats, sis Kawen! Nakakatuwa naman malaman yang story mo. I hope happy ending na yan for the both of you, coz if not, well, maybe it's not yet the ending.

Naku ayoko magkaron ng ganito

Ayoko magkaron ng WHAT IFs. I remember this line tuloy:

"‘What’ and ‘if’ are two words as non threatening as words can be. But put them together, side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life." – Letters to Juliet

whitelady17 · « **Reply #52 on:** July 27, 2011, 02:44:13 pm »

oo nga eh sis Bacmook, mahirap ang what if, well doon naman sa mga naging ex ko, ang iba doon na okay pa rin kami at ang mga muntik na maging kami, before tinanong ko rin sa kanila eh, kung what happend bakit hindi natuloy, or anong nangyari bakit nab break. Anyways thankful rin ako, dahil hindi natuloy ang iba, at nag break naman kasi nakita ko na ang "the one" for me, si Pogs, kung in a relationship ako before, kahit single pa siya hindi siya mag pupursue sa akin.

May isa or dalawa pala akong nakausap na nanghihinayang hehe ako daw ang the one that got away, pinagpalit ba naman nila ako eh, ayan puro na sila regret (yabang) lol

BacMook · « **Reply #53 on:** July 27, 2011, 07:43:36 pm »

^ Wow sis

Ikaw na! You already!

But seriously, natutuwa talaga akong malaman na may mga taong happily in love.

IDK, maybe because I'm hoping for it, I mean for the right time and right person to come. That someday, I will fall in love again and be loved in return. That there'll come a time na I will be experiencing those things na napapanuod ko lang sa movies. Hopeless romantic, eh? LOL.

Minsan kahit sa FB nga lang eh, may may makita lang akong "Bla bla from being single into in a relationship" it puts smile na on my lips. Hehe. Parang di ko alam kung naging mababaw ba ako or what simula nung nagkahiwalay kami ng recent bf ko. Or siguro naging appreciative lang ako. Waley lang, it just feels good lang kasi to see people who are very much in love. I find them inspiring eh.

kawen · « **Reply #54 on:** July 28, 2011, 01:11:15 am »

Quote from: BacMook on July 27, 2011, 11:51:00 am

Aaaawe. Congrats, sis Kawen! Nakakatuwa naman malaman yang story mo. I hope happy ending na yan for the both of you, coz if not, well, maybe it's not yet the ending.

Naku ayoko magkaron ng ganito Ayoko magkaron ng WHAT IFs. I remember this line tuloy:

"‘What’ and ‘if’ are two words as non threatening as words can be. But put them together, side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life." – Letters to Juliet

Thank you sis.. Sarap ng feeling that there's someone who completes you even in an imperfect way.. ang matatawag mo na better half... my peace of mind in this crazy world.. hehe.. Actually we're working out our relationship pa and I know mahirap magplan ahead but we really can't wait to finally be together, sa ngayon we're focused on our career and dreams together, helping each other..

I love that movie.. and the quote pretty much speaks of the idea of the ONE THAT GOT AWAY.

And to add, Law of Attraction (other thread I shared) worked for me.. kaya siguro I was meant to find him again.. grabe 'yong story namin...

BacMook · « **Reply #55 on:** July 28, 2011, 12:12:31 pm »

^ I love that movie, too!

Yep sis, I find you and your story very inspiring

All the best for you, sister!

hot@pink · « **Reply #56 on:** July 29, 2011, 05:50:12 pm »

hi.. pa join po..

minikeyklush · « **Reply #57 on:** August 13, 2011, 09:08:17 pm »

Hi mga sis i just wanna share lang

ive got the chance to watch the Maalaala Mo Kaya (MMK) episode today (kim chiu and edgar allan guzman) i think isa yun sa mga best sample for this article. Sa lahat talaga ng bagay its really important to have the right timing. =)

katthee · « **Reply #58 on:** August 14, 2011, 09:02:26 am »

Naiyak akosa MMK episode ni Kim Chiu.Best example of "The One that Got Away"..minsan talaga kasi kelangan mag-risk..We'll never know if they are the one for us if we won't try

minikeyklush · « **Reply #59 on:** August 14, 2011, 09:46:18 am »

Quote from: katthee on August 14, 2011, 09:02:26 am

Naiyak akosa MMK episode ni Kim Chiu.Best example of "The One that Got Away"..minsan talaga kasi kelangan mag-risk..We'll never know if they are the one for us if we won't try

@sis katthee

yep best example talaga yun. Especially nung last part na nagnanarrate na si Tita Charo bout sa sinabi ng letter sender na until now naiisip pa din nya yung guy. Siguro kasi bitin yung story nila talaga. Pero siguro nga its really not meant to be kasi nung ready na sya to take risk its too late na. Taking risk is giving yourself a lot guts para gawin yung bagay na either labag sa principle mo in life or you're afraid to fail again in anything. Yun nga lang ang sad part dun sa hesitation naten gumawa ng risk we end of up letting go the people we love at one time.

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Author Topic: The One that Got Away -> just wanna share this article =) (Read 9982 times)