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Making someone fall in love
« on: January 20, 2011, 06:36:27 PM »
I'm running out of ideas. I know when it comes to love it takes time. How can I make my girl fall in love with me?

How did your current bf or ex knock you off your feet?

She said I just need to be me. I'm being me.

Patience is a virtue I know pero ano pa kaya pwede kong gawin?

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #1 on: January 20, 2011, 07:44:30 PM »
hrmmm.
Try to disappear for a couple of days.  If she reaches out to you that might be your chance.  If she doesnt then youll have to either give up or try another game plan to win her heart.

You might be overwhelming her with too much affection. which is to why she is aking you to be "yourself."

Some guys tend to overdo things at times (without them realizing it).  Which make girls feel uncomfortable.

Hope this helps.

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #2 on: January 20, 2011, 09:20:51 PM »
hrmmm.
Try to disappear for a couple of days.  If she reaches out to you that might be your chance.  If she doesnt then youll have to either give up or try another game plan to win her heart.

You might be overwhelming her with too much affection. which is to why she is aking you to be "yourself."

Some guys tend to overdo things at times (without them realizing it).  Which make girls feel uncomfortable.

Hope this helps.

I don't know how to disappear thats the problem. If I do it, it will be unnatural..

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #3 on: January 20, 2011, 09:35:02 PM »
sadly, you can't make somebody fall for you.

kung ayaw nya talaga, hindi mo sya mapipilit dun.

i have been in relationships like that na di ko naman talaga sila mahal

napipilitan lang akong mahalin sila.

in the end, narealize ko na we are just wasting each other's time.

makakahanap kami ng taong nagmamahal talaga samen at mamahalin din namin.
"LiFe is shOrT" even if "pAtiEncE iS a virTuE", "timE is stiLL gOlD"

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #4 on: January 20, 2011, 09:40:20 PM »
sadly, you can't make somebody fall for you.

kung ayaw nya talaga, hindi mo sya mapipilit dun.

i have been in relationships like that na di ko naman talaga sila mahal

napipilitan lang akong mahalin sila.

in the end, narealize ko na we are just wasting each other's time.

makakahanap kami ng taong nagmamahal talaga samen at mamahalin din namin.

sana mahalin din niya ako.. ganon ba yun? hehe

any romantic ideas nalang? hehe

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #5 on: January 20, 2011, 10:47:59 PM »
that's my case lang naman..

siguro ang magandang romantic idea is gagawin mo lahat para sa kanya.

just your own presence lang siguro would be ok na..

if she really likes you naman, she will eventually fall for you.,

wag mo lang ipilit at baka ma-inis sya..

ganun kasi ako, kapag lalong pinipilit, lalo akong naiirita..
"LiFe is shOrT" even if "pAtiEncE iS a virTuE", "timE is stiLL gOlD"

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« Reply #6 on: January 21, 2011, 12:10:39 PM »
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Ha ha pareho tayo sis kapag lalong pinipilit lalong naiirita.

Hindi mo talaga pwedeng ipilit kung ayaw. Just be a friend and ipagdasal mo na kung makakabuti para sainyo maging kayo. Wag mong masyadong kulitin yung girl just make her feel na nadyan ka in case kailangan nya nang makakausap if God willing she will fall in love with you in God's time.

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #7 on: January 21, 2011, 12:17:59 PM »
yep, wag pilitin kung ayaw mong sya mismo ang umiwas.

naka-experience kase ako ng ganito..

naiinis ako, ako na mismo yung umiiwas sa kanya

kase mapilit sya masyado..

minsan, being friends is much OK than being lovers.

"LiFe is shOrT" even if "pAtiEncE iS a virTuE", "timE is stiLL gOlD"

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #8 on: January 21, 2011, 12:22:31 PM »
thanks girls... :)

pinagpepray ko nga lagi eh... she is the girl of my dreams. lahat ng gusto ko na sa kanya na :)

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #9 on: January 21, 2011, 12:33:22 PM »
wow.. sweet mo naman..

alam mo minsan, ayan na yung girl of our dreams natin e.

kaya nga lang ayaw naman saten

it only means na somebody is meant for us..

malay mo naman, makahanap ka pa ng higit sa kanya

yung mamahalin ka talaga..

higit sa lahat, masusuklian yung pagmamahal mo
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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #10 on: January 21, 2011, 07:42:11 PM »
wow.. sweet mo naman..

alam mo minsan, ayan na yung girl of our dreams natin e.

kaya nga lang ayaw naman saten

it only means na somebody is meant for us..

malay mo naman, makahanap ka pa ng higit sa kanya

yung mamahalin ka talaga..

higit sa lahat, masusuklian yung pagmamahal mo
gusto naman niya ako. she is just not in love yet. :) thinking of ways to captivate her heart :)

something that is better than her?? only God knows but for me she is the one :)

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #11 on: January 21, 2011, 08:10:08 PM »
LIKE and LOVE are two different terms nga naman.

Kung mamahalin ka man nya, wala kang dapat gawin.

Just stay the same..
"LiFe is shOrT" even if "pAtiEncE iS a virTuE", "timE is stiLL gOlD"

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #12 on: January 22, 2011, 01:38:47 AM »
LIKE and LOVE are two different terms nga naman.

Kung mamahalin ka man nya, wala kang dapat gawin.

Just stay the same..

thanks... :)

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #13 on: January 24, 2011, 01:31:23 PM »
For me, its the small details that endears a person to me.  Nung student pa ko, there was this guy na wala sya gano money pero he saved up para regaluhan ako ng codal sa crimlaw at civlaw. hehe so i was really touched. My bf waits for me minsan mga 3 up to 4 hours kasi sometimes nag oovertime ako. Or yung bibilhan ka ng water bottle kasi you complain na nauuhaw ka sa travel. or the fact that when you walk sa street he always stay on the danger side. yung mga ganung bagay.

Pero this is one effective way of getting her attention.  For several weeks shower her with attention. after a week, manahimik ka muna, be less attentive.  Mauuna yang hanapin ka. hehe good luck!

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #14 on: January 25, 2011, 10:33:07 AM »
Just be yourself.  She will love you for who you are.

And if you really are into her - just stick with her not matter what  :D Kahit inuubos pa nya pasensha mo, just smile and don't let her go...

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« Reply #15 on: January 30, 2011, 02:31:58 AM »
i agree with other sissess here. unfortunately, you cannot make someone fall in love with you. the feeling just comes naturally, at least in my case--with all that i have been in love with (bfs included)

for me, it all starts if someone and i have a connection. chemistry, is what they call it. if wala, nevermind. a guy can be soo gwapo, charming, intelligent and rich but if i don't feel any connection towards that person even a single bit, then all he is just another guy. admiration? possible. but attraction? love? cannot be forced, imho.

it's pretty much the same as saying you cannot help who you fall in love with/get attracted to.

if a girl likes a guy, she can magnify even the tiniest detail about him, or the simplest, most effortless of effort a guy can do (ex. a meaningless text greeting or a mere glance/grin will change the whole course of the day. hahaha); but there's a guy who can shower you all the gifts, the romantic dates, the sweetest words and the most clever of tactics known in courtship and a girl can still feel  :-\ :-\ :-\ nahhh. flattered, maybe.

then again, that's just me. siguro meron din namang ibang girls na madaling ma-develop if you play your cards right, who knows?

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #16 on: February 03, 2011, 04:14:06 AM »
If you wont disappear for a while at lagi ka nandyan hindi ka nya mamimiss. shell assume youll always be there so hindi nya [textspeak!] macocontemplate kung anong feelings nya sayo at di mo rin malalaman kaagad.

95.5 percent it works. (haha parang commercial ng sabon)

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Re: Making someone fall in love
« Reply #17 on: February 03, 2011, 10:48:39 AM »
guys just an update.. she is now my girlfriend :)

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« Reply #18 on: February 03, 2011, 05:11:31 PM »
guys just an update.. she is now my girlfriend :)

wow naman.... good to hear that... sa wakas, nagbunga rin efforts mo.
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« Reply #19 on: February 03, 2011, 08:43:24 PM »
yey. take good care of her then :)

 

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