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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #60 on: July 31, 2012, 12:50:19 PM »
ako naman, 4 months palang and i'm not happy na :( sa old company, ang tagal bago ko na-feel yung ganito pero dito, ang bilis. i thought this will be a good one pero sadly eh hindi pala. my boss is weird. medyo self-centered pati & parang kulang sa consideration. pag may mood swings, naku patay ka. guy pa naman pero grabe din manlait, well foreigner kasi pero kahit na, konting respect naman sa iba! i'm starting to look for a new job na. di na ko tatagal dito! praying na magkaroon ng new offer soon.
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #61 on: July 31, 2012, 05:44:09 PM »
ako naman mga sis 18 months nako dito sa work ko,sa team namin ako ang pinaka tenured, i am a candidate for promotion, 5 kami sa team yung supervisor ko is ka batch ko pero, pumasok sya dito sa company na higher post sya. ako level 2 . na promote na as team manager ang supervisor ko, so mag aangat ngayon ng ibang tao from the team, pero napansin ko mga sis, yung 4 na candidate for higher post eh may kanya kanyang task na inassign, pero sakin ni isa wala. Hindi ko maintindihan yun, so ang ginagawa ko, nagkukusa ako mag send ng report pati shift hand over, and updates. then yesterday nagkaron ng recognition, yung 3 kasabay ko for promotion lahat sila may award of appreciation pero ako sis wala, ok din naman ang attendance ko, i dnt understand. Tapos yung pagsisend ko ng report imbes na ma appreciate eh napasama pa. Wag na daw ako mag send ng reports and may email pa sa team namin na alam ba daw namin ang ibig sabihin nung mga reports na sinisend namin?parang gusto kong sabihin sa TL ko WTF!bakit mo pa ako gusto isama sa promotion pagkatapos wala akong task,i dnt understand mga sis kung pampalubag loob lang ba ang offer na to dahil tenured ako and pioneer sa company or wala lang choice. And di ko rin alam kung dapat ko pang ituloy ang ginagawa ko o hindi. Dahil dito gusto ko na mag quit , feeling ko nagmumuka akong katawa tawa sa team ko :'( :'( :-[

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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #62 on: August 09, 2012, 08:09:44 PM »
@jhandee
same tayo, ako yung pinaka-tenured, kaso yung 1 na ka-team ko higher post na sya nung pumasok siya, nung time na pumasok sya saka lang ako na-promote to the same level, by our boss1.

Then after a few years, we were expecting to get promoted again, 2-3 of them got promoted except me in 2010, malabo nga kasi yung 1 tamad and choosy sa tasks and walang dedicated project,
supposed to be helper/backup ko sya. Kesyo magaling daw, e aanhin mo ang galing ng tao kung di
mo naman effectively and efficiently mapakinabangan at maasahan, diba?

That year na-redundate yung boss1 namin, so naiwanan na talaga ako, forgotten.
Boss1 was a good boss who takes care of everyone although pagdating sakin eh delayed sya.
Another 2 years pa 2012, I never got promoted, instead I got redundated na,
kasabay kong na-redundate yung boss/friend na sumunod sa naunang boss1 namin.

For me, it was a good thing, for me and my boss/friend, kasi dead-end na careers namin dun.
And ayaw na namin yung culture, di na tulad ng dati nung kami pa and the pioneers who came and are gone na rin. Although kami yung pinaka-matagal, wala na kaming influence, kahit seniors pa kami. Di na kami nababagay dun.

Sabay kami pumasok ng company pero siya kasi sinuwerte sa mga naging boss nya.
In our stay, my friend got promoted 6 times, ako 1-3 times (2 realignments and 1 promotion).
When we started, I was 2 levels above my boss/friend, when we left, I was 2 levels below my boss/friend.

Swerte lang at di kami nag-resign, although balak na rin talaga namin.
Lalo na ako, stagnate nako dun eh. Sabi ko if I don't get promoted in 2012, lipat na by 2013.

They always say, you get promoted because of PERFORMANCE not TENURE.
Totoo naman yun. Pero kasi no one can do the things I do, but I do them well,
di lang nila feel that I am in fact doing my job well, not by their standards/methods.
Proven naman yun by my annual performance rating,
sad lang kasi I had no increase for 2 years that I did not get promoted.
Ok na sakin I did not get promoted kasi ang dating pa nun e
magkakautang na loob pako sa peers ko for helping me get promoted.
When sila rin ang hindrance for my non-promotion kasi they speak bad of me,
kasi di ako sipsip with them, and na brand nako ng kabilang team which is another story
(different skills/tasks/projects/people/shift-na mahirap talaga, na di nila pinagdaanan,
kaya they don't understand, years have passed na ito, and they never let me move on
from past mistakes. oh, magaling pa sila magblame, since taga-escalate lang sila)
Saka sobrang galing nila magbuhat ng sarili nilang bangko at magsaluhan sa isa't-isa.

BTW, our promotion cycle usually happens 2-3 yrs. Imagine my boss/friend, 6x.
Sometimes it's a budget issue also that they cannot promote everyone all at the same time.
Also, natuto na akong maging deadma sa paligid ko. Wala akong paki-alam in the sense na
I don't envy if they get promoted, but I speak up na lang my POVs and give feedbacks.
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #63 on: August 09, 2012, 09:26:38 PM »
1 month pa lang ako sa work and i want to quit my job. ang pinaka ayaw ko is pag may mali ka salary deduction kaagad. kahit na yung mga senior employees na nag work doon. nag ka mali pa nga.how much more ako, na bago lang. but i can't quit kasi may bond. if i resign may babayaran ako. kaya ang hirap mag get up every morning na hindi mo feel ang work. haissssttttt.....
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #64 on: August 10, 2012, 01:30:20 AM »
Ha? How do they compute the amount to deduct per mistake? Alam ko Meron Lang deductions for tardiness and under time, and also tax and contributions in SSS, ph, pagibig.
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #65 on: August 10, 2012, 04:50:48 PM »
kasi sis, we have sales and then pag namali ka sales sa pag encode sa system. automatic deduction na siya sa salary. kaya kailan mainggat pero hindi maiwasan mag kamali talaga even yung mga seniors employee nila nagkakamali pa nga,how much more ako na bago pa.haissstt
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #66 on: August 10, 2012, 06:37:01 PM »
is that even valid or legal? hindi na ba yun pwedeng maayos para naman hindi kayo ma-deduct-an? automated din ba deduction sa inyo? anlabo ah.
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #67 on: August 19, 2012, 07:15:38 PM »
when they interview me sis hindi sila nag discuss dyan.more on the good side in the company.when i started my work na.yun lumabas na ang totoo. kinausap ako ng head then she told me if i made a mistake sa pag encode.salary deduction. wala naman siya sa job contract yung salary deduction but verbal lang sinabe sa akin. which i don't like to happen mas prefer ko na lang e terminate niya ako than to pay.i want to resign but i can't do it cause nag sign ako nag bond for them.
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #68 on: August 21, 2012, 08:51:46 PM »
^ kaso pag-terminate naman, panget din sa record.

Ako inaayos ko nalang plan ko para maka-resign na ko. Sana magka-job offer na bago so i can resign ng mas maaga.. or pag napuno talaga ko sa sobrang inis, i'll leave na kaya gusto ko i-plan na rin para whichever man eh may plan ako na susundin.
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #69 on: August 22, 2012, 10:37:37 PM »
after 4 months of contemplating and wishing, i finally sent my resignation letter last monday. akala ko marerelax na ako but super bad trip pala muna ma-e-experience ko.

kanina i reached my boiling point. nakasagutan ko na ang amo ko at i dared him na sige, ok fine, hindi ko na gagawin yung pinapagawa nya at pinapaaga ko na ang resignation ko by the end of this month (i filed end of sept). talagang wala na ako pakialam kahit mawala na ako sa budget. sayang din yung extra one month na yun.

then he talked to me kase he can't let me go this time kasi pavacation yung kapalitan ko (at talagang mahirap humanap ng replacement), so i said ok, i'll stay till end of september.

wheeewww! what a day!
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #70 on: September 03, 2012, 07:42:24 AM »
when you DREAD going to work everyday.

when you dont enjoy Sundays anymore because it reminds you of the full workweek ahead.


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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #71 on: September 25, 2012, 12:30:54 PM »
yung isang sis parang kilala ko. hehe.

anyway, ako naman i end up the day the halfday i do personal stuff (though foreign countries may hawak samin)

Then i rush after 1pm... uuwi by 4pm or 5pm

I sent my resignation letter just now.

Issue kasi sa bahay kung aalis ako
Im a single mom, too.
Malaki sweldo dito.
May binabayaran akong monthly dues.

Hindi ko alam, but I felt I have to leave kasi lahat ng sinabi niyo eh nung february ko pa nararamdaman. Namatayan ako, walang nakiramay.


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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #72 on: November 15, 2012, 09:32:33 PM »
^^tama fibia.. when you DREAD to go to work.

ganyan din kasi ako. minsan hinihila ko na lang sarili ko.

its not about the pay nga eh. it's more about hitting the 1 year then move on.

oh well.... 2 months na lang and im done na. :)

though seriously i cant wait to move on.

nagaapply apply na nga. wala pa naman talaga.

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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #73 on: November 16, 2012, 09:25:13 AM »
Minsan parang ayoko mag resign, kasi feeling ko I wil be accepting defeat instead of taking on the challenges in my current workplace.  ::)
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #74 on: November 16, 2012, 11:50:15 AM »
i am already decided na by dec. i plan to send my resignation. but i know i still need to wait 1month for clearance.

ano po ba expectation within 1 month clearance period?
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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #75 on: November 20, 2012, 02:01:29 AM »
One sign you should quit your job is if a much better opportunity already presented itself that you don't expect to be matched by your current employer in the next two years.

Sometimes, ganun  lang talaga... nahinog ka na kumbaga and ready for the next step.

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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #76 on: December 07, 2012, 05:09:47 AM »
i quit my job, kasi nabully ako! para lagi ako pinaguusapan ka pailalim alam mo yun feeling
wala ka naman ginagawa sa kanila, kasi tahimik ka lang?

tapos ngaun iniinggit pa rin ako kasi gumanda ang benefits ng company, so what! mas malapit naman
ako sa work ngaun wala masyado pressure... sana sa office my stop bullying din, wait ka na lang sa karma mo! lech.. >:( >:( >:(

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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #77 on: December 07, 2012, 09:07:31 AM »
- you don't feel appreciated
- walang growth
- no sense of belongingness
- mas kailangan ka ng family mo
- pag may better opportunity

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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #78 on: December 11, 2012, 03:37:27 AM »
Agree ako sa first post hehe pero para sa akin isa sa mga naging dahilan ko yung realization na eto na ba talaga ang gusto kong gawin sa buhay ko? Kahit kaya ko ma-handle yung trabaho kahit stressful at ok lang din un salary kahit di kataasan, matagal ko rin inisip na ito ba yung gusto ko?

Dumating ako sa point na ok lang ang lahat, neutral, pero hindi ko masabing masaya ako saka di rin naman kasi yun ang trabahong pinangarap ko, kung tutuusin medyo kakaiba nga na naging yun ang trabaho ko  at napromote pa ako considering tahimik at medyo introvert ako wahahha kaya yun nakakaliberate din un feeling nun nagresign ako.

Dapat talaga pag-isipan mabuti, hindi dahil bugso lang ng damdamin at may kagalit at kinaiinisan kang katrabaho o kung anuman. Kung di ka na masaya, bakit mo pa sasayangin yung oras mo eh andami daming possibilities na pede pang mangyari. Minsan kasi nakakalimutan natin na isipin na aside sa gastos at kung ano ang iisipin ng iba pag sinabi mo na kesyo wala ka pa work etc. nakakalimutan natin yung sarili natin. Kung ano ba ang gusto mo, sabi nga nila Life is short, bakit di mo susbukan na i-achieve yung mga bagay na gusto mo pang magawa kesa isipin kung ano ang tinigin ng ibang tao sa iyo.


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Re: Signs You Should Quit Your Job
« Reply #79 on: December 20, 2012, 08:03:55 PM »
tingin ko kung palagi di nabibigay ang Christmas Bonus,walang Benefits..sa pinsan ko 2 beses na pasko wala sila bonus.dati kalahati lang ang nabigay,tapos di pa sila pinapasok ng 2 weeks yata kasi wala ibabayad..ngayon wala talagang 13th mo.Pay,4 days bago pasko saka sinabi.wawa naman pinsan ko pamilyado pa naman pati mga officemates niya pamilyado rin.tapos ganyan lang..totoo lang di nga binabayaran ng company nila yung SSS/philhealth nila,wala rin mga incentives.isang beses lang nagkaron yata sila ng libre vaccine nung uso yung AH1N1.yun lang wala na..dapat talaga ireklamo ito..

 

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