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Author Topic: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?  (Read 13643 times)

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #20 on: December 05, 2010, 05:11:27 PM »
m_lim, sa lahat ng kakilala ko na nagkwento sa akin about kabit-related stories, I always advise them to "secure the money". What do I mean? Mostly ng mga kabit pera ang habol nyan. Mabuhay ng higit pa sa kaya nila, to support their family, makatulong sa pamilya, at kung ano ano pang money related reasons kung bakit sila nagiging kabit.

In your story, like what you said, pera ng tatay mo ang gamit nya for all her needs and nakapasok na sya sa company ng tatay mo. In a way, may idea na sya kung magkano ang perang pumapasok sa bulsa ng tatay mo. Sabagay, for 18years ba naman.

Nabanggit mo din na may sakit ka. Secure the money. Save save save. Kung hindi mo mamulat ang mata ng tatay mo, the best thing that you can do is prepare for your future. Yung mga property nyo make sure na it is still under your name. Praning na kung praning pero unahan mo na sya bago pa nya maubos ang lahat.

Don't try to compete or higitan mo sya. You don't have to do that. She is p*kp0k, PERIOD.

It's ok na asarin mo sya by fashion and travelling pero bago ka din gumastos ng gumastos, make you sure that you save enough. Baka kasi hindi mo napansin kayong dalawa na ang nakaubos sa pera ng tatay mo.

God bless, sis! :)

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #21 on: December 05, 2010, 06:19:20 PM »
cherrhys- ay nako sinabi mo pa. super galing manulsol. kaso ang masakit nga eh, kahit hindi naman kapani paniwala mga kwento niya, pinaniniwalaan ng tatay ko.

i think ang tingin kasi ng tatay ko sa kanya, siya yung api. siya yung kawawa. kasi nga pati mga kamaganak namin, hindi siya feel. dati nga lola ko nakatira sa kanila pero nung tumagal, nakita rin totoong ugali. kaya sinabihan ng lola ko na "hoy! nakalimutan mo na san ka nanggaling?! etc etc"

as usual, tingin ng dad ko lola ko may problema kasi matanda na kaya masungit. si kabit mukang kawawa nanaman.

badmonkey- of course naman before i spend, i make sure may enough savings ako just in case ano man mangyari. hindi pwedeng kami ng sister ko maging kawawa sa huli.

but shempre minsan nakakapikon lang like magmamalasakit ako na magtipid tipid muna kasi marami rin expenses dad ko tapos makikita mo sila naman panay gastos, edi sabi ko sa sister ko, bakit tayo mahiya humingi tapos sila gagastos?? no way!

kakainis lang coz kunyari hihirit ako sa dad ko for cash diba, eh shempre kinekwento naman niya kay kabit kaya siguro gumagawa rin yan ng paraan para makahirit!

pero everytime may chance ako, sinisilip ko bank account niyan. hindi naman ganun kalaki kasi sa tingin ko takot rin tatay ko bigyan yan ng cash na malaki kasi nga may history ng panlalalaki. but kinakatakot ko lang, baka bigyan yan ng isang property sa huli.

coz kwento daw niya sa isang uncle ko, para sa kabit nga daw yun small house kasi alam nga na talagang babanatan ko yan pag wala na siya.

ang hirap diba? kasi mga kamag anak namin, sulsol din yan left and right saken. hindi mo alam sinong kakampi mo. kaya ako wala akong pinapaniwalaan sa kanilang lahat.

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #22 on: December 07, 2010, 01:12:56 PM »
 ;)
« Last Edit: January 06, 2013, 08:17:11 PM by ysa.belle »
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #23 on: December 07, 2010, 04:33:11 PM »
^i saw that. nahuli yata ng wife si husband with the mistress. nakakahiya. nilampaso ang kabit.
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #24 on: December 07, 2010, 04:42:51 PM »
 ;)
« Last Edit: January 06, 2013, 08:16:53 PM by ysa.belle »
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #25 on: December 07, 2010, 06:25:28 PM »
yeah, napanuod ko nga yan! haha!

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #26 on: December 07, 2010, 06:55:10 PM »
Speaking of fb, gawa ka kaya ng ibang account tapos iadd mo [textspeak!] kabit ng Dad mo, pati friends niya para may common friends kayo. Pag hindi ka pa rin inadd icopy mo nalang [textspeak!] pic ng isa sa mga friends niya para baka sakaling iadd ka.

Tapos, pag na-add ka na, ayan na. Itag na, lagyan ng caption na "KABIT" or whatever hehe...

Gagawin ko to sa kabit ng tatay ko.
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #27 on: December 08, 2010, 05:24:00 PM »
wala na yata yung video,sayang di ko napanood,hehe
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #28 on: December 08, 2010, 09:45:40 PM »
It's in youtube. 

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #29 on: December 09, 2010, 10:06:34 AM »
^what happen next kaya dun sa nabugbug na kabit? talaga bang di nya alam na may asawa na yung panget na guy?
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #30 on: December 09, 2010, 10:31:06 AM »
wala na yata yung video,sayang di ko napanood,hehe

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=184622828219186

here is the video sis, hindi ko alam if sino nagupload nito but pwedeng magcomment, mga 5,000 na ata yung nagcomment at hindi na ako nag back read ng mga comment nila sa sobrang dami.

^what happen next kaya dun sa nabugbug na kabit? talaga bang di nya alam na may asawa na yung panget na guy?

baka nasa sulok at takot na takot na sa wife.
« Last Edit: December 09, 2010, 10:35:42 AM by ysa.belle »
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #31 on: December 09, 2010, 10:40:45 AM »
Speaking of fb, gawa ka kaya ng ibang account tapos iadd mo [textspeak!] kabit ng Dad mo, pati friends niya para may common friends kayo. Pag hindi ka pa rin inadd icopy mo nalang [textspeak!] pic ng isa sa mga friends niya para baka sakaling iadd ka.

Tapos, pag na-add ka na, ayan na. Itag na, lagyan ng caption na "KABIT" or whatever hehe...

Gagawin ko to sa kabit ng tatay ko.

May picture ka ba ng kabit ng father mo sis?
Try this:

If you have a picture of her, scan mo tapos sa taas nung picture niya lagay mo: MAG-IINGAT SA KABIT in capital & bold letters.

tapos sa baba nung picture niya lagay mo buong name & address niya. Photocopy mo & post mo sa poste of sa kung saan pwede. Pwede mo rin pamigay as "flyers" kuno. Pwede mo rin pakisuyuan ang mga jeepney drivers na ilagay sa mga jeep nila,  bigyan mo nalang ng P50 yung driver pang merienda.

And if you know where she lives, post mo sa gate nila or padala mo sa nanay niya as MAIL/LBC and sa mga kakilala niya. If she works naman, sa workplace niya mo ipost o ipamigay.  ;D
♥ Life is a journey from one point to another. You know where you will end up, but you don't know what route will get you there... ♥
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #32 on: December 09, 2010, 11:15:03 AM »
ika nga "Act like a mistress to beat up a Mistress" sana karmahin ang mga yan
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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #33 on: December 09, 2010, 12:30:35 PM »
sana may website or blogs para sa mga kabit. :)

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #34 on: December 10, 2010, 12:24:54 PM »
sis m_lim, naku. sakit sa ulo yang kabit ng tatay mo. mabuti pa magpalakas (sipsip) ka kay daddy mo. then give him gifts, ipagluto mo etc. then tingnan mo kung makikiride si kabit. that way, naging sweet ka na, ganda points pa kay daddy.  ;D

kung lalaban pa din, paplastic ka din sa harap ni daddy. kunwari bait baitan ka. then pag siya yung nangismid sayo, eh di ikaw ngayon ang paawa effect kay daddy. bwahaha. kung di carry ng powers mo, simpleng painggit na lang na di nya talaga kaya. wild imaginations lang naman ito. hehe. parang ang sarap lang din kasing manginis lalo na sa ganyang personality ng kinakasama ng daddy mo.  ::)
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« Reply #35 on: December 11, 2010, 09:23:23 AM »
^thanks iristacey! well, wala naman akong choice kundi pakisamahan ang tatay ko. hindi ko naman kasi siya pwede palitan ano!
as for the kabit, sinabi ko naman sa dad ko matagal na kahit mamatay ako, hindi ko matatanggap yan.

so ngayon, sa araw araw na ginawa ng Diyos, kailangan kong sikmurahin pagmumuka niya at deadmahin. hay buhay!

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #36 on: December 11, 2010, 12:38:30 PM »
m_lim, i feel for you. at kumukulo ang dugo ko kapag pinapalabas ng lalaki na yung kabit pa yung kawawa >:( they'll say na mabait naman yung other woman, unfair that people don't like her, blah blah. ikaw pa yung lalabas na masama if you get mad at the kabit. eh helllloooo?!? mang-aagaw siya ng asawa! ano dapat, best friends kayo? ::)

i just saw the vid on facebook. may moves si legal wife ha, parang MMA!

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Re: inggiterang kabit. anong magandang gawin?
« Reply #37 on: December 11, 2010, 01:10:47 PM »
m_lim, parang nascan ko na, may anak na ang tatay at the other girl, tama ba?
if so, may right na din yung mga anak nila sa mamanahin mo, so might as well, paghandaan mo un kesa the b****.

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« Reply #38 on: December 11, 2010, 06:59:13 PM »
betty- they have 3 kids. pero yung 2 sa amin lumaki. yung 1, sa kanila. although same village kami ha! pero hindi niya pinapasama yung 1 sa amin. sabi nga nila eh--ginagamit niya yung bata para lalong maglambing sa dad ko.

at eto pa. yung 2 nasa amin, sabi sabi rin na hindi anak ng dad ko. pwedeng true kasi maiitim sila at ang lalaki ng mata. hello? singkit at maputi kaya tatay ko. eh yung 1 na nasa kabila, kuhang kuha face ng tatay ko.

possible kasi nga ilang beses na nahuli na nanglalalaki si kabit. pulis nga daw.

ang tanong ko nga, eh kung mapatunayan ko ba na hindi talaga sila anak, may makukuha parin sila?

pero alam mo, hindi ko rin siguro matitiis yung dalawa. dahil sa amin lumaki eh.

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« Reply #39 on: December 11, 2010, 08:06:53 PM »
legally speaking if mapatunayan na hindi talaga sila anak ng dad mo, wala sila makukuha ni singkong duling. EXCEPT kung may LAST WILL AND TESTAMENT, indicating they will have this and that.

hirap talaga ng sitwasyon noh, ok na sana, except for the "abnormal" woman. ganyan talaga, may mga tao talaga na hindi marunong ilagay ang sarili nila sa tamang lugar.

 

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