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« Reply #520 on: May 22, 2012, 11:52:04 AM »
Mommy, thank you for everything. Isa lang naman medyo di ko like sa yo... may tendency ka makialam. I know you mean well pero sana i-lessen mo kasi adults na naman kami. Capable na rin naman kami mag-decide for our own good. Pag ginawa mo yan, I'm sure mas magkakasundo kayo ng isang anak mo, ni BIL #1. :)  Pero sobrang thankful ako sa inyo ni Daddy kasi ang bait-bait ng anak nyo. :)

Daddy, salamat sa pag-take ng pictures at videos ni baby. ang sakit na siguro ng leeg mo sa dami ng SLR na nakasabit. kung ano-ano pang lens ang nakakabit. Cool ka talaga. Sana magmana si baby sa katalinuhan mo... pero wag sa kadaldalan mo. ;D

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« Reply #521 on: May 22, 2012, 01:07:48 PM »
to my BIL:  I wish you would stand up for your son.  Ikaw na nga ang niloko ng asawa mo at pumatol sya sa ibang lalaki, tapos ngayon ikaw ang pinapalabas pa nyang nagloloko.  Kinukuha nya son nyo pero wala naman sya sa Pilipinas.  Papaalaga lang nya sa parents nya.  Mas hamak naman may karapatan ka sa bata kesa sa mga lolo at lola lang.  Pero bakit ka pumayag?  Di ko alam if maiinis na ako o hahanga sa yo. Dito lang kami if you need support.  Sobra na yang bait mo kaya ginaganyan ka ng wife mo.  Paglaban mo anak mo.  He needs you.

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« Reply #522 on: May 24, 2012, 02:00:35 AM »
Nakakatuwa naman tong topic na to halo halo emotions hehe...talagang me friction sa mga inlaws hehe... Nakikicomment lang ako ..hihi
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« Reply #523 on: May 24, 2012, 02:17:58 AM »
Mommy, nagtatampo na ang anak mo sa'yo. Sabi mo ng mawala si tatay, wag ka namin pababayaan dahil nasa adjustment period ka pa. Niyaya ka namin mag out of town, pumayag ka naman. Nung dumating yung time na aalis na tayo, may gagawin ka pala. Naiinitindihan kita kung talagang di mo pwede ipagpaliban yung lakad mo, pero yung anak mo na sobrang matampuhin, ay nagtatampo na naman. :P

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« Reply #524 on: May 24, 2012, 06:44:11 PM »
To SIL: ang bilis-bilis mo mag text pag hihingi ka ng pera at pag inaask ang account number mo. Pero ni thank you or confirmation na nakuha nyo na ang money hindi nyo na makuhang itext? Wow ha, kakapal nyo din.

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« Reply #525 on: May 25, 2012, 05:27:01 AM »
to my sil: wag mo gawin yaya ang yaya ni ava, okay lang sana kung inabutan mo yung bata kaso ni pang load di mo mabigyan.  pag umalis yun naku wala naman kayong makuha na kapalit laging si nanay ang naghahanap ng yaya wala kasi kayong effort. 
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« Reply #526 on: May 25, 2012, 09:00:47 AM »
sobrang dami kong gustong sabihin sa inyong lahat!..

MIL: nang dahil sayo nag over kami sa budget ni husband!Sa kagustuhan namin na makasama ka sa church wedding namin sa June, nag civil lang muna kami ng March only to find out few days before the June wedding na hindi ka uuwi!at dahil sa anong dahilan?!dahil paso na ang passport mo?Goodness para sa isang tao na uuwi ng Pinas, I supposed na ang una mo dapat tiningnan eh ang passport mo.How come na kung kelan malapit na ang church wedding eh saka mo sasabihin na paso na pala ang passport mo kaya hindi ka na lang uuwi.Hindi mo man lang inisip na si Hubby ang unang anak mo at ang bukod tanging anak mo na nag pursige mag pakasal sa simbahan!Hindi mo man lang inalala ang kagustuhan nya na makasama ka sa araw na yun.Hindi ako naniniwala sayo!hindi mo ba muna tiningnan ang passport mo bago ka nagsabi samin dati na uuwi ka para sa kasal?hindi yung binitin mo kaming lahat!at isa pa, mag pakatino ka ngang nanay!nag work ka abroad pero hindi ka man lang makapag padala ng para sa mga anak mo dito!lahat ng responsibilidad mo sa apat mong anak ipinasa mo sa nanay mo!anung klase ka?!sarili mo lang ang iniisip mo. At ANAK mo din ang ASAWA ko!pag para sa bday o dinyag ng mga apo mo sa ibang anak mo nag kukusa kang magpadala kahit konti..pero para sa kasal ng sarili mong anak wala ka na ngang maibigay binigo mo pa siya na makasama ka.kagigil ka alam mo yun?!

GrandMother In Law: Ok ikaw na nga ang nag palaki sa husband ko at super na appreciate ko naman yun..pero pwede ba wag naman masyadong atribida?anung akala mo sa amin mapera para pati yung isusuot niyong lahat sa kasal namin eh sagutin ko pa?alam ko ayaw mo na mag church wedding pa kami..pero ang masasabi ko lang; wala kang karapatan kumontra dahil kahit isang sentimo hindi ka naman nag labas para sa kasal namin na ito!Hindi kita hinihingan..ang tanging gagawin mo lang eh mag punta at maging witness sa kasal ng apo..ano pa bang nirereklamo mo?!at pwede ba wag kunsitidor sa mga maling attitude ng ibang apo mo..kasalanan mo kung bakit hindi lumaking responsable ang mother ni hubby..kasi kunsintidor ka kahit mali na ang ginagawa.Wag mo turuan maging iresponsible ang asawa ko to the point na sasabihin mo siyang wag na akong pupuntahan sa hospital nung makunan ako dahil andun naman ang parents ko!


SIL: At ikaw naman mahadera ka wag ka ng dagdag sa stress.isa ka pang nakikisawsaw at nakikisabit sa mga gastusin. halagang P200 para sa Barong at shirt ng anak mo na abay gusto mo pa kami ang sumagot?!ang kapal mo naman!may trabaho kayong mag asawa.at isa pa..maintindihan ko pa sana yan kung mga tipong kahapon niyo lang nalaman na abay ang anak mo eh!eh my God!isang taon na yang sinasabi snyo..You knew very well na mag papakasal kami kaya hindi ko maintindihan kung bakit ang dami niyo mga sinasabi.wala na nga kayong maitulong mga dagdag perwisyo pa kayo!

Uncle in Law
; isa ka pa ding makapal ang mukha.nakikiusap kami sayo na baka pwede yung sasakyan mo na lang (na hindi naman talaga sayo kundi sa father mo) ang gamitin nung civil wedding namin.Nag offer pa kami na babayaran ka and even offer to shoulder the gas for christ sake!pero wala kang pake db?!pinabayaan mo kami na mag rent ng mas mahal na sasakyan para mag magamit ang side niyo.At ngayon church wedding ayaw mo pa rin dalin yung sasakyan?pwes No matter what hindi ko na kayo ikukuha ng sasakyan!manigas kayong lahat..mga letche!wala na akong pake kung mag trycle kayo papunta sa kasal or kahit hindi kayo mag punta..

I'am not born to please you People!I'am no fool.I can't live up to your expectations when what you're doing is way too much than I can handle.I can think. and I think you're not in any position to demand!

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« Reply #527 on: May 27, 2012, 01:59:21 PM »
Can I please have my own life now, fall in love and get married again? 3years na po patay yung anak/kapatid ninyo? Magastos ang umuwi sa Manila 2-3x/yr. Hindi naman ako mayaman, pinagkakayuran ko din po yan, yet I choose to do so because I love you and we have a good relationship which I am thankful for. Thankful na rin naman ako kasi pinapayagan ninyo akong lumabas paminsan minsan and leave my daughter with you although umuuwi naman ako bago mag hatinggabi sa 2-3 weeks that I stay with you kada uwi ko sa inyo.

Can I fall in love and not feel guilty about it? Not a day goes by when I dont think about 'him' (dead hubby) and wish sana buhay pa siya, but hindi naman pwede na for life ganun na lang, kasi I have finally accepted na hindi na siya babalik pa. And now that someone loves me and wants to be with me, sana respetuhin ninyo ang desisyon ko. I am tired of being alone and lonely. I want to be happy again. Hindi ko po kakalimutan yung anak /kapatid ninyo kasi he is part of me, tatay pa rin siya ng kaisa-isa kong anak. And tungkol dun sa anak ko, please naman, tulad ng sabi ni MIL before na pag mag-aasawa ako ulit eh babawiin ninyo anak ko from me...eh babawiin talaga ha? Anak KO po yun, sa akin nanggaling. Kung sa pakiramdam ninyo eh inagaw ko yung anak ninyo(asawa ko) from you when he married me, eh sorry po...plus alam ko masama talaga loob ninyo when I choose na dito siya sa probinsya ko ilibing. Ako po yung kabiyak ng anak ninyo. The day he married me, sa akin na ang obligasyon at buong buhay niya. At patay na po siya, wala na tayong magagawa dun...except for you to respect my decision to be happy again. Kung makakapagsalita lang si dead hubby, I know gusto niya ako maging happy again and to have someone who will love me AND our daughter for him....

God has indeed blessed the broken road that led me straight to YOU
 

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« Reply #528 on: May 28, 2012, 06:56:15 AM »
To my IL's,

I don't really hate you that much but I just don't like you and I can't take every time I see you!
I don't even want my child to be with you!  :-X

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« Reply #529 on: May 28, 2012, 07:20:12 AM »
kainis talaga ka kj-an mo....sinabi na sa inyo na mamasyal dahil merong may bday, di ka naman gagasta sasama ka lang ang dami mo lagi sinasabi walang oras na wala kayo kumento.... nakakasira kayo ng araw....napaka NEGASTAR!!!!
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« Reply #530 on: May 28, 2012, 09:09:06 AM »
to MIL:

you are full of dramatics! dapat nag-artista ka na lang! kakainis yun post mo sa Fb mo,, napapahiya yun mga anak mo.. sana you think before you post something on your Fb wall

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« Reply #531 on: May 30, 2012, 01:49:36 AM »
How come every time there's a problem, you always ask my husband to cover for the mean time? Why don't you go and talk to your other kids? Isnt it enough na binaon nyo sa credit card utang ang husband ko na kinelangan namin bayaran using our own money dahil ni isa sainyo walang makapaglabas ng pangbayad? Ni hinde nga namin kayo sinigil, kahit sino sainyo. Chaka you all have cellphones and as far as I know, your body parts are all working and complete, why do you always have to bother my husband to talk to this, talk to that when YOU ARE ALL WELL CAPABLE of doing those things by yourselves. Pangpadagdag pa kayo sa iisipin ng husband ko eh you guys are not a bunch of invalids. Chaka just so you know, hinde na uubra yang mga parinig parinig sa husband ko na kulang ang ganto, kulang ang ganyan because in all honesty, he spent all of his money on his savings account sa kakabayad ng mga luho ninyong walang katuturan. Meralco bill, water bill, cable bill, tuition, kung ano-ano, pag hinde nakakapgbigay yung naka-assign magbayad, aba husband ko ang magpupuno. For the longest time nakikinabang kayo sa money ng asawa ko pero pag may problema kame, may nakakatulong ba sainyo kahit isa ha? Asenso kayo ah, tumigil-tigil kayong lahat jan at baka magkasingilan tayong lahat dito. Kahit kelan hinde na kayo makakatikim ng pera na para sa anak ko and para sa savings namin. It;s enough we spent so much on your unpaid bills, wala kayo masusumbat samin kaya please lang tantanan nyo kame ng drama nyo ha. Lech3!
« Last Edit: May 30, 2012, 01:54:57 AM by twelvth_goddess »
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« Reply #532 on: May 30, 2012, 02:38:56 PM »
salamat mama sa pag intindi ganun din si daddy.
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« Reply #533 on: May 30, 2012, 05:36:30 PM »
Buti nga sayo nagkasugat ka sa tuhod hahaha! Ang bilis naman ng karma sayo, sa harap ko pa!  ;D

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« Reply #534 on: May 30, 2012, 11:56:51 PM »
ayaw talaga kitang kasama sa lakad. para kang excess baggage!
i don't care how many mistakes i made in the past and will be making in the future... for as long as you're here, i'll always be reminded that somehow...... i choose to be right....... :)

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« Reply #535 on: June 01, 2012, 05:11:49 PM »
so excited to finally makasama ka sa bahay.bakasyon ka sa amin ma,but kinakabahan din ako....
I'm living my life the way I want!

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« Reply #536 on: June 01, 2012, 11:25:51 PM »
I know madi-disappoint ka, but I would rather not have you join us tomorrow. Magcha-chaga na lang ako mag-drive from Paraaque pabalik if ever makuha namin what we're supposed to get tomorrow.
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« Reply #537 on: June 04, 2012, 04:45:15 PM »
Dear MIL;

Sana wag ka na ma wrong send sa akin na sabi sabi mo hindi kami nag aabot ng pera at hindi kami nakakatulong sa gastusin mo kasi kakapagawa lang namin ng bakod mo. 

Wag nyo po kaming siraan sa mga mababait kong brother in laws kasi ok kami.  Ganun din po kasi ang sinasabi nyo sa amin na hindi sila nakakatulong.  Puro OFW po mga anak nyo at nag skype silang 3 lahat naman pala sila nag share at lahat sabi nyo sa bawat isa hindi nag aabot.

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Nung ma wrong send lang sya with the name of my hubby...natawa ako kasi sabi nya sa akin nung pinadala ko back to her yung text. =" Ay disregard mo hindi para sa iyo yan"

Hehehheheh Epic Fail si mader

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« Reply #538 on: June 06, 2012, 03:45:20 PM »
i appreciate you being all knowing but you know, older doesnt mean wiser
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« Reply #539 on: June 10, 2012, 06:01:55 PM »
MIL,

sana, lets put the past behind. kaya ayaw ka din kakwentuhan ng nanay ko kasi yung mga nakaraan binabalik mo  pa. never ending na lang. hindi naman tama na isisi mo sa akin na nagkamali ako noon, kung ano man ang wrong decisions na anak nio ngayon. buhay niya yan, may sarili siang discernment.
ang lagay, every time magkakamali anak nio, sa akin nio isisisi? unfair naman yun. kung may problema ka sa akin, sabihin mo sa akin ng direcho hindi yung kani kanino mo sinasabi. kaya wala akong gana sa inyo. you ve been talking behind my back. sabi nga ng asawa ko, opinyon nyo yan. tama naman sia. wag daw akong mahold back. kung gusto ko daw mag extra mile sa inyo. sabi ko sa anak nio, wala akong hinohold back. yan na yung todo ko. beyond that, kaplastikan na yun.

truly,
DIL

 

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